Enneagram Type and Wing 9w8

ChromaticDrift • 5/19/2024 6:55:52 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I've recently started delving into the Enneagram and discovered that I'm a Type 9 wing 8 (9w8). I'm finding the balance between the peaceful, easygoing nature of the Type 9 and the assertive, confident traits of the wing 8 to be particularly intriguing. One thing that I'm unsure about is how to effectively leverage the strengths of both aspects in my daily life. For fellow 9w8s, how do you manage the potential internal conflict between desiring harmony (Type 9) and the need to assert yourself (wing 8)? Do you have any strategies or tips that help you to harness both these sides effectively? Also, I’d love to hear about your personal experiences in terms of relationships and work dynamics. How do you navigate social settings and professional environments as a 9w8? Thank you all in advance for your insights! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #SelfGrowth #PersonalityTypes

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TechnoMuse • 5/19/2024 1:19:09 PM

Hi everyone! 👋 I'm diving into the intricacies of the Enneagram and I'm particularly curious about the 9w8 type. As a type 9 with an 8 wing, how do you balance the often contradictory traits of these two types? For instance, 9s are known for their peaceful, easygoing nature, while 8s are characterized by their assertiveness and desire for control. How does this dynamic play out in your daily life, relationships, and personal growth journey? Any insights, experiences, or advice on how to harmonize these aspects would be greatly appreciated! 🌟 Thanks in advance! 🙏

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RosyTwilights • 5/19/2024 7:24:13 AM

Hello Enneagram community! 👋 I'm curious to gather insights about the 9w8 personality type. For those who identify as 9w8s or have knowledge about this type, how do you personally experience the blend of the Type 9's peace-seeking nature with the assertive and protective qualities of the Type 8 wing? In particular, I'm interested in understanding the following: 1. How do you balance your desire for harmony (Type 9) with the 8's drive for independence and strength? 💪 2. What challenges do you face when integrating these seemingly different aspects of your personality? 3. How does being a 9w8 influence your relationships and conflict resolution styles? ❤️ 4. Are there specific practices or strategies you use to navigate overwhelming situations or internal conflict? Any personal anecdotes, tips, or resources would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences and wisdom. 🌟 Best, #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfAwareness

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CookieDoughConfabs • 5/19/2024 12:57:07 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm exploring my Enneagram type and I recently discovered that I'm a 9w8. I'm curious about how this unique combination of traits plays out in daily life. I know that type 9, the Peacemaker, values harmony and avoids conflict, while the 8 wing adds a touch of assertiveness and intensity. For those of you who identify as a 9w8, how do you find balance between your desire for peace and your 8 wing's drive to take charge and assert control? How does this blend of traits impact your relationships, work, and personal growth journey? Any tips or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to your insights! 🙌 #Enneagram #9w8 #Peacemaker #AssertiveWing

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BubblegumBabble • 5/18/2024 6:58:15 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving into the fascinating world of the Enneagram and would love some insights on the 9w8 type. As a core Type 9 with an assertive 8 wing, how does this unique blend of traits manifest in day-to-day life? Specifically, I'm curious about: 1. How do 9w8s navigate conflict given their peacemaking core and assertive wing? 2. What strengths and challenges are common for this type? 3. How do they balance their need for peace with the 8's desire for control and influence? Any personal experiences, tips, or resources would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance 😊 #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth

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FoodieFun • 5/18/2024 1:07:12 PM

Hello Enneagram community! 😊 I'm delving deeper into the nuances of the 9w8 personality and am curious about how the peacemaking nature of a Nine integrates with the assertive traits of an Eight. For those who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you find balance between seeking peace and asserting boundaries or taking control? Also, what are some practical strategies that help mitigate potential conflicts when these energies collide? Any personal insights or experiences would be greatly appreciated! 🌟 Thank you!

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WanderlustGal • 5/18/2024 6:44:13 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram lately and am particularly fascinated by the 9w8 type. I know the core motivation of Type 9 is to seek peace and avoid conflict, while the 8 wing adds a layer of assertiveness and strength. For those of you who identify as 9w8 or have close experiences with someone who is, how do you balance the intrinsic desire for harmony (Type 9) with the assertiveness and sometimes confrontational nature of the 8 wing? 🤔 Also, in what ways do you see this unique blend influencing your relationships and decision-making? Any personal stories or insights would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance for your thoughts and wisdom! 💬 #Enneagram #9w8 #SelfDiscovery

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burkinawubblybuns • 5/18/2024 1:09:57 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving into the fascinating world of the Enneagram recently and have discovered that I resonate most with the Type 9 with an 8 wing, also known as 9w8. I understand that this combination blends the peaceful nature of the 9 with the assertiveness of the 8, creating a unique personality mix. However, I'm curious to hear from those of you who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does: How does this combination manifest in your daily life? Specifically, how do you balance the desire for peace and harmony typical of 9s with the strong, assertive qualities of the 8 wing? Are there any particular challenges or advantages you've noticed? And how do you cope with conflicts or stressful situations? Thanks in advance for sharing your insights! Looking forward to learning from your experiences. 🌟 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery

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Vincent100 • 5/17/2024 8:20:27 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I'm curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8. I've been reading up on how the Type 9's peacemaking tendencies balance with the assertive, protective traits of the Type 8 wing. Are there any 9w8s here who can share their experiences on how this blend affects your daily life and relationships? I'm particularly interested in: - How you manage conflict given the Type 9’s dislike for it and the Type 8's confrontational side. - Ways you stay motivated and driven while keeping inner peace. - Any challenges or strengths unique to this combination. Looking forward to hearing your insights! Thanks! 🙏 #9w8 #Enneagram #Peacemaker #Challenger #SelfGrowth

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Donovan282 • 5/17/2024 2:52:43 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm trying to get a deeper understanding of the Enneagram, specifically about Type 9 with an 8-wing (9w8). From what I gather, 9w8s are often described as peaceful yet assertive, blending the easygoing nature of a Nine with the strength and decisiveness of an Eight. For those of you who identify as 9w8, how do you find that the 8-wing influences your typical Type 9 traits? Do you struggle with inner conflicts between wanting to keep the peace and asserting your own needs? Also, how does this combo impact your relationships, especially in situations requiring confrontation or setting boundaries? Any insights or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated! 😊 Thanks!

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