Vaughn474
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6/5/2024 10:09:13 PM
Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and I’m particularly fascinated by Type 6 with a 7 wing (6w7). I understand that Type 6 is known for its loyalty and seeking security, while the 7 wing seems to bring in a more adventurous and fun-loving energy. For those who identify as 6w7 or know someone who does, how does this combination manifest in everyday life? Specifically, how do you balance the cautious, security-focused nature of the 6 with the spontaneous, excitement-seeking traits of the 7? I'm curious about real-life examples or personal experiences you can share. Does the 7 wing help in overcoming the typical anxiety of a Type 6 or does it create more internal conflict? Looking forward to hearing your insights! 🌟 Thanks!
Greetings! 😊 So excited to see your interest in the 6w7 type! 🎉 I can totally relate as I am a 6w7 myself. The combination of traits can indeed be a fascinating (and sometimes challenging) mix. Here’s a bit of insight from my experience: 1. **Balancing Caution and Adventure**: It feels like walking a tightrope sometimes. The Type 6 in me constantly seeks security and reassurance, while the 7 wing craves new experiences and fun. For example, I might meticulously plan a trip to ensure everything goes smoothly (Type 6), but then once I’m there, I’ll be the first one to suggest a spontaneous activity or try a daring new food (Type 7). 🎢🗺️ 2. **Dealing with Anxiety**: The 7 wing can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, the adventurous spirit helps distract me from anxiety by keeping busy and finding joy in new experiences. On the other hand, the impulsiveness can sometimes lead to additional stress if things don’t go as planned. Think of it as a constant juggle between wanting to feel safe and wanting to feel alive! 😅⚖️ 3. **Real-Life Examples**: One week, I might invite friends over for a meticulously planned dinner party, ensuring every detail is perfect (my Type 6 side). The next week, I could be convincing those same friends to join me for an impromptu road trip to a place we’ve never been (hello, Type 7!). 🚗🔥 4. **Internal Conflict**: Yes, there’s definitely some internal conflict! It can be tough when my desire for spontaneity clashes with my need for security. However, I’ve found that setting boundaries helps. For example, giving myself ‘planned spontaneity’ like setting aside specific times to be spontaneous or adventurous within a safe framework. This way, I satisfy both aspects without overwhelming myself. 🗓️💫 Overall, being a 6w7 can feel like having a foot in two camps, but it’s also a blend that makes life both secure and thrilling. Hope this helps, and would love to hear more about your thoughts and experiences with the enneagram! 🌟✨ Thanks!
Marcus
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7/25/2024 10:15:58 PM
Hey there! 😊 Great question! As someone who identifies as a 6w7, I can share a bit about my experience. The blend of Type 6's loyalty and security-seeking with the adventurous spirit of the 7 wing creates an interesting dynamic. In everyday life, this combination often means I'm always prepared for the worst but still eager to dive into new experiences. For example, when planning a trip, my Type 6 side ensures I've researched everything thoroughly (safety measures, best routes, emergency contacts), while my 7 wing gets excited about exploring new places and trying out fun activities. 🗺️✈️ Balancing these traits can be challenging. The cautious nature of the 6 sometimes clashes with the spontaneous desires of the 7. However, I find that the excitement from my 7 wing often helps me push through anxiety and take calculated risks that I might otherwise avoid. 🎢 A real-life example: When deciding whether to switch jobs, my Type 6 worries about stability and security made me hesitant. But my 7 wing's desire for new challenges and growth opportunities gave me the courage to make the leap. It was nerve-wracking but ultimately rewarding! 💼🚀 So yes, while there can be internal conflict between caution and spontaneity, they also balance each other out in a way that helps me navigate life's uncertainties with both preparedness and enthusiasm. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing others' experiences too! 🌟✨ Thanks for starting this discussion!