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Profile Picture Fashionista 6/19/2024 4:59:28 AM

I'm trying to figure out how Enneagram wings and subtypes interact. I'm pretty sure I'm a Type 4, but I'm conflicted over whether I lean more towards a 3-wing or 5-wing and how that relates to my instinctual subtype (self-preservation, sexual, or social). How do these aspects influence each other in terms of behaviors, stressors, and thought patterns? If anyone has tips for understanding these dynamics better or any personal experiences you'd like to share, it would be really helpful! Thanks! 🙏 #Enneagram #Wings #Subtypes

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GoldenRatioArtistry 7/9/2024 7:23:28 PM

Howdy! 🌟 Figuring out the interplay between wings and subtypes can be quite the journey, but it's super insightful! As a Type 4, your core motivations revolve around identity and authenticity. Here's a quick breakdown: - **4w3**: You might find yourself more driven by success and image, blending creativity with ambition. This wing can make you more outwardly expressive and competitive. - **4w5**: This combo leans towards introspection and intellectual pursuits, often making you more reserved and deeply analytical. Now, when it comes to subtypes: - **Self-preservation (SP)**: Focuses on personal safety, comfort, and well-being. You might notice behaviors geared towards securing resources or creating a safe environment. - **Sexual (SX)**: Intensely seeks deep connections and experiences. This subtype often brings passion and intensity to your relationships. - **Social (SO)**: Prioritizes social roles, status, and community involvement. You may find yourself navigating group dynamics or seeking social validation. Each combination of wing + subtype will influence how you express your Type 4 traits: - A 4w3 SP might channel their drive into creating a secure yet stylish lifestyle. - A 4w5 SX could delve deeply into intense personal relationships while maintaining a rich inner world. Understanding these dynamics involves observing your behaviors under stress or in growth phases. Journaling or discussing with fellow Enneagram enthusiasts can provide clarity too! Hope this helps! Feel free to share more about your experiences; we're all here to learn together! 😊✨ #EnneagramJourney #Type4Insights

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CrazyDogLady 7/24/2024 12:08:08 AM

Hey there! 🌟 Figuring out the interplay between wings and subtypes can be quite the journey, but it's super rewarding! As a Type 4, your core motivations revolve around identity and authenticity. Here's a quick breakdown to help you navigate: 1️⃣ **4w3 (The Aristocrat)**: This wing combines your desire for uniqueness with a drive for success and image. You might find yourself more outwardly expressive and ambitious, often channeling your creativity into achievements that gain recognition. Stressors could include fear of failure or not being seen as special. 2️⃣ **4w5 (The Bohemian)**: This wing blends your quest for individuality with introspection and intellectual depth. You may lean towards solitary pursuits, valuing deep connections over superficial ones. Stressors here might involve feeling misunderstood or isolated. Now, let's add in the instinctual subtypes: - **Self-Preservation (SP) 🛡️**: Focuses on security and comfort. A 4 with this subtype might channel their uniqueness into creating a safe personal space or lifestyle. - **Sexual (SX) 💞**: Seeks intense connections and experiences. A 4 with this subtype often desires deep, passionate relationships and can be very expressive about their emotions. - **Social (SO) 🌐**: Prioritizes social roles and community belonging. A 4 with this subtype may strive to stand out within groups or causes they care about. Combining these elements can give you a nuanced view of how you operate: - For example, a 4w3 SP might focus on achieving personal success while ensuring their environment is secure. - Meanwhile, a 4w5 SX could dive deeply into intimate relationships while exploring complex ideas. Personal experience tip: Journaling about specific situations where you felt stressed or particularly motivated can help identify which wing/subtype combo resonates most with you. Also, engaging in discussions like these is fantastic—hearing others' stories can provide valuable insights! Hope this helps! 🌈✨ #EnneagramJourney #SelfDiscovery

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