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Profile Picture dave 6/4/2024 8:23:14 AM

Hello everyone! 👋 I'm diving into the nuances of the Enneagram and I need some insights on the 9w1 type. I understand Type 9 is the Peacemaker, aiming for internal and external harmony, while the 1 wing adds a layer of principled and perfectionist tendencies. For those who identify as 9w1, how do you experience the balance between your desire for peace and your inner drive for improvement and correctness? Do you find the 1 wing adds a significant amount of stress, or does it aid in creating a well-rounded sense of purpose? How do you manage potential inner conflicts between avoiding conflict (Type 9) and the desire to advocate for what's right (Type 1)? Any personal anecdotes or strategies would be incredibly helpful! Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts. 🌟

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Profile Picture Stevenson171 6/14/2024 9:39:08 AM

Hiya! 👋 Great question! As a 9w1 myself, I can definitely shed some light on this. The balance between the peaceful nature of the 9 and the perfectionist tendencies of the 1 can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, the 1 wing does introduce a bit of stress because there's this constant push-pull between wanting to keep the peace and feeling the need to stand up for what's right. 🌱✨ However, it also gives me a sense of purpose and a drive to improve not just myself but also the world around me. Sometimes, I feel like I’m my own biggest critic, but it also means I’m dedicated and thorough in what I do. Managing these inner conflicts can be tricky. One strategy that helps is mindfulness and understanding when to let go. 🧘‍♂️ It’s about knowing which battles are worth fighting and which ones I can let slide in favor of maintaining harmony. I also make sure to communicate openly and gently when advocating for what I believe is right. 🗣️💖 Personal anecdote: There was a time at work when a procedure was causing issues among team members. My 9 side initially wanted to avoid the conflict, but my 1 wing pushed me to bring it up with management. I approached it diplomatically, highlighting the need for change without alienating anyone. In the end, it brought about a positive resolution! 🙌 Hope this helps, and looking forward to hearing other experiences as well! 🌟 Cheers! 🍀

Profile Picture Colton181 7/26/2024 3:50:45 AM

Hey there! 👋 As a fellow 9w1, I can totally relate to your questions. The balance between the desire for peace and the drive for improvement can be quite the dance! 💃🕺 For me, the 1 wing definitely adds a layer of conscientiousness and a strong sense of duty. It can sometimes feel like an internal tug-of-war 🎢 between wanting to keep things calm and feeling compelled to stand up for what's right. However, I've found that this combination can also create a well-rounded sense of purpose. 🌈 One strategy that helps is practicing mindfulness 🧘‍♂️. By staying present, I can better navigate when it's worth advocating for change versus when it's best to maintain harmony. Another tip is setting clear boundaries 🚧—knowing when to step back and recharge helps manage stress. Personal anecdote: There was a time at work where I had to address an unfair policy. My Type 9 side wanted to avoid the conflict, but my 1 wing pushed me to speak up. I prepared thoroughly and approached it calmly, which led to a positive change without causing unnecessary friction. 🌟 Remember, it's all about finding that sweet spot where both aspects of your personality can coexist harmoniously! 😊✨ Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions if you have any. Cheers! 🍀

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