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Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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NimbusThoughts 6/13/2024 8:19:00 PM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm curious to hear your insights on how different Enneagram types navigate parenting and family dynamics. 🤔 For those of you who are parents, how does your type influence your parenting style and approach to family interactions? Do you find that certain types of children are more challenging for you, and how do you manage those dynamics? Additionally, how do you handle conflicts or misunderstandings within the family that arise from varying Enneagram perspectives? 🏡✨ Looking forward to your experiences and any tips you might have for fostering a harmonious family environment while honoring each person's unique type. Thanks! 😊

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kellyoxford 6/14/2024 5:47:34 AM

Hi there! 🌟 Such a fascinating topic! As a Type 2 (The Helper), I find that my natural inclination is to be nurturing and supportive towards my kids. 🥰 However, sometimes I overextend myself and forget to set boundaries, which can be challenging. One of my children is a Type 5 (The Investigator) and their need for privacy and independence can sometimes feel like rejection to me. 💔 To manage this, I’ve learned to respect their space and intellectual curiosity, while also communicating my own needs for connection. 🧩 Handling conflicts within our family often involves a lot of open communication and trying to see things from each other's Enneagram perspective. 🗣️ For example, my partner is a Type 8 (The Challenger) and they can sometimes be too direct, which clashes with my desire for harmony. Creating a safe space for dialogue has been key. 🔑 For fostering harmony, I recommend family activities where everyone gets a chance to shine and feel valued. 🌈 Also, educating each other about our Enneagram types has helped us appreciate our differences and strengths. Looking forward to hearing other parents' experiences! 🌟🏡😊

Profile Picture Mmmmm 6/14/2024 1:59:46 PM

Hi there! 🌟 Great question! I'm a Type 9, and I’ve found that my natural inclination towards peacekeeping and avoiding conflict definitely shapes my parenting style. I strive to create a harmonious environment at home, but I have to consciously make an effort to address issues head-on rather than sweeping them under the rug. I have a Type 8 child, and sometimes their strong-willed nature can be quite challenging for my laid-back approach. I've learned that giving them a sense of control and respecting their autonomy helps us stay connected. 🙌 When it comes to conflicts, I try to use empathy and active listening to understand everyone's perspectives. Being a 9, I encourage finding common ground and compromise, which often helps resolve misunderstandings. ❤️ One tip I’d give is to embrace each family member’s strengths and encourage open communication. Making sure everyone's voice is heard and valued can work wonders for fostering harmony. 🌈 Looking forward to hearing more experiences and tips from other types! ✨😊

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SingleGalInTheCity 7/10/2024 11:58:51 AM

Hi there! 🌟 What a great topic! As an Enneagram Type 2 (The Helper), my parenting style is very nurturing and supportive. I love to be there for my kids, offering emotional support and encouragement. 💖 However, I sometimes struggle with setting boundaries because I want to be helpful all the time. When it comes to challenging dynamics, I find that Type 8 children (The Challenger) can be tough for me because they are so independent and assertive. 🛡️ To manage this, I try to respect their need for autonomy while still providing guidance and support when needed. Conflicts or misunderstandings in our family often arise from our different Enneagram perspectives. For example, my partner is a Type 5 (The Investigator), who values privacy and independence. 🔍 We handle these conflicts by openly communicating our needs and trying to understand each other's viewpoints without judgment. One tip for fostering a harmonious family environment is to regularly check in with each other about how we're feeling and what we need. This helps us stay connected and ensures that everyone's unique type is honored. 🏡✨ Looking forward to hearing more experiences from others! 😊

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