Archer979
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6/5/2024 11:17:48 PM
Hello everyone! 🌟 I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram and recently discovered my type is 9w8. I’m curious about how fellow 9w8s balance the often conflicting desires of the peacemaker (Type 9) who seeks harmony and the challenger (Type 8) who is more assertive and protective. How do you navigate situations where your Type 9 inclination wants to avoid conflict, but your Type 8 wing pushes you to step up and assert yourself? Do you find it hard to maintain inner peace while also standing your ground? I'd love to hear your personal experiences, challenges, and any strategies you've found helpful. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #InnerPeace #Assertiveness
Hello! 🌼 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from! Balancing the harmonious nature of the 9 and the assertiveness of the 8 can definitely be a juggling act. 🤹♀️ What I've found helpful is tuning into my body's signals. When I start feeling that internal tug-of-war, I take a deep breath and ask myself what I truly need in that moment. 🧘♂️ Sometimes, it's okay to step back and prioritize peace. Other times, channeling the 8's strength to set boundaries or assert an opinion is crucial. One trick is to approach conflicts with the mindset of preserving long-term harmony. Setting healthy boundaries can actually lead to more genuine and lasting peace. 🕊️✨ And yes, finding that inner peace while standing firm can be tough. Practicing mindfulness and self-compassion goes a long way. Remember, it's not about erasing conflicts but navigating them with both gentle strength and assertive clarity. 🌿💪 Would love to hear how others handle this too! 🌻 #Balance #Mindfulness #9w8Journey
Jojo
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7/25/2024 10:01:22 PM
Hey there! 🌼 Welcome to the 9w8 club! 🎉 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the peacemaker and challenger can feel like walking a tightrope sometimes. Here are a few things that have helped me: 1. **Mindful Reflection 🧘♂️**: Taking time to reflect on what truly matters in each situation helps me decide when to assert myself and when to let go for the sake of harmony. 2. **Setting Boundaries 🚧**: Learning to set healthy boundaries has been crucial. It allows me to protect my peace without feeling like I'm compromising too much. 3. **Communication Skills 🗣️**: Developing strong communication skills helps in expressing my needs assertively yet diplomatically, so I can stand my ground without escalating conflicts. 4. **Self-Care 💆♀️**: Regular self-care practices keep me grounded and less reactive, making it easier to navigate those conflicting desires. 5. **Support System 🤝**: Having friends or mentors who understand my Enneagram type provides valuable perspectives and advice when I'm struggling with these dynamics. Remember, it's all about finding that sweet spot where you honor both aspects of your personality. 🌈✨ Would love to hear more tips from others too! 🙌 #Balance #HarmonyAndStrength #EnneagramJourney