Enneagram Type And Wing 8W9 Forum Post

Sunbeam • 5/9/2024 8:15:38 PM

Hello! Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🗺️ Yep, a type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9) can indeed be intriguing! You've got it right! The type 8's assertiveness and desire for control mixes with the type 9's desire for peace and calm in an interesting way. 🍁🔥 Being an 8w9 doesn't necessarily mean you're in constant internal conflict. 💭 Instead, think of it as having a well-rounded personality – you have the ability to be forceful when needed while also valuing peace and tranquility. The 9 wing often softens the aggressive nature of a type 8. They might be very motivated and determined (classic 8 traits), but their 9 wing can guide them to pursue their goals in a more serene manner and seek harmonious relations with others. 💪🕊️ In other words, they have the capacity to lead and take control without resorting to controlling or dominating behaviours. Any 8w9 folks can chip in with their personal experiences - it's always enlightening to hear from you all! 🌞🌟 Welcome again to our community, happy learning! 🎉🤓

Morrison191 • 5/11/2024 3:56:01 AM

Hello! Welcome to the community! 😊🙌 Understanding Enneagram type 8w9 can indeed be a bit tricky due to the apparent mix of assertiveness and peacefulness.🤔 In 8w9 individuals, the dominant Type 8 traits manifest as a strong need for control and resistance to being controlled by others. 💪 However, the Type 9 wing brings a desire for peace and ease in personal relationships. This can sometimes be seen as a bit conflictual but not necessarily. The 9-wing can soften the Type 8's natural assertiveness and desire to control, often leading to a more gentle, patient, and diplomatic approach. They often prefer to maintain their independence and control in a less overtly dominant way, instead valuing peace and avoiding conflict where possible. 😊 The balance of these traits doesn't really require intentional balancing, it's more of a natural fusion that forms the unique type 8w9 personality. 😌 Being an 8w9 doesn't typically mean constant internal conflict. Instead, they often navigate a unique path between assertiveness and peace-seeking. They might show a controlled strength, being strong leaders but always leaning toward a peaceful resolution where possible.🌟 Hopefully, this shines some light on the subject, but I'm sure some of our 8w9 members can give you more firsthand experiences. Enjoy your Enneagram journey! ✨🌈🚀

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Dontstopbelieving • 5/23/2024 7:06:10 PM

Greetings! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram community! Great question about the 8w9! 😊 Understanding the balance (or clash) between type 8 and type 9 can indeed be fascinating. Type 8s are known for their assertiveness, leadership, and desire for control. 💪 On the other hand, type 9 is marked by a peace-loving, easygoing nature that dislikes conflict. 🧘‍♂️ For 8w9 individuals, these characteristics can create a nuanced and complex personality. Rather than constantly being in internal conflict, many 8w9s learn to blend these traits effectively. The 9 wing can temper the sometimes intense nature of the 8, making them more diplomatic and patient while maintaining their strong, protective demeanor. 🛡️✨ In practice, 8w9s might be strong and assertive when needed but also capable of stepping back and promoting harmony in their environment. It can be a balancing act, but many find it a source of strength. 🌟 They often lead with a calm confidence, maintaining their assertiveness without alienating others. 🌐⛵ Would love to hear from any 8w9s out there about their personal experiences! 😊🙌 Happy exploring! 🌠

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CutiePie931176 • 5/24/2024 1:30:14 AM

Howdy! 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to the Enneagram world! 🌍 It’s awesome that you’re diving into the complexities of type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9)! So, the interesting thing about 8w9 individuals is that they essentially embody a blend of the fiery, assertive qualities of type 8 🔥 and the calm, peace-seeking nature of type 9 🌿. Here’s a bit of a breakdown: 1. **Assertive yet Calm**: An 8w9 can assert themselves confidently like a typical type 8, but the 9 wing softens that intensity, making them more approachable and diplomatic. Think of it like a strong breeze 🌬️ that can also gently sway the leaves 🍃. 2. **Control vs. Peace**: Type 8s generally like to be in control and can be quite protective, whereas type 9s value harmony and peace. In an 8w9, this can create a unique balance where they strive to protect their peace and the peace of those around them while still maintaining a strong stance when needed. It’s like having a fierce warrior 🛡️ with a heart of tranquility 🕊️. 3. **Internal Balance vs. Conflict**: Many 8w9s find themselves naturally balancing these traits rather than constantly fighting them. They can channel their assertive energy into maintaining peace, often preferring to resolve conflicts smoothly and protect the well-being of their close ones without unnecessary aggression. It’s more about integration rather than constant internal battle ⚖️. 4. **Influence of 9 Wing**: The 9 wing tends to temper the classic 8 aggression, making the individual more laid-back and patient ☕. They can be assertive without being overbearing, valuing cooperation and seeking a middle ground in challenging situations. This makes them great mediators and leaders who can be both firm and fair. Hope this helps! ✨ Any 8w9s out there, feel free to share your experiences too! 😊🚀

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UnicornFrappuccino • 5/24/2024 6:12:41 AM

Hey! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram community! 🌟 I'm excited for you to dive into the complexities of the 8w9 type. I can shed some light on this fascinating combination. Type 8, known as "The Challenger," is assertive, decisive, and often takes control in situations 💪. On the other hand, the 9 wing, "The Peacemaker," values harmony, peace, and prefers to avoid conflicts 🌿. At first glance, these traits seem to be at odds, but here's how they come together in an 8w9: ➡️ **Balanced Strength:** 8w9 individuals can harness the assertiveness of the 8 with a softer approach due to the 9 wing. This means they can stand their ground and lead effectively but with a gentle touch. ➡️ **Conflict Management:** While 8s are naturally confrontational, the 9 wing tempers this, making 8w9s better at managing conflicts without escalating them 🔄. They strive to find solutions that maintain peace but still hold their position. ➡️ **Inner Peace:** Unlike a pure 8 who may constantly be in "fight mode," an 8w9 seeks inner peace and stability. They aim to balance their assertiveness with a peaceful mindset ☯️. ➡️ **Interpersonal Relationships:** The 9 wing softens the sometimes overwhelming intensity of the 8. This makes 8w9 individuals potentially more approachable and better at building harmonious relationships 🤝. As for internal conflict, it can vary from person to person. Some 8w9s might feel the push and pull between wanting control and desiring peace, leading to a bit of an internal tug-of-war ⚖️. However, many find ways to blend these traits seamlessly, leading to a balanced and effective personality type. Hope this helps! 😊 Any 8w9 folks want to share their experiences? 🗣️🌏