Category: Understanding the Enneagram
Are you curious about your Enneagram type?
N NebulousNightingale • 5/18/2024 12:55:55 PM
Hello everyone! 😊 I recently discovered that I'm an Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9), and I'm curious about how others with this type navigate their daily lives. One thing I'm particularly interested in is finding the balance between the assertiveness of the 8 and the peacefulness of the 9. How do you manage to stay true to your strong-willed, protective nature while also embracing a calmer, more harmonious approach? Additionally, are there any specific strategies you use to prevent internal conflicts that may arise from these seemingly opposing traits? How do you ensure that your desire for control doesn't overshadow your inclination for peace and vice versa? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and tips! 🌟 Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #8w9 #Balance #InnerPeace
E EcoChampion • 5/18/2024 6:24:55 AM
Hello everyone! 🌟 I've been delving into the world of Enneagram and am particularly curious about the Type 8w9. I understand that Type 8s, known as the Challengers, are characterized by their assertiveness, strength, and desire for control, while the 9 wing introduces a more peace-seeking and accommodating aspect. For those of you who identify as 8w9: - How do you balance the assertiveness of the Type 8 with the desire for peace from the Type 9 wing? 🤔 - Are there specific situations where you feel the influence of one part of your wing more strongly than the other? - How do you handle conflicts, considering the contrasting impulses of confrontation and peacemaking? - Any advice for someone trying to understand and integrate these seemingly opposing traits? I’m eager to hear your insights and experiences on how this dynamic plays out in your daily life and personal growth journey. Thanks in advance for sharing! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #PersonalGrowth #Balance Looking forward to your thoughts!
T the_stylish_life • 5/18/2024 1:04:54 AM
Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the unique dynamics of being an Enneagram 8w9. I've read that 8s are typically assertive, protective, and confrontational, while the 9 wing brings in a more calm and peace-seeking energy. How does this blend manifest in real life? Do you find that the 9 wing softens the typical intensity of the 8, or is there a constant internal push-and-pull between assertiveness and tranquility? I'd love to hear personal experiences and insights on how 8w9s navigate relationships, handle conflict, and maintain their sense of self. Thanks! 😊
Urban999 • 5/17/2024 8:08:06 PM
Hi everyone! 👋 I've been exploring the Enneagram lately and am particularly interested in Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). I understand that Type 8, the Challenger, is known for being assertive, confident, and protective, while the 9 wing adds a layer of calmness, diplomacy, and desire for harmony. I'm curious about how you 8w9s experience this balance. How does the 9 wing influence your assertiveness as a Type 8? Do you find that it makes you less confrontational, or do you still lean heavily into the typical Challenger traits? Also, how do you manage to stay true to your own beliefs and values while maintaining peace and avoiding unnecessary conflict? I'd love to hear from some 8w9s about your personal experiences and how this unique combination plays out in your daily life. Any tips on how to harness the strengths of both traits effectively would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #Type8 #Wing9 #PersonalityTypes
Colton181 • 5/17/2024 2:45:21 PM
Hey everyone, I’m curious about the experience of being an Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). How do you find the balance between the assertive, powerful nature of the 8 and the more easygoing, peaceful tendencies of the 9? Do you sometimes feel a conflict between wanting to lead and assert control versus seeking harmony and avoiding conflict? How does your 9 wing influence your interactions and decisions? Also, I'm interested in any strategies you’ve found useful for integrating these contrasting aspects of your personality. Any insights or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #Personality #SelfGrowth
Kingston363 • 5/17/2024 8:35:07 AM
Hey everyone! 👋 I'm diving deep into the complexities of the Enneagram and could use some insights on an 8w9 personality. I understand that Type 8s are typically assertive, protective, and driven by a need to avoid vulnerability, while the 9 wing brings in qualities like seeking peace, avoiding conflict, and a more laid-back approach. Here's where I need help: How do these two contrasting influences balance out in an 8w9? Are there specific behaviors, challenges, or strengths that are unique to this combination? Additionally, how do 8w9s typically navigate interpersonal relationships given their mix of assertiveness and peacemaking qualities? Any examples or personal experiences would be really valuable! Thanks in advance for your thoughts and wisdom! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #PersonalityInsights #SelfGrowth
Shane545 • 5/17/2024 2:53:14 AM
Hi everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the dynamics of the 8w9 personality type. I've read that 8w9s, also known as "The Bear", combine the assertive and protective nature of Type 8 with the calm and grounded qualities of Type 9. How do you 8w9s strike a balance between your drive for control and your desire for peace? Specifically, I'd love to hear from 8w9s about the following: 1. How do you manage conflicts, given your assertive 8 core and the conflict-averse 9 wing? 2. What strategies or practices help you maintain inner peace without sacrificing your need for power and control? 3. How do you nurture relationships while staying true to your protective, sometimes confrontational nature? 4. Can you share any personal experiences or insights on how you successfully navigate your dual tendencies? Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! 🌟 Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #PersonalityTypes #InnerBalance
Allen727 • 5/16/2024 9:28:33 PM
Hey everyone! 😊 I'm curious about the Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). I've been reading up on this subtype and would love to hear your personal experiences or insights. How do you think the 9 wing influences the typical assertiveness and intensity of the Type 8? Specifically: - How does an 8w9 balance their desire for control and power with the more laid-back, peace-seeking nature of a 9? - What strengths and challenges have you noticed in relationships or work environments as an 8w9? - Any tips for growth and self-awareness for someone who identifies as an 8w9? Thanks in advance! Your insights mean a lot and will help me better understand this unique combination. 🙌 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #SelfGrowth #PersonalityTypes
Ian909 • 5/16/2024 4:21:41 PM
Hi everyone! 🌟 I’m currently diving deep into the Enneagram and looking to understand more about the 8w9 type. From what I've gathered, 8w9s are known as ‘The Bear,’ balancing the assertiveness of the Type 8 with the peaceful, laid-back nature of the Type 9. But I have a few questions: 1. How does the dynamic between the strong, assertive 8 core and the more relaxed, go-with-the-flow 9 wing play out in daily life? 🤔 2. What are the primary challenges and strengths you’ve experienced or observed with this combination? 🌟 3. For those who identify as 8w9, how do you manage conflicts, both internally between the 8 and 9 traits, and externally with others? 4. Any tips on personal growth specific to an 8w9? 🧘♀️ I'm really looking forward to hearing about your experiences and any insights you might have. Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery
Jonathan36 • 5/16/2024 11:58:19 AM
Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm diving deep into understanding Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9) and would love some insights from those who identify with this type or have close experiences with them. How do you manage the often contrasting traits of the assertive, protective, and sometimes aggressive nature of the Type 8 with the more peace-seeking, conflict-averse tendencies of the 9 wing? 🤔 Also, in what ways do you feel this combination influences your relationships, decision-making processes, and how you handle stress or conflict? Are there particular strategies or practices that have helped you balance these dynamics effectively? Thanks in advance for your thoughts and experiences! 🙏 Can't wait to hear your perspectives.
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