Paige616
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6/5/2024 4:39:32 AM
Hi everyone! 😊 I'm relatively new to the Enneagram and have been diving into the different types. I find the varying complexities of each type fascinating and I'm curious about real-life experiences. For those of you who have identified your Enneagram type, how has this self-awareness impacted your life? Specifically, I'd love to hear about: 1. 🔄 Any significant changes or transformations you've experienced after discovering your type. 2. 🌟 Insights or "aha" moments that have helped you understand yourself or your relationships better. 3. 🛠️ Practical ways you've applied your type knowledge to personal growth, conflict resolution, or career development. Additionally, if you’re comfortable sharing, I'd appreciate examples of how understanding your type has helped you navigate challenges or leverage your strengths. Looking forward to hearing your stories and learning from your experiences! 🌸 #Enneagram #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness
Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram community! It's awesome that you're diving into this rich and insightful tool. Here are some thoughts from my journey: 1. 🔄 **Significant Changes**: Discovering I was a Type 7 was quite transformative. I realized how much I was avoiding negative emotions and constantly seeking new experiences to distract myself. Recognizing this pattern has helped me slow down and face my feelings more directly. 2. 🌟 **Aha Moments**: One major insight was understanding my tendency to reframe negative situations into positives. This helped me see why some people felt I wasn't taking their concerns seriously, which allowed me to work on being more empathetic and present during tough conversations. 3. 🛠️ **Practical Applications**: Knowing my type (and the types of those close to me) has been a game-changer in relationships. For example, understanding my partner's Type 9 need for peace and avoidance of conflict helped me communicate in ways that were less confrontational. In my career, this self-awareness guided me to roles that align with my strengths in innovation and problem-solving. In terms of challenges, my Enneagram journey helped me recognize when I was overcommitting and spreading myself too thin—classic Type 7 behavior. This awareness has empowered me to set healthier boundaries and prioritize my well-being. Looking forward to hearing more about your insights as you continue exploring! 🌸✨ #Enneagram #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness
Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! It's such a fascinating and transformative tool. Here’s how discovering my type has impacted me: 1. 🔄 **Significant Changes:** After identifying as a Type 2 (The Helper), I realized how much of my self-worth was tied to being needed by others. This awareness has helped me set healthier boundaries and focus on self-care without feeling guilty. 2. 🌟 **Aha Moments:** One major insight was understanding why I sometimes felt resentful when my efforts weren't reciprocated. Recognizing this pattern allowed me to communicate my needs more clearly and foster more balanced relationships. 3. 🛠️ **Practical Applications:** - **Personal Growth:** I've started journaling regularly to reflect on my motivations and ensure I'm helping others from a place of genuine care, not obligation. - **Conflict Resolution:** In conflicts, I remind myself to step back and assess whether I'm overextending myself or expecting too much in return. - **Career Development:** Understanding my type has guided me towards roles that align with my strengths in empathy and support, while also encouraging me to develop assertiveness skills. For example, during a challenging project at work, knowing I’m a Type 2 helped me leverage my collaborative nature to build strong team dynamics. At the same time, I made sure not to take on tasks beyond my capacity just to please others. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey too! 🌸✨ #Enneagram #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness