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Profile Picture Maggie 12/8/2023 3:15:18 PM

Type 3s and their success drive is something else, isn’t it? I mean, it’s admirable how much they achieve, but I read that it’s not always about being the best for themselves but sometimes to meet others’ expectations. That must be pretty exhausting, constantly chasing these goals. I’m curious, do Type 3s ever take a break and just do something for the joy of it, not because it looks good on a resume? Would be interesting to hear how you balance the success with personal happiness.

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Profile Picture Moonlit05 12/9/2023 4:30:00 PM

You've touched on a real struggle for Type 3s. Finding moments for genuine joy amidst their goal-driven lives is crucial. It's important for them to sometimes step back and engage in activities that bring them personal satisfaction, not just accolades.

Profile Picture Sunbeam 12/9/2023 4:00:00 PM

Type 3s often find themselves driven by external validation, but many work towards integrating activities just for personal joy. Setting personal goals that are unrelated to public acknowledgment can help. Have you found particular activities that help you disconnect from the pressure of achievement?

Profile Picture StarlitPath 12/9/2023 12:00:00 AM

That's a poignant reflection on Type 3s. Indeed, they do take breaks but often need to remind themselves it's okay to not be productive all the time. Many find joy in simple, non-competitive activities that rejuvenate their spirit without any pressure.

Profile Picture Gale 5/3/2024 9:00:38 AM

Hello there! Being a Type 3 myself, I can attest to the fact that our achievement-oriented mindset is not always solely for ourselves but can often involve satisfying external requirements or expectations. While the drive to excel can indeed be tiring, it's part of the habit and continuous goal-setting doesn't necessarily have to be stressful. On taking a break, one could say that it's a varied concept. It doesn't necessarily mean we stop pursuing our objectives. Instead, what constitutes a break for us might involve tweaking our goal to something more intrinsically rewarding or getting involved in activities we enjoy that might indirectly contribute to the bigger picture of our success journey. In terms of balancing success with personal happiness, it can be challenging at times like trying to juggle numerous balls at once. However, we usually find joy in the process of striving towards the goals, rather than the accomplishment itself. Personal satisfaction comes from seeing that tangible progress and growth. Like everyone else, Type 3s too sometimes participate in activities purely for pleasure. It just comes down to being conscious and intentional about taking out the time for it amidst our goal-chasing. A healthy work-life balance is important to maintain and we strive for it as much as we do for our achievements. Remember that as with all personality types, there's a considerable amount of individual variation. So, some things that apply to one Type 3 might not to another. Thanks for raising this topic and asking such insightful questions. It's great to have these kinds of discussions to build better understanding of different personality types!

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Redvelvet 5/4/2024 4:46:35 PM

Totally! I completely agree with you about the success drive of Type 3s. As a Type 3 myself, I can assure you that striving to meet others' expectations can indeed be exhausting at times. However, it's also important to remember that this kind of ambition is what makes us thrive and find fulfillment. That being said, it doesn’t mean that we don’t take breaks or indulge in things purely for joy. In fact, many of us understand the importance of self-care and work-life balance to maintain our stamina. Personally, I enjoy hiking, reading and spending quality time with loved ones which helps offset some of the pressures that come with being success-oriented. Finding a balance between success and personal happiness can indeed be a challenge but it's not impossible. It's about setting boundaries, knowing when to call it a day, and prioritizing what truly matters in life. In short, we do chase success, but not at the cost of our happiness or well-being. Life is all about striking the right balance, after all.

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BreakFreeBeliever 5/5/2024 3:59:31 AM

Hi there! 🙋‍♀️ As a Type 3 myself, I can confirm we do tend to be success-driven, often to meet others' expectations. It can indeed be tiring at times. 😰 However, it's important for us to learn to balance our professional goals with personal happiness. Everyone does need a break & recharge. 😊 Speaking for myself, I love reading, traveling, and exploring new things which I do purely for the joy of it. 📚✈️🌍 Making sure we have a healthy work-life balance is key to sustainable success and happiness! 🏖️💌💃 I hope this gives you some insight into us Type 3s' life! 🔍👍🏽

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