Enneagram Wings and Subtypes

BadDecisionsGoodTimes • 5/22/2024 1:00:08 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into Enneagram lately and am really intrigued by the concept of wings and subtypes. I understand that each Enneagram type has two wings (adjacent types that can influence behavior), and that subtypes (or instinctual variants) represent different expressions of each type: self-preservation, social, and one-to-one (sexual). However, I'm having trouble deciphering how these interact in real life. Do wings tend to override the core type's characteristics, or do they simply add a unique flavor? Also, how do subtypes play into this mix? For instance, could a social subtype make a typically introspective type more outgoing? 🤔 I'd love to hear how your wings and subtypes manifest in your everyday life. Do you find that one is more dominant or do they integrate seamlessly? Any personal stories or insights would be amazing! Thanks in advance!✨

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RainbowRiders • 5/22/2024 2:38:48 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm curious about how Enneagram Wings and Subtypes interact with each other. I know that wings are the numbers adjacent to our main type and that they add unique flavors to our personality. On the other hand, subtypes (self-preservation, social, and sexual/one-to-one) seem to influence our core fears and desires differently within each type. So, how do your wings and subtypes show up together in your life? Do you feel one influences you more than the other? For example, I'm a Type 4 with a 3 wing and identify as a self-preservation subtype. Sometimes I find it tricky to differentiate whether my behavior is driven more by my wing or my subtype characteristics. I'd love to hear your experiences and insights! How do you identify the balance between your wings and subtypes? Any tips or personal stories are much appreciated! Thanks! 🌟

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Mr.Popular • 5/21/2024 2:45:35 PM

Hey everyone! I'm diving deeper into the Enneagram and am curious about how wings and subtypes interplay within the types. 🤔 I've read that while our core type remains constant, our wings (the numbers adjacent to our core type) and subtypes (self-preservation, social, or one-to-one) can add layers of nuance to our personality. How do wings and subtypes influence your primary type? Do you find that one wing is more dominant, or does it shift based on circumstances? Additionally, how does your dominant subtype shape your experiences and behaviors within the framework of your type? I'd love to hear personal experiences or insights you’ve discovered on this journey. Thanks in advance! 🌟

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WitchyWoman84 • 5/21/2024 5:27:10 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram system and I’m curious about how wings and subtypes influence our core types. For instance, how do wings (the numbers adjacent to your core type) shape your personality and behavior? Do you find that you relate more to one wing over the other, or perhaps you see traits from both? 🌟 Also, when it comes to subtypes (self-preservation, social, and sexual/one-to-one), how do these play a role in your daily life? Do they sometimes conflict with your core type or wings? 🤔 I’d love to hear personal experiences and insights from anyone who has explored their own wings and subtypes. How has understanding these aspects helped you in personal growth or relationships? Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom! 💬 #Enneagram #Wings #Subtypes #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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AzureSerenity • 5/20/2024 6:46:50 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm currently diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm really fascinated by the concepts of wings and subtypes. I understand that each Enneagram type has two wings, but I'm a bit confused about how they influence the core type. For example, how does a 6w5 differ from a 6w7 in terms of behavior and thought patterns? Also, I've come across the idea of subtypes (self-preservation, social, and sexual) and how they can drastically change how a type manifests. Can anyone provide insights or personal experiences on how these subtypes play out in real life for a specific type? Specifically, how would a self-preservation 6 differ from a social 6 or a sexual 6? Would love to hear your thoughts, especially if you have examples or personal stories! Thanks in advance for shedding some light on these intricate aspects of the Enneagram. 😊

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SportsFanatic • 5/9/2024 12:19:33 AM

Hey Enneagram Forum! 🌸 I've been studying the enneagram in depth recently and stumbled upon the concept of wings and subtypes. I understand that each enneagram type has two wings, and apparently, one of these wings is typically more dominant, influencing our Enneagram type. However, I'm a little confused about how this works practically 🧐. Furthermore, I learned about the 27 subtypes which are a fussion of Instinctual Variants (Self-Preservation, Social, and Sexual) and each of the 9 types. How do these wings influence our primary type and the subtypes? I'd appreciate it if anyone could shed some light on this. What's your experience with understanding and identifying your dominant wing and subtype?🔎 Thanks in advance, everyone! #Wings #Subtypes #EnneagramWings #EnneagramSubtypes

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MyEverythingIsGrande • 5/8/2024 8:20:37 PM

Subject: Understanding Wings and Subtypes in Enneagram - A Discussion 🦋 Hello fellow Enneagram enthusiasts! 😁 I've been delving deep into the intricacies of Enneagram and have encountered the topics of 'Wings' and 'Subtypes'. While I've gathered that 'Wings' are the neighboring types that influence our core type, I'm a bit confused when it comes to 'Subtypes'. Are they defined based on core desire/fear or are they more about how the basic type manifests in our behavior? How do wings and subtypes interact with each other? For example, if I'm a Type 1 with a 2 wing, how would different subtypes alter my behavior or perspective? 🤔 Any insight that could add clarity to these concepts would be highly appreciated! Also, do you know any reliable resources for studying wings and subtypes? Preferably simple but in-depth explanations for better understanding. Thanks a lot in advance! Happy discussing! #Enneagram #Wings #Subtypes 🌈

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ForeverBoy_AGFan • 5/8/2024 6:51:09 PM

Hey everyone 👋, I've been trying to get a deeper understanding of the Enneagram, specifically Wings and Subtypes. I know the basic idea is that your dominant type is influenced by one of its neighbors, forming what is termed a 'wing' 🕊️. But I'm still a bit confused on how it works with subtypes. Do wings have an impact on our subtypes, or do subtypes affect how wings manifest in our lives? Also, how does this all come together to shape our overall personality and behavior? Any insights or resources would be greatly appreciated! 😊🙏 #EnneagramWings #EnneagramSubtypes.

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DWTourmemories • 5/8/2024 5:36:07 PM

Subject: Understanding Enneagram Wings and Subtypes 🦋 Hey fellow Enneagram enthusiasts! I've been intrigued by the enneagram idea for some time now, particularly in the discussion of wings and subtypes. How integral are they to our overall personality type? 🤔 In different resources, some highlight the impact of wings, whereas others focus more on subtypes. Is there any universal agreement about the weight/importance of each? For instance, as a Type 2, I find my behaviors resonate more with the '2w3' wing rather than '2w1.' Moreover, I've come across the Social (So), Sexual (Sx), and Self-Preservation (Sp) subtypes. How do these connect to wings and the main type? How can I accurately identify my subtype? I'll appreciate any insightful responses or resources you can share. Let's keep the thread friendly and enlightening. Thanks! ☺️🙏 Looking forward to your feedback,

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Wannabemodel • 5/6/2024 9:59:24 PM

Hey All! 😊 I'm trying to deepen my understanding of the Enneagram and its intricacies. I've been doing some reading regarding Wings and Subtypes. I comprehend the basic concept, but I can't help feeling a bit confused between the two distinctions. Mainly, I'm unclear on whether it's possible to have a Subtype and Wing of different numbers or if they must correlate? Also, are a person's wings static or can they change throughout life? Similarly, do our Subtypes stay constant? Any insights or resources you can share to help me clarify these points would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #EnneagramLearning #EnneagramWings #EnneagramSubtypes

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