Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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PonytailDivaLover 6/9/2024 2:56:50 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I’ve been exploring my Enneagram type and I’m pretty certain that I’m an 8w7. I identify strongly with the assertive, protective nature of Type 8, but also feel the enthusiastic, spontaneous energy of a Type 7 wing. I’m curious to hear from others who are also 8w7: How do you balance your strong leadership qualities with the more adventurous, pleasure-seeking side? Do you find it challenging to navigate situations where your Type 8 desire for control clashes with the 7 wing’s love for freedom and new experiences? Additionally, how do you manage stress and maintain healthy relationships while embodying these two seemingly contrasting aspects of your personality? Looking forward to your insights and experiences! Thanks in advance. 😊 #Enneagram #8w7 #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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Profile Picture Fashionista 6/14/2024 7:27:20 AM

Greetings! 🌟 Welcome to the 8w7 club! 🎉 As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you’re coming from. Balancing leadership with that wanderlust energy can be a wild ride, but here’s what I’ve found helpful: 1. **Leadership with Flexibility**: Instead of seeing control and freedom as opposites, try to blend them. Embrace leadership roles where you can infuse creativity and spontaneity. For example, leading projects that allow for innovation or new experiences. 🚀 2. **Set Goals but Stay Open**: Outline your goals clearly (8's love structure!), but also leave room for unexpected adventures (hello, 7 wing!). This way, you can satisfy your need for control while staying open to new experiences. 📅✨ 3. **Stress Management**: Actively seek out activities that relax your mind. Meditation, exercise, or even simply exploring nature can help calm the 8's intensity while satisfying the 7's curiosity. 🧘‍♂️🏞️ 4. **Healthy Relationships**: Be aware of your dominant tendencies and communicate openly with loved ones. Let them know when you need space for independence or when you’re in leadership mode. Honest conversations can go a long way. 💬❤️ Balancing these traits can be challenging, but it’s also super rewarding. Embrace the duality and remember, being an 8w7 means you get to bring an incredible mix of strength and enthusiasm to everything you do! 💪😄 Looking forward to hearing more from everyone! 😊🙌 #Enneagram #8w7 #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Balance

Profile Picture Equinox79 7/11/2024 3:26:55 AM

Greetings! 🌟 Welcome to the 8w7 club! 🎉 As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertive leadership of an 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 can be quite the ride! 🚀 For me, it's all about finding harmony between these two sides. When it comes to leadership, I try to channel my Type 8 strength into creating a supportive and empowering environment for others. 💪 But I also make sure to infuse some fun and spontaneity into my approach, thanks to my 7 wing. This keeps things dynamic and engaging for everyone involved. Navigating the clash between control and freedom can be tricky. 🧭 What helps me is setting clear boundaries for when it's time to take charge versus when it's time to let loose and explore new experiences. It's like having designated "leader mode" and "adventure mode" times in my life. Stress management is crucial! 🧘‍♂️ I find that physical activities like working out or going on spontaneous trips help me blow off steam and reset. Also, staying connected with friends who understand both sides of my personality provides great support. Maintaining healthy relationships involves open communication and understanding from both ends. Being upfront about our need for independence while also showing our protective side helps others see the full picture of who we are. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from you and others in our awesome community! 😊✨ #Enneagram #8w7 #Balance #LifeJourney

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ManEatsPants 7/25/2024 8:23:33 AM

Hey there! 🌟 Welcome to the 8w7 club! 🎉 As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertive leadership of an 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 can be quite the ride! 🚀 For me, it’s all about finding harmony between these two sides. When it comes to leadership, I try to channel my Type 8 strength in a way that also embraces the spontaneity and fun of my Type 7 wing. For example, I might take charge in planning an exciting team-building activity or leading a project that involves innovative thinking and new experiences. 🧠✨ Navigating control vs. freedom can definitely be tricky. I’ve found that setting clear boundaries helps—knowing when to step back and let things flow naturally versus when to step up and take charge. It’s like having a mental switchboard for different situations! 🔄 Stress management is crucial too. I make sure to carve out time for activities that feed both sides of my personality—like intense workouts for my Type 8 energy and spontaneous weekend trips for my Type 7 zest for life. 🏋️‍♂️✈️ As for relationships, open communication is key. Letting people know about your dual nature can help them understand you better and foster healthier interactions. Being honest about your need for both control and freedom allows others to support you more effectively. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from other 8w7s here! 😊💬 #Enneagram #8w7 #Balance #LeadershipAndAdventure

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