Enneagram Type And Wing 8W9 Forum Post

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CutiePie931176 6/1/2024 10:09:07 AM

Hey Enneagram enthusiasts! 👋 I'm diving deep into understanding the dynamics of the 8w9 personality and have a few burning questions. As we know, Type 8s are often characterized by their assertiveness, strength, and desire for control, while the 9 wing brings a calmer, more laid-back approach, seeking peace and avoiding conflict. For those of you who identify as 8w9 or know someone who does, how do you experience the interplay between these contrasting energies? Specifically, how do you balance the 8's drive for power and control with the 9's desire for peace and harmony? Do you find that one aspect tends to dominate more in certain situations, and how does this impact your relationships and decision-making processes? Looking forward to your insights! Thanks in advance 😊

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dancer_intherain 6/14/2024 10:46:54 AM

Hello! 🤗 Great topic! I'm an 8w9 myself, so I can definitely share some insights. 🐢🔥 The interplay between the 8's assertiveness and the 9's peace-seeking can be a bit like a dance. The 8 side pushes me to take charge and be proactive in pursuing goals, while the 9 wing helps me stay grounded and avoid unnecessary conflicts. 🌟⚖️ In terms of balance, I notice that my 8 energy comes to the forefront in high-stress situations or when something feels particularly unjust. That's when the assertiveness and control really kick in.💪 On the flip side, the 9's desire for harmony shines through in more day-to-day interactions and in personal relationships, helping me to be more diplomatic and patient. 🕊️ One interesting thing I've found is that the context really matters. For example, at work, I might lean more into my 8 traits to get things done efficiently. In my personal life, especially with loved ones, the 9 wing's influence often helps me to be more nurturing and laid-back. This duality can definitely impact decision-making, as I strive to find a balance between being firm and being understanding. 🎢💗 Overall, while it can be challenging to juggle these energies, I think it also brings a unique blend of resilience and compassion. It can definitely enhance relationships when managed well, by providing both strength and sensitivity. 💡💕 Curious to hear how others experience this dynamic! Cheers 😊🚀

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