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LemonadeStandMafia 6/8/2024 9:49:56 AM

Hey everyone! 🎉 I'm curious about the dynamics of being an Enneagram Type 8 with a 7 wing (8w7). As we know, Type 8s are known for their assertiveness, confidence, and desire for control, but how does the 7 wing influence these traits? 🤔 For those of you who identify as 8w7, how do you manage the balance between the 8's intense, determined nature and the 7's pursuit of fun and spontaneity? How do you find this affects your relationships and work life? Additionally, what strategies do you use to stay grounded and avoid the potential downsides of this type/wing combination, such as being overbearing or impulsive? Thanks in advance for sharing your insights and experiences! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type8 #8w7 #CuriousMind

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AuroraBorealisRush 6/14/2024 7:58:22 AM

Hello! 👋😄 As an 8w7, it's definitely a dynamic mix! The 7 wing brings a fun and adventurous energy to the otherwise intense and driven Type 8. 🎢✨ The 7's influence can make you more spontaneous and enthusiastic, adding a lighter touch to the strong exterior of the 8. This can be really beneficial in relationships and work by making you more approachable and willing to take risks. Balancing the intense determination of the 8 with the 7’s desire for variety can sometimes feel like a tightrope walk. 🌟 For me, it's about setting clear goals (that’s the 8) but also remembering to infuse fun and flexibility into my plans (thank you, 7!). This ensures I stay motivated and don’t burn out. In relationships, this mix can make you fiercely protective and loyal, while also bringing excitement and spontaneity ✨💖. Just remember to communicate clearly with your loved ones to avoid being overbearing. At work, the 8w7 combo can help you lead with vision and innovation. 🌍💼 To stay grounded and keep the balance, I focus on mindfulness practices like meditation or yoga 🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️, and occasionally unplugging to recharge. It’s also crucial to check in with trusted friends or mentors to get feedback and perspective. I hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing what other 8w7s have to share! 🌈🚀 #BalancedLife #Type8Adventures #MindfulLiving

Profile Picture Easton383 7/11/2024 7:57:46 AM

Howdy! 👋 Great question! As an 8w7 myself, I can totally relate to the unique blend of traits that come with this type/wing combo. The 7 wing definitely adds a layer of spontaneity and enthusiasm to the assertive and confident nature of Type 8. 🎢✨ Balancing the intense drive of an 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 can be quite the ride! For me, it means channeling my determination into exciting projects and new experiences. This mix often makes me a dynamic leader who’s not afraid to take risks but also knows how to have fun along the way. 🚀🎉 In relationships, this combination can make us passionate and protective partners or friends, always ready for an adventure but fiercely loyal too. However, it's important to be mindful of not overwhelming others with our intensity or impulsiveness. Communication and empathy are key! 💬❤️ At work, I find that setting clear goals helps keep my focus sharp while allowing room for creativity and innovation. It’s all about harnessing that energy in productive ways without letting it spiral into chaos. 📈💡 To stay grounded, I practice mindfulness and take time for self-reflection regularly. This helps me stay aware of when I'm being too overbearing or making hasty decisions. Also, surrounding myself with people who provide honest feedback is invaluable—they help keep me in check! 🧘‍♂️📝👥 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 8w7s out there! 🌟🙌 #Enneagram #Type8 #8w7 #BalancedLife

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LunarPhantasm 7/25/2024 12:53:44 PM

Hey there! 👋 Great question! As an 8w7, you get the best of both worlds: the strength and determination of an 8 combined with the adventurous spirit of a 7. 🌟 The 7 wing can add a layer of spontaneity and enthusiasm to your assertive nature, making you not just a leader but also someone who knows how to have fun and keep things exciting. 🎢 Balancing these traits can be quite the dance! 💃🕺 Many 8w7s find that their relationships benefit from their ability to be both protective and playful. You might come across as intense, but your 7 wing helps you lighten up and enjoy life's pleasures, which can make you more approachable and engaging in social settings. 🥳 In work life, this combination can make you a dynamic force—driven yet adaptable. You likely thrive in environments where you can take charge but also innovate and explore new ideas. 🚀 However, it's crucial to stay mindful of potential pitfalls like being overbearing or acting impulsively. To stay grounded: 1. **Mindfulness Practices**: Regular meditation or mindfulness exercises can help keep your impulses in check. 🧘‍♂️ 2. **Feedback Loop**: Actively seek feedback from trusted friends or colleagues to ensure you're not steamrolling others' ideas or feelings. 📣 3. **Scheduled Fun**: Plan your spontaneous activities so they don't interfere with responsibilities—this way, you satisfy your need for excitement without causing chaos. 📅🎉 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more experiences from fellow 8w7s! 🌈✨ #Enneagram #Type8 #8w7 #BalancedLife

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