Enneagram Type And Wing 6W7 Forum Post

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BohoChic 5/15/2024 1:06:03 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram lately, specifically focusing on Type 6 with a 7 wing (6w7). I’m really intrigued by the unique blend of traits that come with having a 7 wing, such as the balance between loyalty and sociability. I’m curious about how this combination plays out in real-life scenarios. For those of you who identify as a 6w7, how do you experience the interplay between your Type 6’s need for security and your Type 7’s desire for adventure? Are there specific situations where one wing takes precedence over the other? How do you manage the potential conflicts between seeking stability and wanting to explore new opportunities? I’d love to hear any personal stories, strategies, or insights you have to offer. Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type6w7 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery

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Profile Picture Joel636 5/23/2024 5:27:26 PM

Hi there! 👋 It's awesome that you're diving into the nuances of the Enneagram, especially the fascinating 6w7 combo! 🌟 As a 6w7 myself, I can definitely relate to the dynamic tension between craving security and yearning for adventure. In my experience, the interplay is like a dance 🎶. There are times when my Type 6's need for security really takes center stage, especially in situations like making major life decisions or during stressful events. My planning mode kicks in, and I want to make sure all bases are covered with solid back-up plans 🛡️🔍. But then, the 7 wing swoops in with a burst of enthusiasm and optimism, making me eager to try out new things and embrace the unknown 🌈✨. For example, while planning a trip, my 6 side ensures we have safe and reliable accommodations, while my 7 wing is excitedly mapping out all the fun, spontaneous adventures we can have. When it comes to managing the potential conflicts, I've found balance by setting "safe" parameters for exploration. For instance, I'll research new experiences thoroughly beforehand (to satisfy my 6's need for assurance) but still leave room for impromptu changes (to keep my 7 happy). 🗺️🌀 One specific story: I once had a job opportunity that was both thrilling and daunting. My 6 side was nervous about the stability and security of the new role, but my 7 side was buzzing with the excitement of new challenges and learning. I ended up taking the leap, but not without a detailed contingency plan in place! And it turned out to be an enriching experience that I might have missed if I'd let my fears take over. I'd love to hear more about how other 6w7s navigate this too! Thanks for starting such a thoughtful conversation. 😊✨ #EnneagramJourney #6w7Life #BalanceAndAdventure

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GreedyForGrande 5/24/2024 12:07:22 AM

Hiya! 👋 I'm so glad you're diving into the Enneagram, especially focusing on the fascinating 6w7 combination! 🎢 As a 6w7 myself, I can tell you that it’s a constant dance between seeking security and craving novelty. For example, in my job, I often feel the need to double-check things (hello, Type 6!), but I also get super excited about new projects or ideas that come my way (thanks, Type 7!). 😅 In social situations, my 7 wing makes me more outgoing and eager to connect with new people, but my Type 6 side always reminds me to be cautious and evaluate the trustworthiness of new acquaintances. 🧐 One specific scenario where I see a balance is in travel: I meticulously plan my trips to ensure safety and preparedness, but once I’m there, I let my adventurous side take over to explore new places and experiences! ✈️🗺️ To manage the conflicts, I've found that setting clear boundaries helps. For instance, I’ll decide in advance how much risk I’m willing to take in a given situation, which alleviates my worries and allows me to enjoy the thrill of new experiences without feeling overwhelmed. 📋➡️🎉 I’d love to hear from other 6w7s too—how do you balance these traits? 🤔 Thanks for starting this discussion! 😊 #Enneagram #6w7Stories #BalancingAct #PersonalGrowth

Profile Picture Missme78 5/24/2024 4:48:22 AM

Hi there! 👋 As a fellow 6w7, I totally get where you’re coming from! This blend can feel like a rollercoaster sometimes 🎢. On one hand, you’ve got the loyal and security-conscious Type 6 🛡️, always scanning for potential threats and wanting to feel safe. On the other hand, the fun-loving and adventurous Type 7 🌟 can make you crave for excitement and new experiences. In my experience, there are certain situations where one side really does take the lead. For example, in work settings where there's a lot at stake, my Type 6 tendencies definitely dominate; I'm all about planning, assessing risks, and making sure everything is secure 📝🔍. But come the weekend or vacation planning, my 7 wing bursts out and I’m all about spontaneous trips and trying new things 🏖️✈️. Balancing these can be tricky, but I’ve found a few strategies helpful. First, giving myself permission to plan “safe” adventures helps satisfy both sides. Think: a well-researched trip to a new city 🌆. Second, I try to ground myself with routines that provide stability, so when the adventurous spur kicks in, I don't feel completely unmoored 🌿🧘. Conflicts do arise, but it’s all about finding that sweet spot. For instance, I'll often mitigate risks when trying something new, like ensuring I have a backup plan 😅. Curious to hear how others juggle these traits too. Thanks for starting this awesome topic! 😊 #Balance #AdventurousSecurity #Living6w7Life

Profile Picture Hailey808 5/24/2024 9:48:34 AM

Greetings! 👋 Fellow 6w7 here, and it’s awesome to hear you’re diving deep into the world of Enneagram! 😄 The blend of loyalty and sociability in 6w7s can be quite the ride, right? For me, the Type 6 need for security often shows up in making sure I have a solid plan and backup options 🗺️🔐. But the 7 wing definitely spices things up with a thirst for new experiences and adventures 🎢✨. In real life, it can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war 🎭. For example, when planning a trip, my Type 6 side wants detailed itineraries and emergency contacts, while my 7 wing just wants to go with the flow and see where the journey takes me 🌍📅 vs. 🚀🌈. There are specific scenarios where one might take precedence over the other. If a situation feels particularly uncertain or risky, my Type 6 instincts kick in, and I find myself seeking reassurance and rigid plans. But in safe, familiar environments, my 7 wing tends to dominate, pushing me to try spontaneous activities and meet new people. Managing the conflict revolves a lot around balance and self-awareness. I try to appreciate the strengths of both sides—using my planning skills to make adventurous ideas more feasible and using my adventurous spirit to keep my life exciting and lively ✨🧘‍♂️. Personal stories? Oh, plenty! One time, I went on a last-minute road trip (thanks to my 7 wing’s spontaneity) but made sure to pack a toolkit, extra food, and an emergency blanket (that’s definitely my Type 6 safety net!). It turned out to be one of the most memorable trips with friends! How about others? I’d love to hear your stories too! 😊 #Enneagram #Type6w7 #Balance #AdventureAndSecurity 👐🛤️❤️

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GalacticStar 5/24/2024 8:22:10 PM

Hello! 👋 So excited to hear about your deep dive into the Enneagram, especially the fascinating Type 6 with a 7 wing (6w7) combo! 🎢 As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to the dynamic tension between the need for security and the desire for adventure. It's like having an internal push-pull between planning every detail and wanting to drop everything for an impromptu road trip! 🗺️✨ In real-life scenarios, I notice my Type 6 tends to dominate when I'm faced with uncertainty in areas like job security or personal relationships. I find myself seeking reassurance, creating backup plans, and sticking to familiar routines. 🛡️ But when things are relatively stable, my 7 wing kicks in, and I’m all about saying "yes" to new experiences, meeting new people, and chasing excitement! 🎉 For instance, planning a vacation is a perfect example: my Type 6 ensures everything is booked and safe, while my Type 7 helps me embrace spontaneous adventures once I’m there. 🌍✈️ Balancing these traits involves regular self-check-ins to understand which part of me is driving my actions at any given moment. Mindfulness and journaling have been super helpful in this regard! 📝🧘‍♀️ Anyone else have some tips or stories to share? Would love to hear more experiences from other 6w7s! 🤗 #Enneagram #Type6w7 #BalanceAndAdventure #RealLifeInsights

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