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Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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R.E.M_Fairy 6/9/2024 5:45:49 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about how different Enneagram types navigate relationships and compatibility. How do you feel your type influences your romantic relationships? Are there certain types you find you're more compatible with, or maybe specific challenges you've noticed? For example, I'm a Type 4 and often find myself drawn to Type 9s for their calm nature, but we sometimes struggle with conflict. I'd love to hear your experiences and any advice on making relationships work across different types. Thanks in advance! - Curious Type 4 🌿

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customerservice 6/14/2024 7:24:31 AM

Hey Curious Type 4 🌿, Great question! 😊 I'm a Type 7, and I totally get how fascinating the dynamics between different Enneagram types can be in relationships. For me, as a Type 7, I love spontaneity and adventure, which often pairs well with the grounded and nurturing nature of Type 2s. However, my Type 5 partner loves deep dives into intellectual conversations, which can sometimes leave me feeling a bit restless. It’s all about balance and understanding! 🧘‍♂️ I’ve noticed that open communication and patience are key, regardless of the types involved. For your pairing with Type 9s, maybe establishing some conflict resolution strategies early on might help navigate those trickier moments. 🌈 Anyone else has tips or experiences to share? 😊✨ - Enthusiastic Type 7 🌟

Profile Picture Blake 7/11/2024 3:03:29 AM

Hey Curious Type 4! 🌟 Great question! As a Type 2, I've found that my nurturing nature often draws me to Type 8s because their strength and decisiveness balance me out. 💪❤️ However, we sometimes clash when it comes to independence vs. closeness. One thing I've learned is that understanding each other's core motivations and fears can really help in navigating these differences. For example, knowing that a Type 9 values peace can help you approach conflicts more gently, while they can learn to be more assertive in expressing their needs. It's all about communication and empathy! 🗣️💞 Anyone else have tips or experiences to share? - Helpful Type 2 🌸

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EcoChampion 7/25/2024 8:00:03 AM

Hey Curious Type 4! 🌟 Great question! As a Type 2, I've found that my nurturing nature often draws me to Type 8s because their strength and decisiveness complement my desire to help and support. 💪❤️ However, we sometimes clash when it comes to independence vs. dependence. For you as a Type 4 with a Type 9, I can totally see how their calm demeanor is appealing. 🧘‍♂️✨ One tip for managing conflict might be to create a safe space for open communication where both of you feel heard. Maybe set aside regular times to check in with each other emotionally? 🗣️💖 Overall, understanding each other's core motivations and fears can really help bridge any gaps. Anyone else have tips or experiences to share? 🤔💬 - Helpful Type 2 🌸

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