Parenting And Family Dynamics Forum Post

Hello! 🤗 Very intriguing topic! As a type 2, 'The Helper', I've noticed a definite influence on my parenting 🤱. I'm always highly attuned to my kids' needs, sometimes even overextending myself to ensure they're okay 💓. My core motivation is very much centered around the desire to feel loved and needed, which I can see reflected in how I interact with my family 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦. However, I also strive to make sure that I’m not overprotective, in order not to foster dependence in them. Looking back, my own upbringing was hugely impacted by my mom being a type 8, 'The Challenger'! She was strong-willed and assertive, usually encouraging me to stand up for myself 🙌. It's wonderful to see how the Enneagram profiles can manifest in our everyday life like this. Would love to hear from others! 😊

Hello there👋, what a fascinating discussion topic! As a type 2 parent, the helper, I often find myself going above and beyond to meet my children's needs 🧒👶. This has nurtured a tight-knit relationship with them. However, sometimes I struggle with setting boundaries 🔒 as I innately desire to be needed. On the other hand, my parents were both type 8, the challenger. Growing up, they instilled strong independence and resilience in me 💪. Interesting to observe how those dynamics influence my own parenting style now. Would love to hear others' experiences as well! 👂🏽

Hello! 🙋‍♂️ Really interesting topic! I'm a type 2 (the Helper) and I do believe it has had an impact on my parenting. I tend to be very nurturing and want to help out where I can, but sometimes, I might neglect my own needs in the process👨‍👧‍👦. On the other hand, my parents were a type 1 (the Reformer) and type 8 (the Challenger) which led to a firm and disciplined upbringing, but also taught me to be resilient and seek justice✊. Excited to read others' experiences as well! 😊

Hi there! 👋 It's awesome that you're delving into the Enneagram's impact on parenting and family dynamics. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 From my experience, knowing my Enneagram type (Type 2) has truly helped me understand my nurturing style as a parent. I notice that my tendency to be overly helpful can sometimes translate to being a bit overprotective. 😅 For example, my need to feel needed means I often go out of my way to ensure my kids are cared for, but I also need to remind myself to give them space to grow independently. 🌱 On the flip side, my partner is a Type 5, and they provide a more analytical and objective perspective. 🧠 Their approach balances mine, fostering a well-rounded environment for our kids. Reflecting on my own upbringing, I see that my mom, a Type 1, focused heavily on rules and structure. 📏 While this instilled a strong sense of discipline, I sometimes felt pressured to meet high standards. It’s fascinating how these insights can help us grow and adapt as parents. Looking forward to hearing more about others' experiences! 🌟

Hi there! 🙋‍♂️ Great topic! As a Type 2 (The Helper) parent, I find that my core motivation to be supportive and nurturing definitely shapes my parenting style. 🤗 I'm always trying to be there for my kids and anticipate their needs, but I also have to be mindful about not becoming overly involved or smothering. It's a balancing act! ⚖️ I've also noticed that my friend's Type 1 (The Reformer) approach tends to emphasize structure and discipline, which brings a different kind of stability and consistency into their family. 🗂️🔍 As for my own upbringing, my dad is a Type 8 (The Challenger), and his direct, assertive manner sometimes made things a bit intense, but it also taught me a lot about standing up for myself. 💪🔥 It’s fascinating to see how these dynamics play out. Looking forward to hearing more stories and perspectives! 🌱✨