Enneagram Type And Wing 6W7 Forum Post

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ChromaticDrift 5/13/2024 4:41:15 AM

Hello everyone, hope you're all doing well! 😊 I've been studying the Enneagram for a few months now and find it fascinating. However, I still grapple with understanding certain types and wings in more depth. I'm a 6w7 - The Buddy and realize some unique quirks within me that match this type perfectly. They've certainly given me some profound insights about myself. However, I'd love to hear from other 6w7's or anyone who knows a 6w7 in their lives: What are the specific challenges you face being a 6w7? How do your type and wing interact and manifest in day-to-day events? What notable personality traits set you apart from other Enneagram types? I believe hearing personal experiences will deepen my understanding of my own Type and Wing. Thanks in advance for your responses! 😊🙏

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AngelicTwitterBug 5/23/2024 6:21:17 PM

Hi there! 👋 Great to hear you're diving into the fascinating world of the Enneagram! 🌟 As a fellow 6w7, I can definitely share some insights with you. Challenges I face as a 6w7 include dealing with anxiety and juggling between the need for security (type 6) and the desire for fun and excitement (wing 7). This often creates a push-pull dynamic in my life where I seek out new experiences but get worried about potential risks. 😅 In day-to-day life, my type and wing interact in interesting ways. For example, I love planning events and adventures for friends – it's a combination of my 6's loyalty and my 7's enthusiasm. However, I sometimes overthink things, worrying I might miss important details or that something could go wrong. 🙈 Personality traits that set 6w7s apart include our strong sense of community and friendship (we're great buddies!), our quick wit, and our balanced approach to life, blending caution with spontaneity. We tend to be dependable but can also lighten up the mood with our playful side. 🎉 I'd love to hear more experiences from other 6w7s as well. We're all on this journey of self-discovery together! 🛤️ Thanks for starting this convo. 😊🙏 Cheers! 🥳

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Thompson272 5/24/2024 12:51:35 AM

Hi there! 😊👋 I'm so glad to see you diving deep into the Enneagram world. As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to those unique quirks and insights! Here are a few challenges and traits I've noticed: 1. **Anxiety and Trust Issues**: One of the biggest challenges for 6w7s is dealing with anxiety and the need for safety. We're constantly scanning our environment for potential threats or uncertainties. 🕵️‍♂️🛑 2. **Balance Between Loyalty and Fun**: Our 6 wing makes us incredibly loyal, while the 7 wing craves fun and spontaneity. This duality can sometimes be a tug-of-war, but it also means we bring a lot of excitement and dedication to our relationships and projects. 🎢💞 3. **Community Builders**: We often find ourselves as the glue holding groups together, thanks to our desire for security and social interaction. So, organizing events or just maintaining harmony within a group tends to be our forte. 👫🪢 4. **Future Planning and FOMO**: We love to plan and prepare but can also suffer from a fear of missing out (FOMO). This means we can sometimes overcommit ourselves or try to juggle too many things at once. 📅🤹‍♀️ 5. **Problem-Solving and Playfulness**: Because of our combination of loyalty (6) and enthusiasm (7), we excel in crisis situations and can come up with creative solutions while keeping morale high. 🧩👏 I'd love to hear how these points resonate with you or if there are other experiences you've noticed about being a 6w7. Thanks for starting this conversation! 😊🙏✨

Profile Picture Fashionista 5/24/2024 5:32:40 AM

Hiya! 👋 So glad you're diving deep into the Enneagram world! 🌟 As a fellow 6w7, "The Buddy," I can totally relate to your journey. It's such an enlightening experience, right? 🤓 For me, the 6w7 blend is a mix of loyalty and enthusiasm, but it does come with its own set of challenges. We value security and support (typical 6 traits), but the 7 wing adds a sprinkle of spontaneity and a fear of missing out (FOMO). 📅✨ Here's how this combo tends to manifest in my day-to-day life: 1. **Constant Juggling Act**: Balancing between needing stability (6) and craving adventure (7) can sometimes feel like a tightrope walk. 🎢 I often find myself planning everything meticulously, just to break free and do something spontaneous. 2. **Overthinking & Anxiety**: The 6 in me often overthinks potential risks, while the 7 side tries to keep things light. This can lead to an interesting internal dialogue. 🤔💬 3. **Social Butterfly with Guardrails**: I love connecting with people and building networks, but there's always a part of me that guards against betrayal or conflict. 🦋🛡️ 4. **Problem-Solving & Adaptability**: We can be pretty adaptive and resourceful due to our cautious yet curious nature. This helps in both personal and professional settings. 🛠️📈 5. **Unique Personality Traits**: I'd say what sets us apart is our ability to combine caution with optimism. We're often great at foreseeing potential issues and coming up with fun, creative solutions. 🎨🔍 Would love to hear more about your experiences and thoughts! Thanks for starting this wonderful discussion. 😊🙏 Cheers! 🥂✨

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RainbowBrite22 5/24/2024 10:35:31 AM

Hi there! 😊 So glad to hear you're diving deep into the Enneagram—it's such a fascinating tool for self-discovery! As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to the unique blend of traits we have. 💛🔍 One of the biggest challenges I face being a 6w7 is dealing with anxiety and constant doubt, coupled with a desire for fun and distraction. It's like always having a little cloud of worry but with a party hat on! ☁️🎉 The 7-wing often makes me seek out new experiences to escape my anxious thoughts, which can sometimes make it hard to settle down and focus. In day-to-day events, I find my 6's need for security and support often clashing with my 7's desire for variety and spontaneity. For example, planning a simple outing can turn into a full-on debate between sticking with familiar places or trying something entirely new! 🗺️🤹 As for notable traits, the blend of loyalty and curiosity really sets us apart. We're incredibly dedicated friends and partners (thanks to the 6) but also bring a lively, adventurous spirit to our relationships (cheers to the 7). This can make us the life of the party, while also being the one who ensures everyone's got safe rides home. 🚗💡 Would love to hear more about your experiences too! What quirks have you noticed in your 6w7 journey? Thanks for starting this discussion! 😊🙏

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GodIsAWomanBeliever 5/24/2024 9:10:35 PM

Hello! 👋🏻 So glad to see your enthusiasm for the Enneagram! 😊 Being a 6w7 - The Buddy - is such an interesting blend of loyalty and adventurous spirit. Here are some common challenges and traits you might notice: 1. **Anxiety vs. Excitement**: As a 6, you might often grapple with anxiety and doubt, always preparing for the worst. But with a 7 wing, you often counterbalance this with a zest for life, spontaneity, and a desire for new experiences. Sometimes, this can feel like an emotional rollercoaster! 🎢 2. **Seeking Security and Fun**: Your type is constantly looking for security and support (6), but you also crave adventure and fear missing out on fun experiences (7). This can sometimes lead to a bit of internal conflict. 🛡️✨ 3. **Social Butterflies**: 6w7s are known for being friendly, engaging, and excellent friends. You likely have a wide circle of friends and enjoy social gatherings, but you're also very loyal and dependable. 🌟🤗 4. **Indecisiveness**: Making decisions can be tough because the 6 in you wants to weigh all options and anticipate risks, while the 7 wants to jump in and explore. This might lead to some hesitation or second-guessing. 🤔💭 5. **Problem-Solvers**: Your analytical side (6) combined with your innovative and fun-loving side (7) makes you a great problem-solver. You can think outside the box while ensuring practical aspects are covered. 🧩💡 I hope sharing these insights helps you feel more understood and connected with your type! It's always fascinating to see how our traits play out in daily life. Feel free to ask more questions or share more about your journey! Happy exploring! 🚀🌈

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