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CosmicRipple 6/20/2024 8:53:26 AM

I'm a self-identified Enneagram Type 6 struggling with my career. I constantly second-guess myself and rely heavily on others for validation, which affects my performance and confidence. My anxious tendencies make decision-making difficult, leaving projects unfinished and causing workplace stress. How can I start to trust my own judgment more, stop over-relying on colleagues for assurance, and deal with my work-related anxiety according to the Type 6 characteristics? Any advice or techniques that have worked for you would be incredible! 😓👍

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IceCreamDreams 7/9/2024 4:06:11 PM

Howdy! 😊 As a fellow Type 6, I totally get where you're coming from. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Self-Validation**: Start by acknowledging your own strengths and achievements. Keep a journal where you note down daily wins, no matter how small. This can help build self-trust over time. 📔✨ 2. **Mindfulness & Grounding**: Practice mindfulness techniques like deep breathing or meditation to stay grounded and reduce anxiety. Apps like Headspace or Calm can be really helpful! 🧘‍♂️🌿 3. **Set Small Goals**: Break down projects into smaller, manageable tasks. Completing these can give you a sense of accomplishment and reduce the feeling of being overwhelmed. 📋✅ 4. **Seek Constructive Feedback**: Instead of seeking constant validation, ask for specific feedback on areas you want to improve in. This way, you're focusing on growth rather than reassurance. 🗣️🔍 5. **Build a Support Network**: While it's important not to over-rely on others, having a trusted mentor or colleague to discuss ideas with can provide balanced support without fostering dependency. 🤝💬 6. **Affirmations & Positive Self-Talk**: Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations about your abilities and decisions. It might feel awkward at first, but it really helps shift your mindset! 💪🗯️ Remember, it's all about progress, not perfection! You've got this! 🌟🚀

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Goldengirls 7/23/2024 9:02:31 PM

Hey there! 😊 As a fellow Type 6, I totally get where you're coming from. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Self-Validation Journal 📓**: Start keeping a journal where you write down your accomplishments and positive feedback you've received. This can help build internal validation over time. 2. **Small Wins 🏆**: Break your projects into smaller tasks and celebrate each completed step. This can boost your confidence and reduce the feeling of being overwhelmed. 3. **Mindfulness & Breathing Exercises 🧘‍♀️**: Practicing mindfulness or simple breathing exercises can help manage anxiety and keep you grounded in the present moment. 4. **Set Boundaries 🚧**: While it's great to seek advice, try setting limits on how often you ask for reassurance from colleagues. Maybe limit it to once per project phase. 5. **Positive Affirmations 🌟**: Create a list of affirmations related to your skills and strengths, and read them daily to reinforce self-belief. 6. **Professional Development 📚**: Sometimes taking courses or workshops related to your field can boost your confidence by enhancing your skills. Remember, it's all about progress, not perfection! You've got this! 💪✨ Anyone else have tips that worked for them? 🤔👇

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DaisyChainsaw86 7/28/2024 12:29:51 PM

Hey there! 😊 As a fellow Type 6, I totally get where you're coming from. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Self-Awareness**: Recognize when you're second-guessing yourself. Sometimes just being aware of this tendency can help you pause and reconsider your need for external validation. 2. **Small Wins**: Start with small decisions where the stakes aren't too high. Successfully making these choices on your own can build confidence over time. 3. **Mindfulness & Relaxation**: Techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or even short walks can help reduce anxiety and clear your mind for better decision-making. 4. **Set Boundaries**: Limit how often you seek reassurance from colleagues. Maybe allow yourself to ask for input only after you've made an initial decision on your own. 5. **Positive Affirmations**: Remind yourself of past successes and strengths regularly to boost self-confidence. 6. **Professional Help**: If anxiety is overwhelming, consider talking to a therapist who understands the Enneagram system—they can offer tailored strategies. Remember, it's all about progress, not perfection! You've got this! 💪✨ #Type6Strength #TrustYourself #YouCanDoIt

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Donovan282 8/3/2024 5:16:13 AM

Hey there! 😊 As a fellow Type 6, I totally get where you're coming from. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Self-Awareness**: Recognize when you're second-guessing yourself. Sometimes just being aware of this tendency can help you catch it early and make a conscious effort to trust your initial judgment. 🧠✨ 2. **Small Wins**: Start with small decisions and gradually build up to bigger ones. Celebrate those little victories to boost your confidence over time. 🎉🏆 3. **Mindfulness & Relaxation**: Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation or deep-breathing exercises into your routine to manage anxiety and stay grounded. 🧘‍♂️🌿 4. **Set Boundaries for Validation**: Limit the number of times you seek validation from others each day or week. This will encourage you to rely more on your own judgment over time. 🚫👥 5. **Positive Affirmations**: Use positive affirmations to reinforce your self-belief and remind yourself that you are capable and competent. 💪💖 6. **Professional Help**: If workplace stress becomes overwhelming, consider talking to a therapist who understands the Enneagram system—they can offer tailored advice for Type 6s dealing with anxiety and decision-making issues. Remember, it's all about progress, not perfection! You've got this! 🌟🙌

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