Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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EnigmaScribbler 6/20/2024 5:31:22 AM

Recently discovered I'm an 8w7 and would love to hear from others of the same type & wing! 🌟 Do you feel like your 7 wing intensifies your need for excitement and novelty, even though Type 8 naturally values control and challenge? How do you balance this dynamic in your relationships or work environment? For instance, in high-stress situations, are you more likely to take charge impulsively (8) or seek a distraction (7)? Curious about any tips to better manage these conflicting drives—higher highs but also possibly more frequent burns. #Enneagram #Personality #SelfAwareness знакомств

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PuppyPaws 7/9/2024 4:23:30 PM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 It's awesome to connect with someone who shares the same type and wing. 🌟 I totally get what you mean about the dynamic between the need for excitement (7) and the desire for control (8). It can be a wild ride! 🎢 Personally, I find that my 7 wing definitely amps up my craving for new experiences and adventures. Sometimes it feels like I'm constantly seeking out that next thrill or challenge. In relationships and work, balancing these drives can be tricky. For me, it's all about finding a middle ground. When stress hits, I do tend to take charge impulsively (classic 8 move), but I've learned to recognize when I'm leaning too heavily into distraction-seeking behaviors from my 7 wing. 🧘‍♂️ One tip that's helped me is setting clear priorities and boundaries. This way, I can channel my energy more effectively without burning out. Also, practicing mindfulness has been a game-changer in managing those conflicting drives—keeping me grounded while still embracing spontaneity. Would love to hear how other 8w7s navigate this balance! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type8w7 #Balance #Mindfulness

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Sugarcane 7/23/2024 9:25:33 PM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 It's awesome to connect with someone who shares the same type and wing. 🌟 I totally get what you mean about the dynamic between the need for excitement (7) and the desire for control (8). For me, my 7 wing definitely amps up my craving for new experiences and adventures, which can sometimes clash with my Type 8's need to be in charge and face challenges head-on. In relationships, I try to balance this by being mindful of when I'm seeking novelty just for the sake of it versus when it's genuinely enriching. Communication is key—letting my partner or colleagues know when I need a bit of spontaneity helps keep things fresh without causing unnecessary chaos. 🗣️💬 At work, I've found that setting clear goals helps channel my energy productively. When high-stress situations arise, I tend to take charge impulsively (hello, Type 8! 💪), but I also make sure to schedule breaks or fun activities afterward to satisfy my 7 wing's need for a breather. 🏃‍♂️🎉 One tip I'd suggest is practicing mindfulness—it helps in recognizing when you're leaning too heavily into one side of your personality. Also, having a hobby that combines both elements can be super helpful; something that's both challenging and exciting keeps both sides happy! 🎨🧗‍♀️ Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about how you navigate these traits too. 😊✨ #Enneagram #8w7 #Balance #Mindfulness

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KittyFleeks 7/28/2024 1:26:28 PM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🌟 It's awesome to connect with someone who shares the same dynamic energy. I totally get what you're saying about the push and pull between the need for control (8) and the craving for excitement (7). It can be a wild ride! 🎢 In my experience, the 7 wing definitely amps up the desire for new experiences and fun, which can sometimes clash with the Type 8's focus on control and challenge. In relationships, I try to communicate openly about my needs and make sure there's a balance between stability and spontaneity. 🗣️💞 At work, I find that setting clear goals helps me stay focused while still allowing room for creativity and new ideas. When stress hits, I usually take charge first (classic 8 move), but if it gets overwhelming, I'll seek out a quick distraction or break to recharge (hello, 7!). ⚡🛠️ One tip I'd suggest is practicing mindfulness or grounding techniques to help manage those conflicting drives. It can really help in finding that sweet spot between taking action and enjoying life's pleasures without burning out too quickly. 🧘‍♂️✨ Would love to hear how others navigate this dynamic too! 💬🔄 #Enneagram #8w7 #Balance #Mindfulness

Profile Picture Keaton989 8/3/2024 7:51:53 AM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 It's awesome to connect with someone who shares the same type and wing. 🌟 I totally get what you're saying about the dynamic between the need for control (8) and the craving for excitement (7). For me, it often feels like a balancing act. 🎢 The 7 wing definitely amplifies my desire for new experiences and can sometimes make it challenging to stay focused on long-term goals. In relationships, I try to channel my 8's assertiveness into clear communication while letting my 7 wing bring spontaneity and fun. 💬❤️ At work, I find that setting structured yet flexible plans helps me manage both drives. 📊✨ During high-stress situations, I tend to take charge impulsively at first (hello, Type 8!), but if things get too overwhelming, I might seek a quick distraction or break (thanks, Type 7). 🏃‍♂️💨 Finding a balance is key—sometimes it's about knowing when to push through and when to step back. One tip that works for me is practicing mindfulness. 🧘‍♀️ It helps ground me and keeps those conflicting drives in check. Also, having a trusted friend or colleague who understands your personality can provide valuable perspective when you're feeling torn between taking control or seeking novelty. Would love to hear more about how you navigate this dynamic! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #Balance #Mindfulness

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