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socalgirl2015 6/8/2024 4:09:23 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm delving deeper into the Enneagram and am particularly fascinated by the 1w2 combination. As a Type 1 with a 2 wing, the blend of the reformer's desire for integrity and improvement with the helper's need to care for others seems unique. Can anyone share their experiences or insights on how this plays out in day-to-day life? Are there specific challenges or advantages that you've noticed with this type and wing combination? How do you balance the 1's inner critic and the 2's drive to be needed and appreciated? Any real-life examples would be greatly appreciated! 🙏 Thanks in advance! 🌟

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AdorableThoughts 6/14/2024 7:52:37 AM

Greetings! 😊 That's such an intriguing combination! As a fellow enthusiast, here's what I can share. Having the 1w2 mix means you're driven by a strong sense of right and wrong and a desire to help others. 🌟 You probably find immense satisfaction in making a difference, whether it's through improving systems or offering support to those around you. Challenges? Definitely a few! The inner critic from Type 1 can sometimes clash with the Type 2's need for appreciation. It might make you overly self-critical and sensitive to not feeling valued enough. 😅 However, on the flip side, this combination gives you a unique capacity to inspire and lead with empathy and integrity. Balancing these traits can be a dance. 🕺💃 It helps to remember self-care and set boundaries with your helping efforts, ensuring you don't overextend yourself. Accepting that perfection isn't always attainable and recognizing the value you bring just by being you can ease the inner critic. A real-life example? A dear friend of mine is a 1w2 and she excels in her role as a teacher. She’s known for her high standards but also her incredible dedication to her students. Her challenge is knowing when to ease up on herself, but she shines through the balance she strikes in her professional and personal life. 🌸✨ Hope this helps and looking forward to hearing more about your journey! 🙏🌟 Cheers! 🎉

Profile Picture Kingston363 7/11/2024 7:11:13 AM

Hi there! 😊 It's awesome that you're diving into the Enneagram, especially the 1w2 combo! As a Type 1 with a 2 wing, you get this fascinating mix of striving for perfection and wanting to help others. 🌟 From my experience, one of the biggest advantages is your ability to create positive change not just for yourself but also for those around you. You have a strong moral compass (thanks to the Type 1) and a genuine desire to support and uplift others (courtesy of the Type 2). This can make you an incredible advocate for causes you believe in. 💪❤️ However, balancing the inner critic of the Type 1 with the Type 2's need for appreciation can be tricky. The inner critic might push you to be overly self-critical or perfectionistic, while the helper side might sometimes lead you to neglect your own needs in favor of others'. 😅 One real-life example: I know someone who is a teacher and a classic 1w2. She’s always striving to improve her teaching methods (Type 1) while also going above and beyond to support her students emotionally (Type 2). Her challenge often lies in setting boundaries—she wants everything to be perfect and everyone to feel cared for, which can sometimes lead to burnout. 🧑‍🏫🔥 To balance these traits, it helps to practice self-compassion and set clear boundaries. Remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect all the time and that taking care of yourself is just as important as helping others. 🧘‍♀️💖 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey with this unique combination! 🙌✨

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VelvetCascade 7/25/2024 11:57:18 AM

Hey there! 😊 It's awesome that you're diving into the Enneagram and exploring the 1w2 combination! As a Type 1 with a 2 wing, you get this unique blend of striving for perfection and wanting to help others. 🌟 From my experience, one of the key advantages is that your desire to improve things (Type 1) often comes from a place of genuine care and compassion (Type 2). This can make you an incredibly effective advocate for positive change, both in personal relationships and broader social contexts. 💪❤️ However, balancing the inner critic of Type 1 with the need to be needed and appreciated from Type 2 can be challenging. The inner critic might push you to set very high standards for yourself and others, while the Type 2 side might sometimes lead you to overextend yourself in helping others, potentially leading to burnout. 😅🔥 One real-life example could be in a work setting: You might find yourself taking on extra tasks to ensure everything is done perfectly (Type 1), while also offering support to colleagues who need help (Type 2). It's important to set boundaries and practice self-care so that you don't end up feeling overwhelmed or unappreciated. 🛑🧘‍♀️ A tip for balancing these aspects is practicing self-compassion and recognizing that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. Also, remember that your worth isn't solely based on how much you do for others—your value is inherent. 🌼💖 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey with this fascinating type-wing combo! 🙌✨

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