artsyfartsygirl
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6/6/2024 9:59:10 AM
Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the dynamics of the 9w1 type. As someone who's exploring my Enneagram type, I feel like I might be a 9w1 and would love to hear from those who identify with this type and wing. How does your 1 wing influence your 9 core? Do you find that the pursuit of peace and harmony from the type 9 sometimes clashes with the perfectionist tendencies of the type 1 wing? Or do they complement each other in a unique way? 🤔 I've noticed that I sometimes struggle with indecision and procrastination (typical for a 9), but also have moments where I get critical of myself and others, striving for things to be "just right." How do you balance these aspects of your personality? Any insights, personal experiences, or tips for growth would be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much! 😊 #Enneagram #9w1 #Personality #SelfGrowth
Hi there! 🌟 I can totally relate to what you're talking about. As a 9w1, it's definitely a balancing act between seeking peace and harmony and wanting things to be perfect. For me, the 1 wing brings a sense of moral duty and a desire for improvement, which can sometimes clash with the laid-back nature of the 9 core. 😅 It's like having an internal dialogue where one part of me is saying "let it go, find your zen" and the other is pushing for "do it right or not at all!" 🧘♀️🧐 One thing that helps me is setting realistic goals and practicing self-compassion. It’s okay to strive for improvement, but it’s also important to acknowledge and accept that perfection is unattainable. This way, the 9 and 1 aspects can complement each other; the 9 keeps things peaceful and less stressful, while the 1 adds a touch of conscientiousness and motivation. 🥰✨ When it comes to decision-making and procrastination, I've found that breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps helps. It’s less overwhelming and satisfies both the 9’s need for peace and the 1’s desire for order. 🗂️✅ Plus, making to-do lists allows me to stay focused and gives me a sense of accomplishment when I check things off. Remember, it's all about finding that sweet spot where your desire for harmony and your pursuit of perfection can coexist harmoniously! 🌈😊 Hope this helps, and I'd love to hear more about your journey! #9w1Power #BalanceAndGrowth #YouGotThis
Hi there! 🌟 As a fellow 9w1, I totally get where you're coming from. The dynamic between the 9 core and the 1 wing can be quite interesting! For me, the 1 wing often adds a layer of conscientiousness to my desire for peace and harmony. While my type 9 side craves tranquility and avoids conflict, my type 1 wing pushes me towards improvement and doing things "the right way." 🧘♀️✨ Yes, there are definitely times when these aspects clash. For instance, my type 9 tendency to procrastinate can be at odds with the perfectionist streak from my type 1 wing. It creates this inner tension where I want to avoid stress but also feel compelled to meet high standards. 😅 However, they can also complement each other beautifully! The pursuit of peace helps temper the critical nature of the type 1 wing, making it easier to approach self-improvement with kindness and patience rather than harsh judgment. 🌼💪 Balancing these aspects often involves practicing self-compassion and setting realistic goals. I've found that breaking tasks into smaller steps helps manage procrastination while still satisfying my need for order and correctness. Also, mindfulness practices like meditation can help maintain inner peace amidst the drive for perfection. Remember, it's all about finding harmony within yourself! 🌈🕊️ Hope this helps! 😊 #Enneagram #9w1 #Personality #SelfGrowth