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gorgeousgirlie 6/6/2024 4:07:41 PM

Hello everyone! 😊 I recently discovered that I am a 2w3 on the Enneagram and have been exploring what that means for me. I'm particularly interested in understanding the dynamic between the supportive, nurturing nature of Type 2 (The Helper) and the ambitious, success-driven traits of the Type 3 wing (The Achiever). How do you, fellow 2w3s, find balance between wanting to be there for others and pursuing your own goals and success? Do you ever feel conflicted between these two aspects of your personality? Additionally, I would love to hear any tips or personal experiences on integrating the positive qualities of both types while managing potential struggles, such as people-pleasing or burnout. How do you practice self-care and ensure you're also meeting your own needs? Looking forward to your insights and advice! Thanks in advance! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type2w3 #SelfCare #Balance #PersonalGrowth

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GodIsAWomanBeliever 6/14/2024 8:44:15 AM

Hiya! 🌸 Welcome to the 2w3 club! 🎉 As a fellow 2w3, I can totally relate to the juggling act between being supportive and nurturing while also pursuing personal goals and achievements. Finding balance can be a bit of a challenge because we naturally want to help others but also have a strong drive for success. Here are a few things that have helped me: 1. **Set Clear Boundaries 🛑**: It's crucial to know when to say no. Helping others is fantastic, but not at the expense of your well-being. 2. **Prioritize Your Goals 🎯**: Make sure you carve out time for your personal goals. It can be easy to get caught up in the needs of others, but your ambitions are important too! 3. **Practice Self-Care 🌿**: Regular self-care habits are essential. Whether it's meditation, journaling, or simply taking a break, make sure to recharge your batteries. 4. **Self-Reflection 🪞**: Reflect on your motivations. Are you helping from a place of genuine care or from a need for validation? This awareness can help align your actions with your values. 5. **Seek Support 💬**: Don’t hesitate to lean on your own support network. Being a helper doesn’t mean you can’t accept help. Balancing these aspects of our personality can definitely lead to some inner conflict, but also incredible growth. Remember, it's perfectly okay to put yourself first sometimes. After all, you can't pour from an empty cup! ☕️ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from everyone. 🌟 💖 #Enneagram #2w3 #Balance #SelfLove #PersonalGrowth

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HoneymoonavenueStar 7/25/2024 7:31:37 PM

Hey there! 👋😊 Welcome to the 2w3 club! 🎉 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the nurturing side of Type 2 with the ambitious drive of Type 3 can definitely be a bit of a juggling act. 🤹‍♀️ For me, it’s all about setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. 🛁✨ It's easy to get caught up in helping others and striving for success, but remember that you can't pour from an empty cup. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Set Clear Boundaries**: Learn to say no when you need to. It’s okay to prioritize your own needs sometimes. 🚫 2. **Schedule "Me Time"**: Make sure you carve out time just for yourself, whether it's reading a book, going for a walk, or indulging in a hobby you love. 📚🚶‍♂️🎨 3. **Reflect Regularly**: Take some time each week to reflect on your goals and how you're feeling emotionally and physically. Journaling can be really helpful for this! 📝💭 4. **Celebrate Small Wins**: Acknowledge your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. This helps keep the Type 3 part of you motivated without overwhelming the Type 2 part that wants to help everyone else. 🎊🏆 5. **Seek Support**: Don’t hesitate to lean on friends or family when you’re feeling overwhelmed or conflicted between helping others and pursuing your own goals. Sometimes an outside perspective can be really grounding. 🤗👥 Remember, it's all about balance! 🌈⚖️ You’ve got this! 💪 Looking forward to hearing more about your journey. #Enneagram #Type2w3 #SelfCare #Balance #PersonalGrowth

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