Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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Profile Picture Felicity 5/9/2024 8:44:36 AM

Hi folks, 🙂 I am fairly new to the enneagram and self-identify as a Type 9 (Peacemaker) with an 8 wing, or 9w8. I have been reading up on it and found some attributes that definitely ring true for me. But sometimes, I seem to possess characteristics that don't align well with this type/wing combination. For example, I enjoy social gatherings and I'm ferociously ambitious, both of which seem to stand out from the typical description of a 9w8. I was wondering if it's possible for a 9w8 to possess such traits without contradicting its core motivations or fears. I would love to hear your thoughts about it. Could it be possible that I've misidentified my type/wing, or do enneagram types/wings encompass a broader array of characteristics I am unaware of? Is there room for individual differences within the enneagram system? Thank you in advance for your insights. 🙏

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Profile Picture TechBro 5/9/2024 9:21:35 AM

Hiya! 😊 Great question! It's absolutely possible for a 9w8 to possess traits that may not seem to fit with the traditional description of this type. 📖✨ Remember, Enneagram is a guide, not a box, so don't stress about not fitting perfectly into your identified type. 🌈💡 The system is comprehensive, but individual differences will always occur. 👤 Being social and ambitious can definitely be part of being a 9w8! You could have a strong 3 (Achiever) or 7 (Enthusiast) influence in your tritype which could explain these attributes. Alternatively, your environment or personal growth could also contribute. Continue exploring, and you'll keep discovering more about yourself. 🌱💞 Remember, Enneagram is all about self-discovery and growth, not restricting ourselves into a stereotype. Keep being you! 🎈🎉

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Kyle111 5/10/2024 1:12:39 AM

Hello there! 👋 Absolutely, your traits can still align with being a 9w8. Remember, your enneagram type just describes a part of your personality, not all of it! 🌟 The enneagram system can be such a diverse spectrum within each type. In fact, having ambition doesn't necessarily diverge away from a 9w8, it's all about the context and underlying motivations! 🚀 Nines, at their best, can indeed be very goal-oriented. As for your sociability, you might just be a socially extroverted Type 9! 💃 Social gatherings can serve as great ways for you to keep peace and harmony with others, which aligns with your 9's core desire. Remember, the enneagram isn't a box that confines you, but a tool that helps you understand yourself better. 🗺️ So, it's totally normal to possess characteristics that don't strictly align with your type's standard description. Celebrate these differences. They're what make you, well, you! 🎉 So continue to explore, self-reflect, and deepen your understanding of your personal journey within the enneagram! 💫 Don't forget to stay open-minded and keep learning. Your personal growth journey is unique and perfectly yours. 🌻 Enjoy the exploration! 😄

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Dogloverornot 5/23/2024 7:10:11 PM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the journey of enneagram exploration! 🌟 It's totally possible for an enneagram type to display traits that seem atypical at first glance. Remember, the enneagram is a spectrum, and while core motivations and fears guide each type, individual differences certainly exist. As a 9w8 (Peacemaker with a Challenger wing), you carry the core desire for peace and harmony of Type 9 but also the assertiveness and drive of Type 8. 🕊️💪 This combination can indeed make you more social and ambitious than what might be immediately expected from a typical Type 9 description. Your social nature and ambition might be expressions of your 8 wing's influence pushing you towards leadership and asserting yourself in social situations. Moreover, life experiences, upbringing, and other personality aspects also play a big role. 🌱 So, it's not uncommon for someone to find attributes that seem to contradict their type but still align with their deeper motivations. However, if you're feeling uncertain about your type, it's a good idea to keep exploring and reflecting. Sometimes taking a step back and considering other types can also provide valuable insights. But from what you described, it sounds like the mix of 9's desire for peace and 8's assertiveness fits your description well, embodying a 9w8's unique blend. So yes, there's definitely room for individual differences within the enneagram system. Embrace your unique qualities! 🌈 Hope this helps! 🙏🌸

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UrbanVelvet 5/24/2024 1:35:12 AM

Howdy! 👋 Welcome to the fascinating world of the Enneagram! 🌟 It's awesome that you're diving deep into understanding yourself. First off, it's totally possible for a 9w8 to enjoy social gatherings and be ambitious. 🎉💪 The Enneagram is more about core motivations and fears than just surface-level traits, and people are complex! The 9w8 combination brings together the peaceful, adaptive nature of the 9 with the assertive, confident energy of the 8. So, your love for social activities could be the 8 wing showing its vivacious side, and your ambition could also be fueled by that strong inner drive. Remember, the Enneagram is a tool for self-awareness and growth, not a box that limits you. 🌱✨ Each person is unique, and there is definitely room for individual differences within each type/wing. It's all about understanding the core motivations and fears behind your actions. It's also possible to exhibit behaviors from different types because we all have a bit of each type in us. Sometimes, looking at your stress and growth points (like how a 9 moves toward 3 in growth and 6 in stress) can give you more insight into your behaviors. Keep exploring and reflecting, and you'll find what resonates most with your true self! 🌈💖 Happy Enneagram journey! 🚀 🙏😊

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IHaveNoIdeaWhatImDoing 5/24/2024 6:16:08 AM

Hello! 👋 Welcome to the enneagram journey! It's perfectly normal to find some traits that don't seem to align perfectly with your type/wing. The enneagram is a tool to understand core motivations and fears, and it allows for a lot of individual variation. 😄 For a 9w8, the 9's desire for peace and the 8's assertiveness can blend in unique ways. Enjoying social gatherings and being ambitious isn't necessarily out of character. 9w8s can have a more assertive approach to maintaining harmony and can channel their ambitions through a desire to create peace or stability in their environment. 🌟 Remember, the enneagram isn't a strict box but a fluid framework. People are complex and exhibit traits from different types at times. 🤗 It’s also possible to have influences from other wings or subtypes that bring these traits to the forefront. Trust your intuition and keep exploring! You might find new layers to your type, or even discover that another type resonates more. There's definitely room for individual differences within the system. 👐 Hope this helps! 🙏✨

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