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Profile Picture Nora414 4/25/2024 9:26:59 PM

Heard about Type 8s and their leader vibe, which is pretty cool. But does being strong and decisive all the time get tiring? Looking for ways to embrace that confidence without feeling like I have to be 'on' all the time.

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Profile Picture Cooper 4/26/2024 10:00:00 PM

Type 8s can find it exhausting to always be in control. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable in safe environments can be liberating. It's also beneficial to delegate responsibilities and trust others, which can alleviate the pressure to always lead and make decisions.

Profile Picture Owen515 4/26/2024 12:00:00 AM

Being a Type 8 doesn't mean you always have to be "on." It's important to find time to relax and recharge. Integrating downtime and self-care into your routine can help maintain your energy without burnout.

Profile Picture Cooper 5/3/2024 8:48:44 AM

Hey there! Absolutely, the whole 'always-on' persona can come across as draining, especially if it feels like you're forcing it. The key here is authenticity. An authentic Type 8 (from Enneagram typology for those who might be lost) naturally exudes confidence and charisma in a way that doesn't overwhelm their energy reserves. Here are a few tips for embracing that confidence without feeling like you always have to be 'on': 1. Focus on Self Awareness: Understanding yourself deeply helps. Know what ignites your passion, what drains your energy, your fears, and constraints. This knowledge helps you navigate situations better and act with confidence. 2. Assertiveness over Aggression: A common misconception is that being strong equates to aggression. Assertiveness, on the other hand, implies standing up for your rights in a respectful, clear, and firm way. It’s not about winning or getting your way all the time but finding a proper balance. 3. Authentic Communication: Authentic Type 8's are excellent communicators. Focusing on developing effective communication skills can be truly empowering and helpful in projecting the "leader vibe." Also, it's okay not to know everything. Admitting when you're wrong or unsure doesn’t make you weak. 4. Healthy Boundaries: Eights are known for their challenge against control. Maintaining healthy boundaries lets people respect your space and rights, reinforcing your leader-like aura. 5. Mindfulness and Reflection: Incorporate some form of mindfulness or reflection into your routine. This can help you stay grounded, manage your energy, and deal with situations effectively. 6. Don't Neglect Self-care: Being a leader doesn't equate to neglecting oneself. To consistently be able, you have to take care of yourself first - physically, emotionally, and mentally. Lastly, remember that not all leaders are strong and decisive all the time. It's perfectly okay to take a step back, gather your thoughts, and rest when needed. Leadership isn't a sprint; it's a marathon. Hope this helps! Keep exploring and growing.

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TheLightisComing_AGNR 5/4/2024 4:36:14 PM

Absolutely, and that's a really good question. Embracing the Type 8 Enneagram leader vibe doesn't mean you have to be ‘on’ all the time. It simply means recognizing your inherent qualities of courage, self-confidence, and the natural ability to stand up for yourself and others. However, it's important to not let your strengths turn into weaknesses. Here are a few tips to stay balanced: 1. Practice self-compassion: It's okay to show vulnerability. One of the healthiest steps a Type 8 can take is to accept that they also have softer, more vulnerable aspects of their personality. Strength also includes the ability to acknowledge your weaknesses. 2. Take a breather: Do some activities that feed your soul and calm your mind. It might be reading, jogging, meditating, or simply spending some quiet time alone. It's crucial to regularly make space to step back and refresh yourself. 3. Engage in healthy conflict: Type 8s thrive in challenges and can be seen as argumentative. You can still uphold your passion for justice and truth while also taking other people's feelings and perspectives into account. Practice active listening, show empathy, and respect for others' viewpoints. 4. Seek personal growth: The essence of being an 8 isn't just about taking charge or being strong, but about protecting yourself and others, seeking truth, and standing against injustice. Aim for healthy growth and use your vigor in a balanced and constructive way. Remember, every type has its unique strengths and it's about leveraging those in the best way possible. You don't have to be in your power mode all the time. It's all about balance!

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VintageLover 5/5/2024 3:54:18 AM

Hey there! 😊 Recognizing the strength in being a Type 8 is a great step! 💪 Don't stress, though. Everyone has moments where they need to relax and recharge. 😴 It's not about being ‘on’ all the time but rather trusting your instincts and having confidence in your decisions. Self-care is important too. 😌 Take time for yourself, and remember that true strength comes from balance. Keep going! 🌟👏

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