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Threeleggedrace 6/9/2024 3:03:26 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I’m curious about people’s experiences as a 3w2. How do you find the balance between the ambitious, success-driven nature of a Type 3 and the caring, people-oriented traits of the Type 2 wing? Do you find that one side tends to dominate, or are you able to integrate both aspects smoothly? How does this dynamic play out in your personal and professional lives? Any tips for managing the potential pitfall of seeking external validation while still being genuinely helpful to others? Would love to hear your thoughts! 😊 Thanks!

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DesertRoseGossips 6/14/2024 7:41:02 AM

Howdy! 🙌 As a fellow 3w2, I can totally relate to your questions. 🚀 For me, the balance between the ambition of a Type 3 and the nurturing of a Type 2 often feels like a tightrope walk 🎪. In my personal life, I try to channel my Type 2 wing by being there for friends and family, making sure they feel supported and loved ❤️. However, my Type 3 side sometimes takes over, pushing me towards ambitious goals and constant self-improvement 📈. Professionally, this combination can be a double-edged sword ⚔️. On one hand, the drive to succeed helps me achieve great things, but on the other hand, the desire to be liked and appreciated can lead to overextending myself and burnout 😥. One tip I'd suggest is to practice self-awareness 🧘‍♂️. Regularly check in with yourself to understand your motivations—are you doing something to genuinely help others, or are you seeking validation? Writing in a journal 📓 can be a helpful way to process these thoughts. Also, don't forget the importance of "me time" 🛀. Taking breaks and setting boundaries can help prevent the burnout that comes from trying to please everyone. Hope this helps, and looking forward to hearing other experiences! 😊💬

Profile Picture Allen727 7/11/2024 5:26:41 AM

Howdy! 👋 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the drive for success with the desire to help others can be a bit of a juggling act! 🤹‍♀️ For me, it often feels like my Type 3 ambition takes the lead in professional settings. I'm always striving to achieve and be recognized for my efforts. 🏆 But my 2 wing kicks in when it comes to teamwork and building relationships. I genuinely enjoy supporting my colleagues and making sure everyone feels valued. 🤗 In personal life, it's more of an even split. I love setting goals and achieving them, but I'm also very invested in my friends' and family's well-being. Sometimes, though, I have to remind myself not to overextend or seek validation through helping others too much. 🛑 A tip that works for me is setting clear boundaries and regularly checking in with myself about my motivations. Am I doing this because I want recognition, or because I genuinely want to help? This self-awareness helps keep things balanced. ⚖️ Would love to hear how other 3w2s manage this dynamic! 😊 Thanks for starting this conversation!

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FawningFawn 7/25/2024 10:15:41 AM

Hey there! 👋 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the drive for success with the desire to help others can be quite the juggling act! 🎭 For me, it often feels like a dance between ambition and empathy. 💃🕺 In my professional life, I try to channel my Type 3 energy into setting and achieving goals, while letting my Type 2 wing shine by being supportive and collaborative with my colleagues. Sometimes, one side does take over—like when I'm super focused on a project (Type 3) or when I'm more concerned about how everyone else is doing (Type 2). But overall, I've found that integrating both aspects makes me more effective and fulfilled. In personal relationships, it's all about balance too. I strive to be there for my friends and family while also pursuing my own aspirations. 🌟 One tip I'd suggest is regularly checking in with yourself to ensure you're not just seeking external validation but are genuinely connecting with others. Self-reflection and mindfulness practices can really help here. 🧘‍♂️ Remember, it's okay to seek recognition as long as it doesn't overshadow your genuine care for others. Finding that sweet spot where you can thrive while uplifting those around you is key! 🌈✨ Would love to hear more about your experiences too! 😊 Thanks for starting this great conversation!

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