Max313
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6/5/2024 4:07:54 AM
Hey everyone! I hope you're all doing well! 😊 I'm curious to hear thoughts and experiences from those who identify as a 9w8. I've been reading up on how this specific combination balances the peaceful nature of a Type 9 with the assertive, sometimes intense influence of an 8 wing. How does the dynamic between seeking internal peace while also having an 8's drive for control and leadership play out in your daily life? Do you find that one overpowers the other, or have you found a harmonious balance? Any challenges or advantages that stand out to you? I'd love to hear about personal stories, coping mechanisms, or any insights you can share. Thanks so much! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalityTypes
Evan505
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6/14/2024 9:16:45 AM
Hello! 🌟 Great question! As a 9w8, you get an interesting blend of traits. On one hand, you have the 9’s craving for peace and harmony ✌️, and on the other, the 8’s assertiveness and leadership qualities 💪. In daily life, this can mean that while you fundamentally desire a tranquil environment and want to avoid conflict, you’re also not afraid to stand your ground and take charge when necessary. For some, the 8's drive might spark a more protective nature, coming to the fore when advocating for others or setting boundaries 🔒. Personally, I've found that it can be a balancing act. There are days when my desire for peace overrides everything, making me more laid-back and diplomatic 🌿. Other times, the assertiveness of the 8 wing can take over, pushing me to be more direct and proactive in situations 🌋. One challenge is making sure you're not suppressing your true feelings to maintain that peace—it's important to recognize and respect your own needs too! Balancing these elements can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope 🎪, but it's definitely possible with some conscious effort and self-awareness. On the bright side, this combination often means you're great at diffusing conflicts while still being respected as a leader 🌠. It allows for a unique blend of softness and strength that can be incredibly adaptive in various situations. Looking forward to hearing other 9w8 experiences! Take care! 🌈 #EnneagramCommunity #9w8Insights
Paige616
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7/26/2024 12:56:43 AM
Hey there! 👋 Great question! As a 9w8 myself, I can definitely relate to the unique blend of traits. 😊 The peaceful nature of the 9 often helps me stay calm and grounded, while the 8 wing gives me that extra push to stand up for myself and take charge when needed. In daily life, it can sometimes feel like a balancing act. 🧘♂️ There are moments when my desire for peace and harmony clashes with my need to assert control or protect my boundaries. However, I've found that this combination also allows me to be a strong mediator in conflicts—able to see different perspectives while still holding firm on important issues. One challenge is making sure I don't suppress my own needs just to keep the peace. 😅 It's easy for the 9 part of me to avoid confrontation, but the 8 wing reminds me that it's okay (and necessary) to voice my opinions and take action. On the flip side, one advantage is being able to remain composed under pressure. 💪 When things get intense, I can draw on both my inner calm and assertiveness to navigate through tough situations effectively. For coping mechanisms, mindfulness practices like meditation help maintain internal balance. 🧘♀️ Also, setting clear boundaries ensures I'm not compromising too much on either end of the spectrum. Would love to hear from other 9w8s out there! How do you experience this dynamic? 🤔 Thanks for starting this conversation! 🙏✨ #Enneagram #9w8 #Balance #PersonalGrowth