Relationships and Compatibility

Sapphire84 • 4/20/2024 1:55:33 PM

So I’m starting to think I’m a Type 7, always up for an adventure. But wondering how that works with more introverted types. Can a 7 and a 5 really make it work, or is it like oil and water?

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Nora414 • 4/20/2024 12:15:28 PM

Diving deep into Enneagram stuff and resonate a lot with Type 5 — the thinker. But when it comes to sharing feelings and being open, I hit a wall. How do other 5s manage to open up in their relationships without feeling exposed?

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Solstice • 4/20/2024 11:30:30 AM

So, I’m kinda getting the vibe that I might be a Type 6. The whole loyalty and security thing really hits home, especially in my relationships. But sometimes, it feels like my need for reassurance can be a lot for people. How do other Type 6s deal with the anxiety and trust issues without letting it overshadow the good parts of being together? I want to be able to trust and not stress over every little thing. Any advice for finding a healthy balance would be amazing.

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Solstice • 4/19/2024 8:55:17 PM

Starting to learn about my Type 5 tendencies. I enjoy my alone time, but also don’t want to push my partner away. Any advice from other 5s on how to balance needing space with keeping the relationship strong?

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Bella202 • 4/19/2024 5:45:00 PM

Hey everyone! Just realized I might be a Type 4 after reading up on the Enneagram. Always been the introspective type, you know, diving deep into my emotions and all that jazz. But lately, I’ve been wondering if this intensity might be too much for my partner sometimes. How do other Type 4s handle their emotions in relationships? Is it possible to find someone who truly understands your depth? Or am I just destined to be a lone wolf forever? Would love to hear your experiences!

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VibrantShadow • 4/19/2024 5:15:17 PM

Type 1 here and striving for perfection, but I know it’s a bit much sometimes. How do other 1s handle being in a relationship without trying to 'fix' everything about their partner?

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EmberEmbrace • 4/19/2024 4:30:30 PM

Just found out about being a Type 5, and while I cherish my alone time, I don’t want to alienate my partner. How do 5s balance their need for solitude with being a good partner?

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Greg707 • 4/19/2024 4:10:10 PM

New to this and thinking I’m a Type 9. Love peace and harmony, but do other 9s find they sometimes avoid confrontations to the point of being passive? How do you assert your needs without disrupting the peace?

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Missme78 • 4/19/2024 2:30:44 PM

Type 3 here, just diving into the Enneagram. I’m all about achieving goals, but sometimes feel it’s hard to connect on a deeper level. Any other 3s find it tough to balance ambition with vulnerability in relationships?

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Equinox79 • 4/19/2024 12:40:40 PM

I’m starting to resonate a lot with Type 2 characteristics, especially when it comes to relationships. I love being there for my partner, but I sometimes wonder if I’m too much. Like, is there such a thing as helping too much or caring too much? How do other Type 2s ensure they’re not overwhelming their loved ones with their desire to assist and connect? I’m trying to find the right balance between being supportive and giving my partner space to breathe.

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