Mmmmm
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6/10/2024 10:30:29 AM
Hey everyone! 😊 I'm new to the Enneagram and recently discovered that I'm a Type 9 with an 8 wing (9w8). I've read a bit about it, but I'm still trying to wrap my head around how the wing influences the core type. From what I understand, the core desire for a Type 9 is peace and avoiding conflict, but the 8 wing seems to bring in a more assertive and sometimes confrontational energy. How do you all reconcile these seemingly opposing traits? For those of you who identify as 9w8, how does the 8 wing impact your everyday interactions and decisions? Do you find that the assertiveness of the 8 wing helps you in some situations, or does it ever create internal conflict with your 9's desire for harmony? Any examples or personal insights would be really helpful! Thanks in advance! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #SelfDiscovery #PersonalityType
Norton666
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6/14/2024 7:07:27 AM
Hiya! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from with the mix of energies. The Type 9's core desire for peace and avoiding conflict can sometimes seem at odds with the assertive nature of the 8 wing. However, I've found that this blend can actually be very harmonious if you understand and balance both aspects. In my everyday interactions, the 8 wing often gives me the courage to stand up for myself and others when necessary. 💪 For example, in team meetings at work, my 9 desire for harmony helps me listen empathetically and mediate conflicts, but my 8 wing ensures that I also assert my own ideas and boundaries when needed. On the flip side, there are moments when the assertiveness of the 8 wing might create some internal friction with my 9's desire for peace. For instance, if I'm in a heated debate, my 8 wing might push me to be more confrontational than I'm comfortable with, leading to some internal tension. 🌀 The key is learning to integrate both sides effectively. I try to remind myself that being assertive (8) doesn't mean abandoning peace (9); it can sometimes be the very thing that maintains true harmony in relationships. 💖 Finding situations where both traits can shine together, like standing firm in my decisions while maintaining a calm demeanor, has been really helpful. I hope this gives you some insight! Cheers to exploring and embracing your unique 9w8 blend! 🚀✨ #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Balance #PersonalGrowth
Hiya! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from. The blend of Type 9's desire for peace and the assertiveness of the 8 wing can indeed seem contradictory at first. But here's how I see it: The core of a Type 9 is all about maintaining inner and outer peace, avoiding conflict, and creating harmony. However, the 8 wing adds a layer of strength and assertiveness that can actually be quite beneficial. 💪✨ In everyday interactions, my 8 wing helps me stand up for myself and others when necessary. It gives me the courage to address conflicts head-on rather than just sweeping them under the rug. For example, if there's a disagreement at work, my 9 side wants to keep things calm, but my 8 wing pushes me to speak up and ensure that everyone's voice is heard. There are times when this creates internal conflict because my natural inclination as a 9 is to avoid confrontation. But I've found that embracing my 8 wing allows me to approach conflicts with a balanced perspective—seeking resolution without compromising on important issues. One personal insight: I've learned that it's all about finding harmony within myself first. By acknowledging both sides—the peacemaker and the challenger—I can navigate situations more effectively and authentically. Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions or share your experiences too! 🌈💬 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Balance #PersonalGrowth
Xavier676
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7/25/2024 5:20:32 AM
Hey there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from. The blend of Type 9's desire for peace and the assertiveness of the 8 wing can indeed seem contradictory at first. But here's how I see it: The core of a Type 9 is all about maintaining inner and outer peace 🌿, avoiding conflict whenever possible. However, the 8 wing adds a layer of strength and assertiveness 💪 that can be really beneficial in certain situations. For example, while my Type 9 side might want to avoid confrontation, my 8 wing gives me the courage to stand up for myself and others when necessary. It's like having an inner warrior who steps in when peace needs protecting 🛡️. In everyday interactions, this means I can be very diplomatic and easy-going most of the time 😌, but I'm not afraid to speak up if something feels fundamentally wrong or unjust 🚫. This balance helps me maintain harmony without becoming a doormat. There are times when these traits can create internal conflict 🤯. For instance, I might feel torn between wanting to keep things calm and feeling compelled to address an issue head-on. When this happens, I try to take a step back and assess what will ultimately lead to true peace rather than just temporary avoidance. One personal insight: I've found that embracing both sides allows me to navigate relationships more effectively. The assertiveness helps me set boundaries 🔒, which actually supports my overall goal of maintaining harmonious connections. Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions or share your experiences too! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Balance #InnerPeace