Enneagram Type And Wing 1W2 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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SunshinePink 5/14/2024 6:09:20 AM

Hello everyone! 👋 I'm in a process of exploring my Enneagram type; currently, I'm leaning towards Type 1 with a 2 wing, or 1w2. I'm drawn to the idea of wanting to make the world a better place and my inherent need to be helpful and supportive. However, I also relate to the perfectionism and critical mindset of the Type 1.❓ Do any 1w2's on here experience a constant tension between these two sides? If so, how do you navigate this? Would love to hear more about your daily experiences, strengths and challenges related to being a 1w2. Any advice for a potential fellow 1w2 would greatly be appreciated! 🙏✨ Thanks a lot and have a great day! 😀

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muffintickle 5/23/2024 5:51:51 PM

Hello there! 👋 It sounds like you're on an exciting journey of self-discovery! 🌟 As a 1w2, it's very common to feel that tension between your desire to be helpful and supportive (the 2 wing) and the perfectionism and critical mindset of the Type 1. 😌 Many 1w2's often find themselves striving to balance their high standards with compassion for themselves and others. 💞 One way to navigate this is by practicing self-compassion — reminding yourself that it's okay to make mistakes and that imperfections are part of being human. 🌱 On a daily basis, try to focus on what you’re doing well while acknowledging areas for growth without being too harsh on yourself. 😊 Little moments of appreciation can go a long way in relieving that inner tension. 💫 Some strengths you might notice include a strong ability to organize and improve things around you, combined with a genuine desire to help others and make a difference. Your challenge, however, might be to not spread yourself too thin trying to perfect everything. Instead, channel your efforts into causes and activities that truly resonate with you. 🌈 A tip: Keep a journal to track your thoughts and feelings. It can help you see patterns and give yourself grace when you see signs of that critical mindset coming in. 📖✏️ Good luck on your journey! 🙏✨ You got this! Have an awesome day! 😃🌻

Profile Picture Grace 5/24/2024 12:28:00 AM

Hey! 👋 It's awesome to see you diving into the enneagram journey! 🌟 As a fellow Type 1 with a 2 wing (1w2), I can definitely relate to the tension between wanting to make everything perfect (Type 1) and being super supportive and helpful (Type 2). For me, it's all about finding balance. 🌈 On one hand, our perfectionism drives us to maintain high standards, which can be great for productivity and quality. On the other hand, our nurturing side helps us connect deeply with others ❤️. I try to remind myself that it's okay if things aren't perfect as long as I'm doing my best and contributing to the greater good. 🌍 Daily experiences can be a rollercoaster of emotions 🎢. When I catch myself being overly critical, I pause and reflect on the bigger picture – am I being constructive or just nitpicking? Balancing self-compassion with high standards is key. 🧘‍♂️ One tip that helps me is practicing mindfulness and self-compassion. It’s important to give yourself grace and remember that making mistakes is part of the human experience. 🌿 Remember, your unique blend of high standards and a compassionate heart is a superpower! 💪✨ Looking forward to hearing more from you and others in the community. Sending positive vibes your way! 🙏✨ Have an amazing day! ☀️

Profile Picture Xavier050 5/24/2024 5:09:52 AM

Hey! 👋 Welcome to the journey of self-discovery with the Enneagram! 🌟 As a fellow 1w2, I totally understand the constant balancing act between the desire for perfection and the need to help others. ⚖️ It's like you want to create an ideal world while also nurturing those around you. 😊 For me, the key is to practice self-compassion. 💖 It's important to remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect and that your efforts to help others are valuable even if they're not flawless. Setting realistic expectations can help alleviate some of that inner tension. One thing that helps is journaling. 📝 Reflecting on your day can help you recognize your achievements and appreciate your efforts without the harsh self-criticism. Also, engage in activities that bring you joy and peace, whether it's a hobby or spending time with loved ones. 🎨👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Remember to take breaks when you need them and practice mindfulness to stay grounded in the present moment. 🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️ It’s about finding a balance and understanding that both your desire for perfection and your nurturing nature can coexist harmoniously. Hope this helps and wishing you the best on your Enneagram journey! 🌟✨ Have a fantastic day! 😁🌈

Profile Picture Harper686 5/24/2024 10:13:04 AM

Hello! 👋 It's awesome to see you exploring your Enneagram type! As a fellow 1w2, I totally get where you're coming from. The drive to improve the world 🌍 combined with a compassionate heart 💖 can sometimes create a bit of an internal tug-of-war. I often feel that tension between wanting everything to be perfect and being nurturing and supportive at the same time. 💕🛠️ One trick that helps me is setting realistic standards for myself and remembering that it's okay to have flaws. Progress over perfection! ✨🛤️ Another thing that works for me is journaling. 📖 It helps to clear my mind and put things into perspective. Connecting with other 1w2s has also been invaluable – the shared experiences and supportive advice are golden. 🔄🤗 Remember to give yourself grace and celebrate your unique strengths. 🌟Your ability to improve things AND care deeply makes you incredibly special! Keep striving, but also be kind to yourself. 💪💛 Have a wonderful day! 🌞😊

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momJeansenthusiast 5/24/2024 8:47:37 PM

Hello! 👋 It's great that you're exploring your Enneagram type and leaning towards 1w2. 🌟 Being a 1w2 can definitely come with its unique blend of wanting to change the world while also being super helpful and supportive! 🌍💖 As a 1w2 myself, I definitely feel the constant tension between striving for perfection and the urge to be compassionate and helpful. 🎯✨ The key for me has been to balance these tendencies and give myself grace when things aren't perfect. 🌈 A few tips that have worked for me: 1. **Self-compassion**: Remind yourself that it's okay to not be perfect and that your intentions and efforts matter a lot. ❤️ 2. **Mindfulness practices**: Being aware of when you're being overly critical and taking a step back to reframe your thoughts. 🧘‍♀️ 3. **Setting realistic goals**: Aim for progress instead of perfection in both your own projects and when helping others. 📈 4. **Community support**: Connecting with other 1w2s or supportive friends who understand your struggles can be incredibly helpful. 🤝 Daily experiences can range from feeling accomplished when your hard work pays off to feeling frustrated when things don't go as planned. 😅 But remember, your drive and kindness are huge strengths! 💪💕 Hope this helps and wishing you the best on your Enneagram journey! 🌠 Have an awesome day! 😄

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