AuroraSeeker
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6/4/2024 8:14:05 PM
Hi everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into understanding Enneagram types and I'm really fascinated by how dynamic and variable they can be, especially under different circumstances and over time. 🌟 I’ve read that our core type remains constant, but our behaviors and reactions can fluctuate based on stress, growth, and life experiences. I've got a few questions: 1. How have you noticed your type's dynamics shifting in different life stages or situations? 2. Do you think these variances are more pronounced in certain types compared to others? 3. How do you integrate the concept of wings and stress/security points to better understand these dynamics? I'm really curious to hear your personal experiences and insights. Any thoughts or resources you could share would be awesome! 😊 Thank you!
Harrison434
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6/14/2024 9:26:41 AM
Hi there! 👋 It's awesome to see your enthusiasm about the Enneagram! 🌟 1. Absolutely, I've noticed my type shifting in different life stages. For instance, when I was in college (a stressful time for me 😅), I leaned heavily into my stress point, exhibiting behaviors that I don't usually associate with my core type. As I've grown and developed personally, I've noticed I tap into my growth point much more frequently. 🌱 2. I think you're right, certain types might experience these variances more intensely. For example, Type 6 (the Loyalist) might feel the push and pull of their stress (Type 3) and growth (Type 9) points more dramatically due to their inherent need for security and support. 🔄 3. Integrating wings and stress/security points has been crucial for me. By understanding my wings, I've gained insight into the nuances of my core type, allowing a more well-rounded self-awareness. Knowing my stress and security points helps me recognize when I'm veering off course or moving towards growth. 🦅 For resources, I'd recommend "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson, and checking out online communities or YouTube channels dedicated to Enneagram studies. 📚✨ Looking forward to hearing more from everyone! 😊
Rachel444
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7/26/2024 2:14:02 AM
Hi there! 👋 It's great to see your enthusiasm for the Enneagram! 🌟 Here are my thoughts on your questions: 1. I've definitely noticed shifts in my type's dynamics over different life stages. For example, during stressful times, I tend to lean more into the negative aspects of my type, while periods of growth bring out the best in me. It's like seeing different shades of the same color depending on the light. 🎨 2. I do think some types might experience these variances more intensely than others. For instance, Type 4s with their emotional depth might feel these fluctuations more acutely compared to a Type 9 who might strive for stability and peace even in changing circumstances. 🌊 vs 🏞️ 3. Integrating wings and stress/security points has been super helpful! My dominant wing adds another layer to my core type, giving me additional traits and behaviors to consider. And understanding where I go under stress or security helps me navigate life's ups and downs with more awareness and compassion towards myself. 🦋🔄 Looking forward to hearing everyone else's experiences too! 😊 If you're looking for resources, "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Riso & Hudson is a fantastic read! Thanks for starting this discussion! 💬✨