Hi everyone 🙋♀️ I've recently discovered my Enneagram type and it's a Type 1 with a 9 wing (1w9). I'm fascinated by the self-discovery journey this has led me on and I'm eager to understand more about my Enneagram type. Specifically, I'd like know how the Type 1 core tendencies and Type 9 wing typically influence one another. If there are any 1w9’s out there, could you please share some insights into your personality traits and coping mechanisms? And can anyone point me towards resources particularly good for 1w9's? Thanks! 🌻
Hi there! 🙋♂️ It's great to see you diving into your Enneagram journey! As a fellow 1w9, I can share some of my experiences. The Type 1 core is all about striving for perfection, having a strong sense of right and wrong, and wanting to improve things in the world 🌍. The 9 wing brings a more relaxed, peace-seeking element to this Type. It can dial down the intensity a bit, making you more easygoing and less critical than a 1w2. The 9 wing also gives a greater ability to see multiple perspectives and avoid conflict ☮️. In terms of personality traits, you might find yourself balancing a strong internal critic with a desire for inner peace. You strive for high standards, but also look for harmony in your environment. It can sometimes be a tug-of-war between the perfectionist and the peacemaker within you ⚖️. As for coping mechanisms, mindfulness and self-compassion are key 🔑. It's important to be kind to yourself and remember that perfection isn’t always necessary. Some techniques that help me include meditation 🧘♂️, nature walks 🌲, and journaling 📓. They help in finding balance and serenity. For resources, I recommend the book "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson 📚. Also, check out some Enneagram podcasts like "The Enneagram Journey." They can offer a lot of insights into daily life as a 1w9. Hope this helps, and welcome to the fascinating world of the Enneagram! 🌼
Howdy! 🙋♂️ Welcome to the world of Enneagram self-discovery! 🌈✨ I’m a 1w9 too, so I get your curiosity. Here’s a bit of insight from my experience: Being a Type 1, you're driven by a strong inner critic, always striving for perfection and integrity. With the 9 wing, you likely bring a more peaceful and diplomatic approach to your Type 1 tendencies. This means you aim for perfection, but also value harmony and tranquility in your environment 🌼🌿. Personally, I've found the 9 wing helps me stay calm and collected when things don't go as planned. It softens the rigidity and self-critical nature of the 1, making it a little easier to let go of imperfections and focus on the bigger picture 🌊😊. As for coping mechanisms, meditation and mindful breathing are gold! 🧘♀️ They help balance the intense drive of the 1 with the calming vibes of the 9. Regular reflection and journaling also keep my inner critic in check 📖✍️. For resources, I highly recommend "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson and Beatrice Chestnut's "The Complete Enneagram". Both provide excellent insights into each type and wing combination 📚✨. Hope this helps! Wishing you an enlightening journey ahead! 🌟💖 #Enneagram #1w9 #SelfDiscovery
Howdy! 🙋♂️ It's awesome that you've embarked on this journey of self-discovery! 🌟 As a fellow 1w9, let me share a bit about how the Type 1 core and Type 9 wing interact. Type 1's core tendencies are all about striving for perfection, adhering to high standards, and maintaining a strong sense of right and wrong. This can sometimes lead to inner criticism. However, with the 9 wing, there's a desire for peace and harmony, which can bring a calming influence to the sometimes intense nature of a Type 1. This combo means you likely value tranquility and want to create a balanced, just environment without too much conflict. 😊 In terms of coping mechanisms, I find that the 9 wing helps me to be more laid-back and open to compromise, which can counteract the rigidity of the Type 1. Meditation and mindful relaxation can be really helpful too. 🧘♀️ For resources, I recommend checking out "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson. It's a comprehensive guide and has great insights. Also, sites like Enneagram Institute and podcasts like "Typology" can offer personalized advice and deeper dives specifically for 1w9’s. 📚🎧 Feel free to reach out if you have more questions or need a chat! 🌻✨
Hi there! 🙋♂️ Welcome to the wonderful journey of self-discovery with the Enneagram! 🌟 As a fellow 1w9, I can definitely relate to your excitement and curiosity. For us 1w9's, the core Type 1 tendencies of striving for perfection, a strong inner critic, and a powerful desire for integrity and justice are often balanced by the Type 9 wing's inclination towards peace, harmony, and avoiding conflict. This unique combination can make us appear more serene and diplomatic compared to other Type 1s, but it also means we might struggle with being overly critical of ourselves while wanting to maintain inner and outer peace. 📏⚖️ In terms of personality traits, you might find yourself being very principled, responsible, and organized (thanks to Type 1) while also being easygoing, patient, and sometimes avoiding confrontation (thanks to Type 9). This blend can be very powerful for achieving balanced perspectives and thoughtful actions but can also cause inner conflict when your high standards clash with your desire to avoid conflict. For coping mechanisms, I find that incorporating mindfulness practices like meditation or yoga helps keep the inner critic in check while maintaining a sense of calm. It's also helpful to set realistic, compassionate goals and to remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes and that striving for progress is often more valuable than achieving perfection. As for resources, I highly recommend "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson 📚, which provides comprehensive insights into each type and wing combination. Additionally, the website Enneagram Institute is a treasure trove of information specifically tailored to different types and wings. Hope this helps and enjoy your Enneagram journey! 💫✨
Hi there! 🙋♂️ Welcome to the fascinating world of the Enneagram! As a fellow 1w9, I can share a bit about my experience. 😊 The core tendencies of a Type 1, often called "The Reformer," include a strong sense of ethics, a desire for improvement, and a drive for perfection. The Type 9 wing, "The Peacemaker," softens some of the 1's intensity with a more laid-back, conflict-averse approach. This blend tends to balance the drive for perfection with a calm, harmonious demeanor. For me, the 9 wing helps me relax and not be so hard on myself, adding a touch of patience and understanding that’s not always typical for Type 1s. However, it can sometimes make it difficult to take decisive action because of the 9’s tendency to avoid conflict and desire for peace. As for coping mechanisms, mindfulness and self-compassion practices have been amazing. 🌿 Also, setting realistic goals and allowing myself moments of relaxation help to balance the drive and calm aspects. For resources, I highly recommend checking out books like "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile, and the Enneagram Institute's website. They offer deep dives into the nuances of each type and wing. 📚 Hope this helps, and enjoy your journey of self-discovery! 🌟💫