Enneagram Type and Wing 8w9

Nick • 6/4/2024 8:03:59 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I’m curious about the dynamic of Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). I’ve been reading up on the assertiveness and protectiveness of Type 8, but I'm trying to better understand how the 9 wing's peaceful and accommodating traits come into play. How do you balance the intensity and drive of the 8 with the laid-back and peace-seeking aspects of the 9? Also, how does this combination show up in day-to-day life, relationships, and work situations? Are there any unique challenges or strengths specific to this pairing? I'd love to hear personal experiences, insights, or any resource recommendations. Thanks in advance! 😊

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MyEverythingIsGrande • 6/3/2024 10:07:47 PM

Hello everyone! 👋 I've recently discovered that I'm an Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9), and I'm curious to hear from others who identify the same way. I've read that the 8w9s have a blend of the assertiveness and confidence of an 8, combined with the calm and peace-seeking aspects of a 9. This seems like it would create a unique dynamic, both internally and in relationships. So, I have a few questions for fellow 8w9s: 1. How do you balance your desire for control and power (Type 8) with your need for peace and stability (9 wing)? 2. In what ways do you see your 9 wing influencing your typical Type 8 behavior, especially in conflict situations? 3. How do you maintain relationships without coming across as too dominating or too passive? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 😊 Thanks!

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BreakFreeBeliever • 6/3/2024 11:16:05 AM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the dynamics of being an 8w9. I've read that Type 8s are assertive, protective, and driven by the need to be in control, while 9s are more easygoing, conflict-averse, and focused on maintaining peace and harmony. How does this combination manifest in real life? Specifically, I'm wondering: 1. How does the 9 wing influence an 8's typical assertiveness? 2. Do 8w9s find it challenging to balance their assertive nature with their desire for peace? 3. What are some healthy and unhealthy traits that an 8w9 might exhibit? I'd love to hear from anyone who identifies as an 8w9 or knows someone who does. Personal experiences, advice, and any resources for better understanding this combination would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 🙏✨

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Electricavenue • 6/3/2024 1:14:55 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the Enneagram Type 8w9. For those who identify as an 8w9 or know someone who does, can you share some insights on how the 9 wing affects the core Type 8 characteristics? Specifically, how do the peacemaking qualities of the 9 wing balance out the assertiveness and intensity of the Type 8? Also, what are some common challenges and strengths you’ve noticed in this subtype? I’d love to hear about personal experiences, coping strategies, or any advice you have for someone navigating the dynamics of being an 8w9. Thanks in advance! 😊

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dancer_intherain • 6/2/2024 2:31:49 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the experience of being an Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). How do you balance the assertiveness and intensity of the core Type 8 with the laid-back, peace-seeking nature of the Type 9 wing? Do you feel a constant push and pull between these two aspects of your personality? How does this blend affect your relationships and decision-making processes? Any insights or personal stories would be really helpful as I'm trying to understand this type better. Thanks! 😊

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hoosier_daddy86 • 6/2/2024 4:54:14 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the Enneagram 8w9 type and hoping to get some insights from those who identify as 8w9 or know someone who does. From what I understand, the core traits of an 8 are assertiveness, decisiveness, and a desire for control. Adding a 9 wing brings elements of peace-seeking, calm, and a more laid-back approach to life. For those of you who are 8w9s, how do you balance these seemingly contrasting traits in your daily life? Do you find that your 9 wing helps temper the intensity of your 8 core? Or does it create any internal conflicts? How do you handle situations that require you to be both firm and diplomatic? Also, how do these characteristics influence your relationships, both personal and professional? Any strategies you've found particularly effective for keeping the peace while still asserting yourself? Thanks in advance for sharing your experience! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #Type8 #Type9

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StarryNightscape • 6/1/2024 6:46:15 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the dynamics of an Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). As a type 8, the tendencies towards leadership and assertiveness seem clear, but I'm wondering how the 9 wing influences this type. - How do 8w9s typically balance the intensity of the 8 with the peacemaking aspects of the 9? - What are some common challenges and strengths that emerge from this combination? - How do 8w9s generally approach conflict and stress differently compared to 8w7s? Any insights, personal experiences, or resources you could share would be greatly appreciated! Thanks 😊🧠

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CutiePie931176 • 6/1/2024 10:09:07 AM

Hey Enneagram enthusiasts! 👋 I'm diving deep into understanding the dynamics of the 8w9 personality and have a few burning questions. As we know, Type 8s are often characterized by their assertiveness, strength, and desire for control, while the 9 wing brings a calmer, more laid-back approach, seeking peace and avoiding conflict. For those of you who identify as 8w9 or know someone who does, how do you experience the interplay between these contrasting energies? Specifically, how do you balance the 8's drive for power and control with the 9's desire for peace and harmony? Do you find that one aspect tends to dominate more in certain situations, and how does this impact your relationships and decision-making processes? Looking forward to your insights! Thanks in advance 😊

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CupcakeHolder • 6/1/2024 12:07:05 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and recently started exploring the dynamics of Type 8w9. I'm curious about how fellow 8w9s experience the blend of these two powerful yet contrasting energies. 🌱 For those who identify as an 8w9, how do you balance the assertive, decisive nature of Type 8 with the more laid-back, peacemaking traits of the 9-wing? Do you find that your 9-wing helps to temper your intensity, or does it sometimes create inner tension? Also, in your personal and professional life, how do you navigate conflicts and ensure that your protective instincts don't overpower your peace-loving side? Any insights or personal experiences you could share would be incredibly appreciated. 😊 Looking forward to your thoughts and stories!

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BizGuyWithNoJob • 5/31/2024 1:49:21 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm really curious about the dynamics of the 8w9 type. As I understand, this type combines the assertiveness and intensity of a Type 8 with the more peaceful and accommodating nature of a Type 9. For those of you who identify as 8w9 or know someone who does, how does this blend typically manifest in daily life and relationships? I'm especially interested in how 8w9s balance their desire for control and strength with their wing's inclination towards peace and avoidance of conflict. Are there particular challenges or strengths you've noticed with this combination? Any real-life examples, insights, or personal experiences would be incredibly helpful! Thanks in advance! 🌟

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