Enneagram Type and Wing 9w8

NoBSallowed • 6/8/2024 8:36:12 PM

Hey Enneagram Community! 🌟 I'm curious to learn more about the 9w8 personality type. As a 9-wing-8, how do you balance the peacemaking nature of Type 9 with the assertive, sometimes confrontational, tendencies of the Type 8 wing? Do you find it challenging to integrate these seemingly contrasting traits, or do they complement each other in surprising ways? Also, how do you manage conflict and assert your needs while maintaining harmony in relationships and environments? Any personal experiences, strategies, or insights you'd like to share would be greatly appreciated! 😊 Thanks in advance for your thoughts and wisdom! ✌️ #Enneagram9w8 #Type9wing8 #Peacemaker #EnneagramJourney

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PressF4Laughs • 6/8/2024 10:28:24 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram and am fascinated by the 9w8 combination. I understand that Type 9 (the Peacemaker) strives for inner and outer peace, while the 8 wing (the Challenger) brings in some assertiveness and strength. I’m curious about how this blend manifests in real life. For those of you who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you balance the desire for peace with the assertive energy of the 8 wing? Are there specific challenges or situations where you notice these traits clashing or harmonizing? Also, how do you think the 8 wing influences the conflict-avoidant nature of the Type 9? Any real-life examples would be super helpful! Thanks! 😊

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ChromaticDrift • 6/8/2024 1:39:29 AM

Hey Enneagram enthusiasts! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm fascinated by the nuanced dynamics of the 9w8 type. As a 9w8 (Peacemaker with a Challenger wing), it's interesting to see how the core desire for inner and outer peace merges with the assertiveness and determination of an 8 wing. I'm curious about how other 9w8s balance these seemingly conflicting traits. How do you find harmony between your natural inclination for peace and your 8 wing’s drive for control and confrontation? Are there specific strategies or experiences that have helped you blend these aspects effectively? Also, how do you notice your 8 wing showing up in your daily life compared to pure 9 tendencies? Would love to hear your stories and insights! Thanks! 😊

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SweetTwitterrific • 6/7/2024 3:49:54 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm diving deep into understanding the nuances of Enneagram 9w8 and would love some insights from those who identify or are familiar with this type and wing combo. From what I've gathered, Type 9s (the Peacemakers) seek harmony and comfort, while the 8 wing (the Challengers) adds a layer of assertiveness and intensity. How does this combination manifest in real life? What do you find most challenging about balancing the serene nature of Type 9 with the strong-willed characteristics of Type 8? Also, how do you think the 9w8 differs from the 9w1, particularly in conflict situations and decision-making? Any personal experiences, tips, or resources would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalityGrowth #PeacemakersAndChallengers

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Sunshine79 • 6/7/2024 6:07:56 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm delving into the world of Enneagram, especially the 9w8 type, and would love to hear from those who identify as this type. How do you balance the core motivations of a Type 9 (seeking peace and avoiding conflict) with the assertive and sometimes confrontational traits of the Type 8 wing? 🔄 Do these traits ever feel at odds with each other, and how do you navigate situations where your peaceful nature clashes with your more assertive side? Also, how does this combination influence your relationships and work dynamics? Any firsthand experiences, struggles, or tips on embracing both sides of your personality would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to your insights! 🙏✨ #Enneagram #9w8 #SelfDiscovery #PersonalityTypes

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Shopaholicgal15 • 6/6/2024 7:57:06 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm curious about how characteristics of the 9w8 (Nine with an Eight wing) manifest in everyday life. From what I've read, the peaceful and harmonious nature of the Nine can sometimes conflict with the more assertive and sometimes confrontational nature of the Eight wing. For those of you who identify as a 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you balance these seemingly opposing traits? Do you find it challenging to maintain inner peace while occasionally needing to assert yourself? And how does this dynamic play out in relationships and work environments? Any real-life examples would be super helpful! Thanks in advance for your insights! 🙏✨

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talentedteenager • 6/6/2024 9:49:50 AM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I’m new to the Enneagram and trying to understand my type better. I’ve identified as a Type 9 with an 8 wing (9w8), but I’m having trouble figuring out how these two energies interact. Type 9s are known for seeking peace and avoiding conflict, while the 8 wing brings in a more assertive and sometimes confrontational energy. How do you reconcile these seemingly opposite traits within yourselves? 🤔 Do you find that the 8 wing gives you more confidence to stand up for your beliefs, or does it create internal tension because of the conflicting desires for peace and power? How does this dynamic shape your relationships and decision-making processes? Would love to hear from other 9w8s or those familiar with this type and wing. Any insights, personal experiences, or resources would be greatly appreciated. 🙏 Thanks in advance!

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Archer979 • 6/5/2024 11:17:48 PM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram and recently discovered my type is 9w8. I’m curious about how fellow 9w8s balance the often conflicting desires of the peacemaker (Type 9) who seeks harmony and the challenger (Type 8) who is more assertive and protective. How do you navigate situations where your Type 9 inclination wants to avoid conflict, but your Type 8 wing pushes you to step up and assert yourself? Do you find it hard to maintain inner peace while also standing your ground? I'd love to hear your personal experiences, challenges, and any strategies you've found helpful. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #InnerPeace #Assertiveness

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Tess646 • 6/5/2024 1:30:19 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving into the Enneagram recently, and I'm curious to learn more about the 9w8 type. From what I understand, 9s are known as the Peacemakers and value harmony and inner peace, while the 8 wing brings in traits of the Challenger, like assertiveness and a desire for control. For those of you who identify as 9w8, how do you see this combination play out in your daily life? How do you balance the desire for peace with the assertiveness and strength that comes with the 8 wing? Are there specific challenges or benefits you've noticed with this unique blend? Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences! 😊 Looking forward to your insights! 🌟

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Max313 • 6/5/2024 4:07:54 AM

Hey everyone! I hope you're all doing well! 😊 I'm curious to hear thoughts and experiences from those who identify as a 9w8. I've been reading up on how this specific combination balances the peaceful nature of a Type 9 with the assertive, sometimes intense influence of an 8 wing. How does the dynamic between seeking internal peace while also having an 8's drive for control and leadership play out in your daily life? Do you find that one overpowers the other, or have you found a harmonious balance? Any challenges or advantages that stand out to you? I'd love to hear about personal stories, coping mechanisms, or any insights you can share. Thanks so much! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalityTypes

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