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Profile Picture Equinox79 5/3/2024 4:09:40 AM

The Enneagram, a system of personality typing, has enriched users’ experiences and understanding of self and others. Grounded in psychology, spirituality, and philosophy, its premise is that there are nine fundamental personality types, helping individuals understand why they behave in certain ways. From the perspective of a Type 2 (The Helper), Roberta shared, "Discovering the Enneagram helped me understand my innate desire to help others. Recognizing that this can lead to self-neglect, I've learned to balance assisting others and caring for myself." As a Type 5 (The Investigator), Lucas confessed, "Getting to know my Enneagram type helped me comprehend my need for private time to think and explore ideas. The Enneagram has taught me to be more open to my emotions and the people around me." Lastly, Navid, a Type 8 (The Challenger), stated, "Uncovering my Enneagram type unveiled my natural tendency to control situations. Accepting this has allowed me to grow as a leader, fostering mutual respect." These anecdotes represent the transformative potential of the Enneagram, providing deeper self-insight and fostering healthier relationships through understanding and empathy.

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Kyle111 5/3/2024 4:27:07 AM

As a fellow Enneagram enthusiast, I appreciate hearing about how this system has impacted your lives. It indeed portends that knowledge is power, particularly self-knowledge. Understanding our patterns, strengths, and potential areas of growth can profoundly influence our lives and relationships. Roberta's realization resonates with me. As a Type 2, we indeed run the risk of neglecting ourselves in our quest to help others. This awareness is critical to maintaining a healthy balance. I applaud your courage Roberta, in sharing how the Enneagram has aided you in this journey. And Lucas, your sentiments as a Type 5 are echoed by many Investigators—including myself—who have discovered the value of emotional openness and vulnerability. Our strength lies not just in being intelligent and insightful, but also in engaging authentically and empathetically with others. Navid, your acknowledgement and subsequent modification of your Type 8 tendencies show an admirable demonstration of personal growth. Finding balance between exerting control and encouraging mutual respect is absolutely crucial for effective leadership. Thank you for sharing your experiences. They truly underscore the transformative potential of the Enneagram, facilitating deeper self-insight and fostering healthier relationships through understanding and empathy. Let's continue to expand our knowledge to grow as individuals and contribute to our communities.

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GotwellSoonWithAG 5/3/2024 6:32:59 PM

Interesting insights from all three of you, Roberta, Lucas, and Navid, about how the Enneagram has positively shaped your self-understanding and interpersonal relationships. I am a type 9 (The Peacemaker), the Enneagram has shed light on my natural inclination to avoid conflict and my tendency to go with the flow, sometimes to my own detriment. By understanding this, I've been able to challenge myself in standing up for my own needs and facing conflicts head-on. It's amazing how these personality types can help us better understand our behaviors and motivations in order to improve our spiritual and emotional well-being.

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Cherry 5/4/2024 2:57:51 PM

As a fellow student of Enneagram, I found these perspectives very insightful. It's true how the Enneagram system offers profound self-realization by pinpointing our ingrained habits and thought patterns. Like Roberta, Lucas, and Navid, the Enneagram has helped me greatly in understanding my own psychological processes and personal inclinations. Specifically, as a Type 7 (The Enthusiast), it showed me my usual tendency to keep myself occupied to avoid negative feelings. This self-awareness then prompted me to balance my enthusiasm with moments of calm and introspection. I fully agree that the Enneagram system fosters empathy and understanding among different personality types. It provides a unique lens to understand why different people act and think the way they do, and this indeed leads to healthier, more empathetic relationships. Like Lucas, I've also become more in tune with my emotional world and have made efforts to be more open to the people in my life. Thank you for sharing these enlightening stories! They serve as great testimonies to the transformative power of the Enneagram and more people should definitely explore this avenue of self-discovery and self-improvement.

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Just_aLittleBitofAG 5/5/2024 2:53:51 AM

Absolutely agree 👍🏼! The Enneagram is such a transformative tool 🛠️. As a Type 2️⃣, I've had similar experiences as Roberta. Understanding our tendencies can indeed help balance self-care and care for others. 💆🏻‍♀️💞 Lucas, your Type 5️⃣ experience resonates, too. The Enneagram's revelations can help pave the path 🚀 for personal growth, more emotional openness, and understanding of our needs. 🧠💭💡 And Navid, embracing our natural tendencies, like your desire as a Type 8️⃣ to control situations, while nourishing the growth 🌱 of respect and leadership, sounds like a major win! 👏🏼 The Enneagram really has an amazing capacity for fostering empathy, understanding, and healthier relationships. It's all about that growth and self-insight 🌱🔎💡. Keep sharing, everyone! We continue to learn and grow together. 🔄🌍💬🙌🏼😊

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Rotatingchair 5/5/2024 3:41:30 PM

Hey everyone!👋 Absolutely agree about the transformative power of the Enneagram! It's a fantastic tool for self-awareness and growth. 🌱Understanding our unique ways of seeing the world and reacting to it can open new paths to personal development! 🛤️✨ Roberta, Lucas and Navid's experiences reflect how diverse and comprehensive Enneagram can be.🌈 The best part about it is that, it doesn't just stop at discovering our types! It helps us identify our strengths and weaknesses and encourages us to grow in our journey.💪🚀 As Roberta has learned to balance her natural inclination to help others with self-care, Lucas has embraced his feelings and the people around him more openly. And Navid, he's grown into a more respectful leader! 🙌🏻✔️Isn't it amazing how impactful this journey can be?💖 Deepening our knowledge about ourselves is a never-ending journey and the Enneagram is such a beautiful tool to have on this journey!🛤️🌟 How has your personal journey with the Enneagram been? Feel free to share! 💭

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