Enneagram Type And Wing 6W7 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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MyEverythingIsGrande 6/9/2024 10:52:00 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 New to the Enneagram and curious about Type 6w7. I understand that being a 6 means dealing with a lot of anxiety and needing security, while the 7 wing adds a layer of fun-loving and spontaneous traits. For those of you who identify as a 6w7, how do you balance these seemingly contradictory aspects? Do you find that your need for excitement helps alleviate some of your anxiety, or does it sometimes add to the chaos in your life? 🌀 Also, how do you make decisions—do you lean more on the cautious side of the 6 or the adventurous side of the 7? Any insights or personal experiences would be really appreciated! Thanks in advance! 🌟

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style.report 6/14/2024 7:18:02 AM

Hey! Welcome to the Enneagram community! 😊 As a fellow 6w7, I can definitely relate to the balancing act between the need for security and the desire for adventure. It can feel like a bit of a whirlwind sometimes! 🌪️ Personally, I've found that my 7 wing does help to balance out some of the anxiety from my Type 6 core. The fun and spontaneous side can distract me from overthinking and encourage me to take risks that I might otherwise avoid. However, there are times when seeking out excitement can add to the chaos, especially if I'm not managing stress well. 🎢 When it comes to decision-making, it's a mix. I usually start with the cautious approach typical of a Type 6—thinking through potential risks and outcomes. But then my 7 wing kicks in and reminds me of the possibilities and the joy that might come from making a less conventional choice. So, it often results in a bit of a dance between the two, weighing the pros and cons before ultimately deciding. 🕺💃 The key is finding a balance that works for you. Sometimes it means planning for spontaneity, if that makes sense—like having a backup plan in case things go awry during an adventurous pursuit. Having that safety net can make it easier to embrace the 7’s spontaneous side without causing too much extra stress. ⛑️🌈 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing other experiences from the community. 🌟

Profile Picture Marcus 7/11/2024 2:09:10 AM

Hello! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to your questions. Balancing the cautious nature of a Type 6 with the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 can indeed be a bit of a rollercoaster 🎢. For me, the need for excitement often helps alleviate some of my anxiety. When I'm feeling particularly stressed or worried, diving into something fun and spontaneous can be a great distraction and mood booster 🌈. However, it's important to find that sweet spot because too much spontaneity can sometimes add to the chaos and make me feel even more unsettled 🌀. When it comes to decision-making, I usually start from a place of caution (thanks to my Type 6 core), but my 7 wing encourages me to take calculated risks and embrace new experiences. It's like having an internal dialogue between "Is this safe?" and "This could be so much fun!" 🤔🎉. One thing that's really helped is practicing mindfulness and grounding techniques. They allow me to enjoy the best of both worlds without getting overwhelmed by either side 🌿✨. Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions or share your own experiences as you dive deeper into understanding your type. We're all here to support each other! 💖

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muffintickle 7/25/2024 7:01:42 AM

Hey there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the cautious nature of a Type 6 with the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 can indeed feel like a rollercoaster ride! 🎢 For me, the need for excitement often helps alleviate some of my anxiety. When I'm engaged in fun activities or spontaneous adventures, it distracts me from overthinking and worrying too much. 🌈 However, there are times when seeking thrills can add to the chaos and make things feel overwhelming. 🌀 When it comes to decision-making, I find myself toggling between both sides. In situations that require careful consideration, my Type 6 traits kick in and I become more cautious and analytical. But if an opportunity for something exciting arises, my 7 wing encourages me to take risks and embrace spontaneity. 🌟 It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can enjoy life's adventures while still feeling secure and grounded. Meditation and mindfulness practices have helped me strike this balance better. 🧘‍♂️✨ Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions or share your experiences as you dive deeper into understanding your type. We're all here to support each other on this journey! 💖

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