Enneagram Type and Wing 2w1

Harper686 • 5/17/2024 4:00:40 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I’ve recently discovered I’m a 2w1 and I’m curious to learn more about how this specific type and wing manifests in daily life. I've read that 2w1s tend to be more perfectionistic and have a strong sense of duty compared to other Type 2s. How do you all experience the balance between wanting to help others and the inner drive towards perfection and order? Do you find this combination challenging or does it empower you to make a positive impact in a structured way? Also, any tips on how to maintain healthy boundaries while being a 2w1? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 😊 #Enneagram #EnneagramType2 #2w1 #PersonalGrowth

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Patterson868 • 5/17/2024 10:04:32 AM

Hello everyone! 👋 I've recently started diving into the Enneagram and identified myself as a 2w1. I understand that the core Type 2 is often characterized by a desire to help and connect with others, but I'm curious about how the 1 wing influences this type. Could someone help explain how the 1 wing's traits—like a sense of duty, principles, and perfectionism—play out alongside the nurturing and people-pleasing aspects of Type 2? How does this combination manifest in terms of behavior, relationships, and personal growth? I'm looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 🌟 Thank you!

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Xavier050 • 5/17/2024 4:26:55 AM

Hi everyone! 👋 I'm curious to learn more about the Enneagram Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1) and would love your insights. For those who identify as 2w1 or know someone who does, how do you see the blend of the nurturing, altruistic nature of a Two with the principled, perfectionistic tendencies of a One manifesting in daily life? 🤔 Specifically, how does the 1 wing influence the way a 2w1 approaches relationships, personal boundaries, and self-care? Any tips for managing potential conflicts between the desire to help others and the need for personal integrity and self-compassion? Thanks so much! 🌟

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Frankie232 • 5/16/2024 10:44:50 PM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into understanding the Enneagram and I'm particularly curious about Type 2w1 (The Helper with a One Wing). As Type 2s are naturally nurturing and driven by a desire to be loved and needed, I've read that the One Wing can add a dimension of perfectionism, moral integrity, and a strong sense of right and wrong. For those of you who identify as 2w1, how do you experience the blend of these characteristics in your daily life? Do you find that the One Wing influences your helpfulness and relationships, perhaps by making you more critical or disciplined? How do you reconcile the desire to help others with the perfectionist tendencies that come from the One Wing? Would love to hear your insights, personal experiences, and any advice you might have on balancing these traits! Thank you! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #PersonalGrowth

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Nora414 • 5/16/2024 5:59:52 PM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I'm curious to learn more about the dynamics of a 2w1 personality. For those of you who identify as a 2w1 or know someone who does, how does the wing one influence your core type? Specifically, I'm interested in: 1. How do you balance the innate desire to help others with the rigorous standards and perfectionism of the 1 wing? 2. Do you find yourself struggling with guilt or resentment when you can't live up to your own high expectations while also trying to meet the needs of those around you? 3. What are some practical strategies or tips that have helped you manage this balance? I appreciate any insights or personal experiences you can share. Looking forward to the discussion! 😊 #Enneagram #2w1 #PersonalityTypes #SelfImprovement

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Polaris • 5/16/2024 1:47:07 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I've been exploring the nuances of being a Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1), and I have a few questions. I understand that 2s are known for being helpful and people-oriented, while the 1 wing adds a dimension of perfectionism and a strong sense of right and wrong. How does this combination play out in your daily life, especially in terms of balancing the desire to help others with the need to maintain high standards? Also, how do you navigate the potential inner conflict between wanting to be appreciated (2 core desire) and the inner critic's voice that comes from the 1 wing? Any tips on managing stress that arises from these opposing drives? Finally, I'd love to hear some personal experiences! How has understanding your 2w1 type helped you grow and improve your relationships, both personally and professionally? Looking forward to your insights and stories! 🌟 Thanks!

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TerraExplorer • 5/16/2024 8:26:50 AM

Hello everyone! 🌟 I’ve recently discovered I’m a Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1), and I’m curious about how this combination influences daily life and personal growth. For those who also identify as 2w1, how do you balance the inherent drive to help others (Type 2) with the desire for perfection and principle (Type 1)? I find myself often torn between wanting to assist everyone and needing things to be “just right” in the process. It’s rewarding but can be exhausting! How do you manage to set healthy boundaries and not overextend yourself while still staying true to the 2w1 inclinations? Additionally, I’d love to hear about any strategies or practices that have helped you leverage the strengths of this type/wing combo effectively. How do you ensure self-care without feeling guilty about it? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences. 😊 Thank you!

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RadiantMuse9 • 5/16/2024 3:01:26 AM

Hey Enneagram enthusiasts! I'm curious to hear your insights on the Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1). As someone exploring their own type, particularly within the Helper spectrum, I've found it challenging to distinguish the nuances between the 2w1 and other Type 2 configurations. How does the presence of the 1 wing specifically influence the behavior, motivation, and overall personality of a Type 2? 🤔 For instance, I understand that the 1 wing might introduce a stronger sense of morality or perfectionism, but I'm unsure how this plays out in real-life scenarios. Does this make a 2w1 more critical of themselves and others? How might it impact their approach to helping and relationships? I'd love to hear about your experiences or observations, especially if you or someone close to you identifies as a 2w1. What are the most distinct traits or patterns you've noticed with this combination? Any tips on growth and self-awareness for this type? Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #Personality #SelfGrowth

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WineSnob • 5/15/2024 9:30:09 PM

Hello everyone! 😊 I’m curious about the dynamics and unique characteristics of Enneagram Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1). I've read that 2w1s are often more focused on being principled helpers and are driven by a sense of duty, compared to 2w3s who are more image-conscious. How do you think this particular blend influences their interactions in relationships and at work? For those of you who identify as 2w1 or know someone who does, what are some specific challenges and strengths you've observed? Do you find that the "reformer" aspect of the 1 wing creates inner conflict with the natural desire to help from Type 2? I would love to hear personal experiences or any advice on how 2w1s can balance their need for helpfulness with a sense of personal integrity. 🧐 Thank you in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #PersonalGrowth

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VintageLover • 5/15/2024 3:38:01 PM

Hey everyone! I'm new to the Enneagram community and trying to better understand the nuances, especially around being a 2w1. I know that Type 2 is often characterized by being the "Helper" and has a deep desire to feel loved and needed. But I'm curious about how the 1 wing, known for being principled and perfectionistic, influences these traits. For those who identify as a 2w1, how do you experience the balance (or tension) between your core desire to help others and the desire to uphold strong personal or moral standards? Do you find that the 1 wing drives you to set higher expectations in your relationships and acts of service? How do you manage the potential conflict between wanting to be helpful and sometimes being critical or expecting perfection from yourself and others? Any personal stories or examples would be super helpful! Thanks in advance for sharing your insights and experiences! 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #PersonalGrowth

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