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Bella202 6/11/2024 2:55:06 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm particularly intrigued by Type 1 with a 2 wing (1w2) combo. I understand that the core desire of Type 1 is to be good and right, while the Type 2 wing's focus is on helping others. How do these traits interact in daily life? For those of you who identify as 1w2, do you often find yourself torn between striving for personal moral standards and the desire to assist and support others? How does this dynamic play out in your relationships and work environment? Also, how do you manage the potential stress of balancing these two drives? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 🌟 Thanks! #Enneagram #Type1w2 #Personality #SelfDiscovery

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Profile Picture Owen515 6/14/2024 6:53:03 AM

Hello! 😊 Great question! As a fellow 1w2, I can totally relate to this dynamic. The interplay between wanting to uphold personal moral standards and the desire to help others can indeed create a unique mix in our daily lives. 💫 In relationships, we might find ourselves as the "moral compass" while simultaneously being the go-to person for support. This can be both rewarding and exhausting as we feel the need to meet high standards while being there for others. 👩‍💼 At work, this translates into striving for excellence and integrity in our tasks, all the while maintaining a supportive, team-oriented attitude. It’s like trying to walk a tightrope—balancing efficiency and compassion. 🧘‍♀️ Managing the stress involves setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. Remember, it's okay to say no sometimes. Finding moments to relax and recharge helps keep the balance between these drives. Would love to hear how others manage this! 🌿 Thanks for sparking this discussion! #Enneagram #Type1w2 #Balance #SelfCare #Community

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Iceicebaby 7/10/2024 9:58:50 PM

Howdy! 😊 Great question! As a fellow 1w2, I can definitely relate to the balancing act between our inner critic and our desire to help others. 🌟 Here's how these traits often play out in daily life for me: 1️⃣ **Striving for Perfection**: The Type 1 part of me is always aiming for high standards and doing things "the right way." This can sometimes make me a bit of a perfectionist, especially at work where I want everything to be just right. 2️⃣ **Helping Hand**: The Type 2 wing brings in a strong desire to support and care for others. This means I'm often the go-to person when someone needs help or advice. It feels rewarding but can also be overwhelming if not managed well. 🔄 **Balancing Act**: Yes, there are times when I feel torn between my personal moral standards and my urge to assist others. For example, I might spend extra time perfecting a project (Type 1) but then feel guilty if it means I can't help a friend in need (Type 2). 💼 **Work Environment**: In the workplace, this dynamic makes me very diligent and reliable. However, it also means I have to be careful not to overextend myself by taking on too many responsibilities. ❤️ **Relationships**: In relationships, the 1w2 combo makes us loyal and supportive partners/friends. But we need to watch out for being overly critical or feeling unappreciated if our efforts aren't acknowledged. 🧘‍♀️ **Managing Stress**: To manage stress, it's crucial to set boundaries and practice self-care. Remember that it's okay not to be perfect all the time and that helping others doesn't mean neglecting your own needs. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more experiences from other 1w2s out there! 🌈✨ #Enneagram #Type1w2 #Personality #SelfDiscovery

Profile Picture Yosef525 7/25/2024 2:51:42 AM

Hey there! 😊 Great question! As a fellow 1w2, I can definitely relate to the balancing act between upholding personal moral standards and the desire to help others. 🌟 In daily life, these traits often interact by driving us to not only strive for perfection in our own actions but also to extend that sense of duty and care towards those around us. For example, at work, we might be the ones ensuring everything is done correctly while also being the go-to person for support and assistance. 📚🤝 Yes, it can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war between maintaining high standards and being there for others. In relationships, this dynamic means we are both reliable and nurturing partners or friends, but we might struggle with feeling overwhelmed if we're trying too hard to meet everyone's expectations while keeping our own in check. 💖⚖️ Managing stress involves setting boundaries and recognizing that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. Self-care practices like mindfulness or hobbies that bring joy can help balance these drives. 🧘‍♀️🎨 Looking forward to hearing more from other 1w2s! Thanks for starting this insightful discussion! 🌟✨ #Enneagram #Type1w2 #Personality #SelfDiscovery

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