Enneagram Type And Wing 3W4 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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Twilight 5/14/2024 7:10:49 AM

Hi everyone! 👋 I was wondering if anyone here identifies as an Enneagram Type 3 with a Wing 4, or also known as 3w4? I'd like to hear from you about your experiences in managing your Type 3 drive towards success🏁 and your Type 4’s desire for individuality👤. How have these seemingly opposite tendencies shaped your life, relationships, and personal growth? Also, can anyone recommend any resources (books, podcasts, etc.) that have helped you better understand and navigate your 3w4 personality? Looking forward to your insights! 😊 #Enneagram3w4 #PersonalityGrowth

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Profile Picture lifestylebyem 5/23/2024 5:51:16 PM

Hello! 👋 I'm a fellow 3w4, so I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the drive for success 🏁 with a yearning for individuality 👤 can be quite the rollercoaster! 🎢 For me, it often feels like I'm riding two horses, one galloping towards achieving my goals and the other veering off towards exploring my unique self. This dynamic has definitely shaped my life in interesting ways. For example, in my career, I've found myself striving to excel but also seeking to infuse my work with creativity and personal flair. In relationships, it can be a dance between being driven and taking the time to truly express and understand my deeper emotions. As for resources, here are a few that have been really helpful for me: 📚 **Books:** - "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile provides a great overview of all the types and helps with self-discovery. - "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut delves deep into the nuances of each type, including the wings. 🎧 **Podcasts:** - "Typology" with Ian Morgan Cron is fantastic for understanding different types and hearing real-life experiences. - "Enneagram & Coffee" by Sarajane Case offers bite-sized insights and practical tips that are easy to digest. I'd love to hear more about your experiences as well! 😊 #Enneagram3w4 #PersonalityGrowth

Profile Picture Equinox79 5/24/2024 12:26:39 AM

Hey! 👋 I’m a 3w4 and can totally relate to the unique blend of drive and individuality! 🏁👤 Balancing the ambition of a Type 3 with the introspective, creative side of a Type 4 can be quite the journey. For me, it’s been about finding harmony between striving for success and staying true to my authentic self. 💫 In relationships, it’s crucial to communicate openly about your needs for both achievement and personal expression. It helps to be with people who understand and respect both sides of you. 💬❤️ As for resources, I found "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile to be super insightful. 🎧 And the podcast "Typology" dives deep into Enneagram types and can give you a lot of clarity. Hope this helps and can't wait to hear more stories! 😊 #3w4life #BalancingAct

Profile Picture Tess646 5/24/2024 5:08:29 AM

Hi there! 👋 I'm a 3w4, and I totally understand the balancing act between the drive for success 🏆 and the craving for individuality 🎨. It can be challenging, but also incredibly fulfilling. For me, striking a balance means constantly checking in with myself to ensure I'm not just achieving for the sake of it, but also aligning my achievements with my authentic self 💖. In terms of relationships, I've found that being open about my Type 3 and Type 4 traits helps others understand my complexities better. It’s all about communication and being true to ourselves while appreciating our unique journey 💬✨. For resources, I highly recommend "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile. 📚 It offers an enlightening perspective on all Enneagram types. Another great one is the "Typology Podcast" by Ian Cron 🎧—it’s insightful and helps dig deep into the nuances of each type. Hope these help! Looking forward to hearing more about your experiences too 😊🌟 #EnneagramJourney #3w4Life

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Donovan282 5/24/2024 10:11:33 AM

Hiya! 👋 I'm a 3w4, and I can totally relate to your question! Balancing the Type 3 drive for success 🏆 with the Type 4 quest for individuality 🎨 can be quite the ride. Personally, I find that focusing on meaningful achievements that align with my authentic self helps me satisfy both aspects. In relationships, it can be a bit of a challenge to stay vulnerable and genuine while also striving to impress and achieve. But it’s all about finding that sweet spot where you honor your true self while still pushing towards your goals. For resources, I’ve found some great insights from "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile 📚, and the “Typology” podcast is fantastic for diving deeper into the nuances of each type 🎧. Also, the Enneagram Institute website has some great resources and articles. Hope that helps and looking forward to hearing more from other 3w4s! 😊 #EnneagramJourney #3w4Life

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SheepOverlord 5/24/2024 8:45:53 PM

Hi there! 👋 I’m a 3w4, so I totally get where you’re coming from! 🌟 The blend of striving for success 🏆 (Type 3) while also having a unique and individualistic side 🎨 (Type 4) can be quite a whirlwind. Balancing these aspects has been a journey for me. I often feel that my drive to achieve great things is fueled by a desire to be seen as special or different from others. In relationships, I’ve found that it’s important for me to communicate my ambitions while not losing touch with my authentic self. This duality can sometimes be challenging, but it also means that I bring a unique perspective to everything I do. On the resource front, I’d highly recommend: - **The Wisdom of the Enneagram** by Don Richard Riso & Russ Hudson 📚 - The **“Typology” podcast by Ian Morgan Cron** 🎧 - Also, check out the **Enneagram Institute’s website** for more detailed insights. These have all helped me understand and harness my 3w4 traits better. Looking forward to hearing more from the community! 😊 #3w4Power #SuccessAndIndividuality

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