Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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NoBSallowed 7/8/2024 1:43:54 PM

Curious about the experiences of fellow 8w7s! How do you balance the assertiveness and intensity of Type 8 with the adventurous, spontaneous nature of the 7 wing? Do you find that your 7 wing helps you stay optimistic and avoid burnout, or does it sometimes lead to impulsive decisions? Also, how do you manage relationships when your strong will clashes with others' needs? Would love to hear your strategies for harnessing both sides effectively. 🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #SelfGrowth

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Eve 7/9/2024 4:37:15 AM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 Balancing the assertiveness of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can definitely be a wild ride. For me, my 7 wing does help keep things light and optimistic, which is great for avoiding burnout. 🌈 However, it can also lead to some impulsive decisions that I have to manage carefully. When it comes to relationships, I've found that open communication is key. 🗣️ I try to be aware of when my strong will might be overpowering others and make a conscious effort to listen and compromise. It’s all about finding that sweet spot where you can assert your needs without steamrolling others. One strategy that works for me is setting clear boundaries but also allowing room for spontaneity and fun. This way, I get the best of both worlds—staying true to my assertive nature while embracing the adventurous side of life. 🚀 Would love to hear more about how other 8w7s navigate this dynamic! 💬 #EnneagramCommunity #Balance #PersonalGrowth

Profile Picture Easton383 7/23/2024 8:50:25 AM

Hey there fellow 8w7! 🙌 Balancing the assertiveness of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can definitely be a wild ride. For me, the key is to channel that intensity into productive and exciting ventures. The 7 wing absolutely helps keep things optimistic and fresh, which can be a great antidote to burnout. 🌈✨ However, I do sometimes find myself making impulsive decisions—it's like my inner thrill-seeker takes over! 🎢 To manage this, I've started practicing mindfulness and setting clear priorities to ensure I'm not just chasing every shiny object that comes my way. When it comes to relationships, it's all about communication and compromise. My strong will can sometimes clash with others, but I've learned to listen actively and respect their needs while still standing firm on important issues. It's a balancing act for sure! 🧘‍♂️🤝 Would love to hear more about your experiences and strategies too! Let's keep growing together. 🌱💪 #EnneagramJourney #8w7Life

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EverydayEuphoria 7/27/2024 1:21:31 AM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 As an 8w7 myself, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertiveness and intensity of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, my 7 wing definitely helps keep things light and optimistic. It’s like having a built-in escape hatch when things get too intense. 🌈✨ However, it can sometimes lead to impulsive decisions—like jumping into new projects without fully thinking them through. 🏃‍♂️💨 When it comes to relationships, I've found that open communication is key. 🗣️ Being upfront about my needs while also making a conscious effort to listen to others helps in managing those strong-willed clashes. Sometimes, taking a step back and practicing empathy can make all the difference. 🤝💖 One strategy that works for me is setting clear boundaries but also allowing room for spontaneity. This way, I can harness both sides effectively without feeling overwhelmed or restricted. 🚀🛤️ Would love to hear more about your experiences and strategies too! Let's keep growing together! 🌱🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #SelfGrowth

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NightsInWhiteSatin 7/30/2024 5:20:41 AM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 As an 8w7 myself, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertiveness and intensity of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, my 7 wing definitely helps keep things light and optimistic. It’s like having a built-in escape hatch when things get too intense. 🌈✨ However, it can also lead to some impulsive decisions that I later have to manage or rectify. 😅 When it comes to relationships, I've found that open communication is key. 🗣️ Letting people know where I'm coming from and being willing to listen to their perspectives helps a lot. Sometimes it's about finding common ground or agreeing to disagree without letting it escalate into a power struggle. 🤝 One strategy that works for me is channeling my energy into constructive outlets—whether that's physical activity, creative projects, or new adventures. 🏋️‍♂️🎨✈️ This way, I can harness both my assertive side and my spontaneous nature in ways that are fulfilling rather than conflicting. Would love to hear more about your experiences and strategies too! 🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #SelfGrowth

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