Enneagram Type and Wing 9w8

Ingram787 • 6/18/2024 2:19:01 PM

Are you a 9w8 and often misunderstood? Let’s break the myths together! Share the common misconceptions others have about your Enneagram type and how you effectively overcome them. Do people often mistake your desire for peace as complacency or your assertiveness as aggression? 🧐 Your insights can help others navigate these challenges and grow. Ready to debunk some myths? Join the conversation and enlighten us all! 💬#Enneagram9w8 #MisunderstoodMyths #PersonalGrowth

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Beckett454 • 6/18/2024 4:41:38 AM

I'm a 9w8, and I'm struggling with balancing my desire for peace with asserting myself. I often find myself avoiding conflict to keep the peace, but this leaves me feeling unheard and frustrated. When I try to assert myself, I worry about coming off too strong or aggressive because of my 8 wing. How can I find a middle ground that allows me to express my needs without feeling like I'm causing tension or conflict? Any advice on communicating more effectively would be appreciated. 🙏 #enneagram9w8 #conflictresolution #selfexpression

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Ulysses121 • 6/17/2024 6:08:13 PM

I'm curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8. How do you balance the desire for peace (Type 9) with the assertive energy of an 8 wing? Do you find that the 8 wing helps you stand up for yourself more, or does it create internal conflict? Also, how do you navigate relationships and settings where confrontation might arise? I'd love to hear personal experiences and any strategies you use for embracing both sides of your type and wing. 😊 #Enneagram #9w8 #InnerConflict #PersonalGrowth #PeaceAndPower

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Nick • 6/16/2024 11:19:38 AM

As a 9w8, I’m struggling with balancing my desire for peace and conflict avoidance with the assertive nature of my 8 wing. I often find myself in situations where I either withdraw to avoid confrontation or suddenly react too forcefully when my boundaries are crossed. This inconsistency is affecting my relationships and self-esteem. How can I learn to assert myself calmly and maintain inner peace without swinging to extremes? Any tips or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! 🌼

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MyEverythingIsGrande • 6/16/2024 1:30:14 AM

I've been exploring Enneagram Type 9w8 and am curious about how others experience this dynamic combination. How do you balance the peace-seeking nature of Type 9 with the assertiveness of the 8 wing? Do you find that the 8 wing ever dominates your Type 9 tendencies, causing inner conflict or stress? How does this combo impact your relationships and decision-making? Any tips on harnessing the strengths of both while managing potential downsides? 🌟

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heisenberg_blue • 6/15/2024 1:29:53 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 Been diving deep into the Enneagram lately and I'm super curious about the 9w8 type. I understand that Type 9, The Peacemaker, aims for inner stability and peace, while the 8 wing, The Challenger, brings assertiveness and a desire for control. 🌿💥 For those of you who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you experience this unique blend of energies? How do you balance the peaceful, accommodating nature of the 9 with the assertive, protective tendencies of the 8 wing? 🧘‍♂️💪 I’m particularly interested in how this dynamic plays out in conflict situations or when setting boundaries. How do you navigate these potentially opposing drives? Any real-life examples or personal insights would be incredibly helpful! Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts and experiences! 🙏🌟 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalGrowth #ConflictResolution

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SharkWeek • 6/14/2024 1:13:41 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm curious about the dynamics of the 9w8. Could anyone share their personal experiences or insights on this specific type and wing combination? How do you balance the often conflicting energies of the peaceful 9 and the assertive 8 in daily life? Do you find that one part of this dynamic tends to dominate more than the other, or is there a natural equilibrium? Also, how do you handle conflicts and assert your needs while maintaining your core desire for peace and harmony? Any tips or examples would be greatly appreciated! 🙌 Thanks in advance! 💬✨

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JadeContinuum • 6/14/2024 3:54:32 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the experiences of those who identify as a 9w8. As a Type 9 with an 8 wing, there seems to be a fascinating blend of peacemaking and assertiveness. How do you navigate the balance between your desire for harmony and the influence of the assertive 8 wing? Do you find it challenging to assert your boundaries or do you feel empowered by the 8’s strength? I'd love to hear your stories, insights, and any strategies you use to harmonize these potentially contrasting aspects of your personality. How does the 9w8 dynamic show up in your relationships, work, or personal growth journey? Thanks in advance for sharing! 🙏✨ #Enneagram #9w8 #Type9 #Wing8 #SelfGrowth #PersonalityJourney

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QuantumPhoenix • 6/13/2024 5:33:01 PM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8. As a Type 9, I'm naturally inclined toward peace and avoiding conflict, but I've read that the 8 wing can introduce a more assertive and sometimes confrontational element into the mix. How do these seemingly opposing forces typically interact in real life? 🧐 For those of you who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you balance the desire for peace with the more aggressive traits of the 8 wing? Do you find it challenging to maintain harmony without compromising on personal boundaries and assertiveness? I'd love to hear your experiences, any useful strategies, or insights you've gained. Thank you! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Personality #SelfAwareness

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StrawberryShortcake • 6/13/2024 7:33:27 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm diving deeper into my Enneagram journey and I'm curious about the 9w8 subtype. I understand that Type 9 is known as "The Peacemaker," striving for inner and outer peace, while the 8 wing adds assertiveness and a strong presence into the mix. I'm looking for insights, personal experiences, or resources that delve into how these two dynamics interplay. How does the 8 wing influence the typically easygoing nature of a 9? Do you find that the 8 wing helps in setting boundaries or asserting oneself better? Additionally, what challenges do 9w8s typically face, especially in conflict situations? Any advice on how to nurture the healthy aspects of both types while mitigating potential downsides would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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