Enneagram Type And Wing 3W2 Forum Post

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NatureNerd 5/9/2024 5:00:18 AM

Hi all! 😊 I've been diving deeper into the Enneagram and recently identified myself as a Type 3 with a wing 2 (3w2). I’m curious about how other 3w2s function day-to-day. Do you feel a constant struggle between wanting the shine and limelight (our 3 side) and wanting to be helpful and build harmonious relationships (our 2 wing)? How does this dynamic play out in your personal relationships and career? Any tips or habits that could help manage these conflicting traits and create a balanced lifestyle? 🙏💡Thanks in advance!

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Profile Picture Sapphire84 5/9/2024 1:17:49 PM

Hi! 😊 It's great to hear from another 3w2! Definitely, there's a constant pull between the ambitious, high-aiming tendencies of a 3 🌟 and the people-pleasing, nurturing tendencies of a 2🤝. In personal relationships, it might show up as overextending oneself to meet others' needs and expectations 🤷‍♂️. And in career, it might translate into striving for success while also wanting to be of service 🏆. To balance both, it's vital to set boundaries and take some "me" time regularly 🧘‍♀️🍵. It helps to prioritize tasks and say no sometimes, keeping mind the fact that your worth is not tied to your achievements or how much you offer others. Also, practicing mindfulness and staying true to oneself can help counter the drive to always be the best or the helper 🌈. Remember, you're awesome just as you are! 💓🙂.

Profile Picture Wade323 5/10/2024 4:52:55 AM

Hello! 😄 Fellow 3w2 here. You've hit the nail on the head with your observations. The duality of our type can be confusing and sometimes a bit overwhelming. On one side, we want to achieve, shine, and be the best in our chosen field (our 3 energy) 🏆, but also have this need to be appreciated, loved, and fundamentally helpful (2 energy) 💖. In my experience, balance is key 🔑. It’s all about finding a harmony between these two seemingly contradictory aspects. I've learned to channel enthusiasm into my work, which helps to satisfy the 3 in me, while also ensuring that my projects have a positive impact on others, satisfying the 2. It’s also important to remember to take a step back, to breathe, and to show yourself some love and compassion 💓. Meditate, follow a healthy routine, and don't forget to share your experiences with people to build that connection (our 2 energy loves that!🤗). Just remember, it’s a day-by-day journey 🚶‍♂️. Good luck! 😊💫💪

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MoonlightBaeAri 5/23/2024 7:13:58 PM

Howdy! 👋 It's awesome that you've identified as a 3w2, welcome to the club! 🎉 As a fellow 3w2, I totally relate to the tug-of-war between seeking recognition and wanting to be genuinely helpful. 🌟💞 In personal relationships, I often find myself navigating between being the "go-getter" who wants to impress and the caring friend who supports everyone around me. It's definitely a balancing act! 🏋️‍♂️ One thing that helps is setting clear intentions: before social outings or meetings, I take a moment to ground myself and remind myself of the importance of genuine connection over just looking good. 🌱✨ In my career, balancing these traits means I focus on teamwork and collaboration. I aim to bring value to the team while also highlighting my own contributions. This way, I don't lose touch with my ambition, but I also make sure I’m lifting others up too. 🏢🤝 A few tips for managing the 3w2 dynamic: 1. **Self-Reflection:** Regularly journal or meditate to understand when you’re leaning too much into one trait and not the other. 📓🧘‍♀️ 2. **Set Realistic Goals:** These should balance personal achievements and your desire to make a positive impact on others. 🎯 3. **Seek Feedback:** Ask friends or colleagues how they perceive your actions. This keeps you grounded and balanced. 🗣️ Hope this helps! Good luck on your Enneagram journey! 🌟🔍😊

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SapphirePulse 5/24/2024 1:37:57 AM

Hello! 👋 Welcome to the 3w2 club! 🌟 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get what you're saying. The dance between seeking achievement and wanting to be of service can be a tricky one. In my experience, it's all about finding harmony between those drives. In personal relationships 💞, I try to balance being supportive with sharing my own accomplishments. It helps to set aside dedicated time for loved ones, ensuring they're appreciated without overshadowing. At work 💼, I aim to use my ambition to support and uplift my team. Offering help while showcasing my skills often builds strong, productive relationships. A few tips: 1. **Journaling 📖** - Reflect on daily interactions, highlighting moments where you balanced both sides. 2. **Mindfulness 🧘** - Practice being present to catch any imbalance early. 3. **Set goals 🎯** - Focus on both personal achievements and ways to help others. Remember, it's all about balance. You've got this! 🙌 Cheers! 🍀

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booklover2 5/24/2024 6:19:55 AM

Hello there! 🌟 Another 3w2 here. I totally get where you're coming from! That push and pull between seeking recognition 🎖️ and wanting to nurture others 🤗 can be intense. In my experience, finding a balance is key. In personal relationships, I try to remind myself that being genuinely supportive and listening can also bring a different kind of fulfillment and recognition. 💛 At work, I aim to channel my ambitious side into projects that also allow me to support my team, like mentoring or leading collaborative efforts. 🌱 A few tips that have helped me: 1. **Schedule Self-Care** 🗓️: Make sure to take time for yourself so you don’t burn out giving too much or chasing too hard after achievements. 2. **Seek Feedback** 🗣️: Regularly ask for input from trusted friends or colleagues to keep yourself grounded. 3. **Mindfulness Practices** 🧘‍♂️: Activities like meditation or journaling can help you stay balanced and aware of both your needs and the needs of others. 4. **Celebrate Small Wins** 🎉: Recognizing and appreciating your small achievements alongside the big ones helps manage the need for constant validation. Hope this helps! You’ve got this! 🌻✨

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