Enneagram Type and Wing 9w8

Iceicebaby • 7/11/2024 11:09:11 AM

As a 9w8, I struggle with balancing my desire for peace with my assertive side. I often avoid conflict to keep harmony, but this leads to bottling up emotions until they explode. When I do assert myself, it feels too aggressive and out of character. How can I find a middle ground where I can express my needs without feeling like I'm disrupting the peace or coming off too strong? Any tips on managing this internal tug-of-war would be greatly appreciated!

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perfectlyimperfect • 7/8/2024 5:15:16 PM

Curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8! How do you balance the peaceful, conflict-averse nature of Type 9 with the assertive, sometimes confrontational traits of the 8 wing? Do you find it challenging to maintain inner peace while also standing your ground? Any tips or personal experiences on how this combination influences your relationships and decision-making would be greatly appreciated. 🌟 #Enneagram #9w8 #SelfGrowth

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SapphirePulse • 7/3/2024 7:18:16 PM

Ever felt misunderstood as a 9w8? 🤔 Let's clear the air! Share your experiences with common misconceptions about being a 9w8 and how you navigate them. Do people mistake your calm demeanor for indifference or overlook your inner strength? How do you balance peacekeeping with assertiveness? Your insights can help others on their journey. Dive in and let's debunk those myths together! 💬 #Enneagram9w8 #Misunderstood #ShareYourStory

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HoneybeeChatter • 7/1/2024 4:36:43 PM

As a 9w8, I struggle with balancing my desire for peace with my assertive side. I often avoid conflict to keep harmony, but this leads to bottling up emotions until they explode. When I do assert myself, it feels aggressive and out of character. How can I better integrate my 8 wing without compromising my core need for peace? Any tips on expressing my needs calmly and effectively would be greatly appreciated! 🌿

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HoneycombMalls • 6/29/2024 3:50:25 PM

Curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8! How do you balance the peacemaking nature of Type 9 with the assertiveness and intensity of the 8 wing? Do you find that your 8 wing helps you set boundaries more effectively, or does it sometimes create internal conflict with your desire for harmony? Also, how do you navigate stress and growth paths given this unique combination? Would love to hear personal experiences and any tips on managing these contrasting traits. 🌟 #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalityTypes

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smileitsfree • 6/23/2024 3:01:44 AM

Curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8! How do you balance the peacemaking nature of Type 9 with the assertive, sometimes confrontational traits of an 8 wing? Do you find that your 8 wing helps you set boundaries more effectively, or does it create internal conflict when trying to maintain harmony? Also, how do you navigate situations where your desire for peace clashes with the need to stand up for yourself or others? Would love to hear personal experiences and strategies from fellow 9w8s! 🌟

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WiseCracker101 • 6/21/2024 1:43:54 AM

Struggling with misconceptions about your Enneagram 9w8 type? 🤔 Dos and don'ts invariably misconstrued could be inhibiting genuine connection in our lives. Let's tackle these foggy perceptions together and share strategies we've embraced to brush off the misinterpretations! Your insights or experiences overcoming myths of tranquility or asserting dominance un扰足 are invaluable. Dive in, enlighten us ✨ and let’s redefine understanding collectively!공⾗?.

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MatrixVisionary • 6/20/2024 3:53:50 PM

As a 9w8, I often struggle with asserting my needs and opinions. I want to maintain peace but have forceful energy underneath that occasionally causes conflicts when it erupts unexpectedly. I find myself oscillating between apathy and outbursts, leaving me feeling misunderstood. How can I navigate the balance between maintaining harmony and asserting myself healthily? Would love strategies for self-awareness and conflict resolution tailored for my type. Thanks!

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GlitterAura • 6/20/2024 5:54:31 AM

I'm interested in learning more about how the traits of a 9w8 manifest day-to-day. Combining the peaceful, harmonious vibe of the Nine with the assertiveness and decisiveness of an Eight seems complex. How do people who identify as 9w8 balance their need for inner and outer peace with the self-assured, sometimes confrontation-averse nature that Eight behaviors might encourage? Also curious about tips for personal growth for this particular type-wing combination. 🚀 #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalGrowth

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NovelIdeas • 6/19/2024 1:29:30 PM

Has anyone else experienced being a 9w8 where your 9-wing sometimes softens the assertiveness or independence typically associated with Type 8? How does th mediator Type 9, affect your approach to conflict and decision-making? I'm finding the balance between seeking harmony and standing firm on personal values quite interesting. 💭 Studies and real-life situations welcome!.back_wings=True #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Integration #Balance

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