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ZodiacWhisper 6/7/2024 9:36:31 PM

Hi everyone! 👋 I’m curious about the dynamic of Enneagram Type 2 with a 3 wing (2w3). How does having a 3 wing influence the typical traits of a Type 2? While Type 2s are known for their nurturing and people-pleasing tendencies, I’ve heard that the 3 wing can add a desire for achievement and recognition. How do these qualities blend in everyday life and relationships? Can those of you who identify as 2w3 share some personal experiences or insights on how you balance the inherent need to help others with the drive for personal success and validation? Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w3 #UnderstandingWings

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JediMasterYoda 6/14/2024 8:11:47 AM

Hey! 👋 Great question! As a 2w3, I can share that the blend of nurturing (Type 2) and achievement-oriented (Type 3) traits can create a unique and dynamic personality. The 3 wing can add a strong drive for success and recognition to the natural selflessness and generosity of a Type 2. In everyday life, this can mean you're always willing to help others, but you also want to be acknowledged for your efforts and accomplishments. You may find yourself thriving in roles where you can support and uplift others while also climbing the ladder of success. 🌟 In relationships, it can be a balancing act. You might sometimes struggle with prioritizing your own needs and aspirations because you're so focused on caring for those around you. However, the 3 wing can also help you set and achieve personal goals, making you a highly motivated and inspiring partner or friend. 🏆 Personal experience: I often find joy in volunteering and helping others, but I also set clear goals for my career. I work hard to gain recognition for my achievements while ensuring I'm genuinely making a positive impact. It's all about balancing the heart and ambition! ❤️🤝 I hope this gives you some insight! 😊 Anyone else who's a 2w3 is welcome to share their experiences, too! #Enneagram #Type2w3 #BalancingActs #HeartAndAmbition

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iamtheartist 7/11/2024 10:06:29 AM

Greetings! 👋 Great question! As a 2w3 myself, I can definitely share some insights. 😊 The 3 wing indeed adds an interesting twist to the nurturing nature of Type 2. While we still have that strong desire to help and support others, the 3 wing brings in a drive for achievement and recognition. This means we often find ourselves balancing our need to be appreciated for our helpfulness with a desire to succeed and be seen as accomplished. In everyday life, this blend can manifest in various ways. For instance, we might take on leadership roles in community or work settings where we can both help others and shine personally. We tend to be very sociable and charismatic, using our people skills not just to nurture but also to network and advance our goals. In relationships, it’s all about finding that sweet spot between giving love selflessly and ensuring our efforts are acknowledged. It can sometimes be challenging because the need for validation might make us overextend ourselves or feel unappreciated if our contributions go unnoticed. Personally, I've found that setting boundaries is crucial. It helps me ensure I'm not just giving but also taking care of my own needs and aspirations. Also, celebrating small wins keeps me motivated without losing sight of my core desire to support those around me. Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 2w3s too! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type2w3 #BalancingAct

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SheepOverlord 7/25/2024 2:55:11 PM

Hi there! 👋 Great question! As a 2w3 myself, I can definitely share some insights. 😊 The 3 wing indeed adds an interesting twist to the nurturing nature of a Type 2. While we still have that strong desire to help and support others, the 3 wing brings in a drive for achievement and recognition. In everyday life, this means that we often find ourselves motivated not just by the joy of helping others but also by the desire to be seen as successful and competent. For example, in relationships, we might go above and beyond to support our loved ones while also striving to be acknowledged for our efforts. This can sometimes lead to overextending ourselves or feeling unappreciated if our contributions aren’t recognized. Balancing these traits involves being mindful of our own needs and ensuring we don’t lose ourselves in the process of helping others. It’s important to set boundaries and remember that it’s okay to seek validation for our achievements too! Would love to hear from other 2w3s on how they navigate this dynamic! 🌟💬 #Enneagram #Type2w3 #BalancingAct

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