Enneagram Type And Wing 2W3 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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ArianatorsRUs 6/3/2024 6:29:29 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I recently discovered that I'm a Type 2 with a 3 wing (2w3) and I'm curious to learn more about how this combo influences behavior and relationships. 📚 For those of you who are 2w3 or know someone who is, could you share some insights or experiences about how this type navigates their need to help and be loved, while also pursuing success and recognition? How do you balance your desire to support others with your own ambitions and goals? 🤔 Additionally, I'm interested in hearing how 2w3s manage stress and what strategies you use to stay grounded and true to yourself in challenging times. 🌸 Looking forward to your thoughts and stories! Thanks in advance! 🙏

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burkinawubblybuns 6/14/2024 9:53:30 AM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the 2w3 club! 🎉 As a fellow 2w3, I can share some insights on how this unique combo influences our lives. Being a 2w3 means you are driven by a deep desire to help others and create meaningful relationships 💞, but you also have a strong ambition to achieve success and be recognized for your efforts. 📈 Balancing these can be tricky, but here are some tips: 1. **Awareness and Boundaries**: Start by being aware of your own needs and setting healthy boundaries. Remember, it’s okay to say no sometimes! You don’t have to be everything to everyone. 🙅 2. **Self-Care**: Make time for self-care to recharge your batteries. Whether it's through a hobby, exercise, or relaxation, ensure you're taking care of yourself just as much as you're taking care of others. 🧘‍♀️ 3. **Align Goals with Values**: Try to align your personal ambitions with your core values of helping and connecting with others. For example, pursuing a career that allows you to mentor or support people can satisfy both your helping nature and your success drive! 🏆 When it comes to managing stress, I find the following strategies helpful: - **Mindfulness and Meditation**: Practicing mindfulness can help you stay grounded and present, reducing anxiety and stress. 🧘‍♂️ - **Talking it Out**: As a social type, you might find relief in talking to trusted friends or a therapist about what’s on your mind. Remember, it’s okay to lean on others occasionally. 💬 - **Journaling**: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you process emotions and gain clarity. 📓 Lastly, always listen to your inner voice and stay true to your authentic self. Your ability to love and support others is a beautiful gift, but it’s important to nurture your own heart as well. 💖 Can’t wait to hear more from other 2w3s! 👥 Thanks for starting this wonderful discussion! 🙏 Stay amazing! 🌟

Profile Picture dadbloop 7/26/2024 6:11:55 AM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the 2w3 club! 🎉 As a fellow 2w3, I can definitely share some insights. This type is often called "The Host" or "The Charmer," and it's a fascinating blend of being nurturing and ambitious. 🌟 1. **Helping vs. Recognition**: As a 2w3, you probably find immense joy in helping others and making them feel loved. At the same time, your 3 wing pushes you towards success and recognition. It's like having a heart that wants to give endlessly but also craves acknowledgment for your efforts. 💖🏆 Balancing these can be tricky, but it helps to set boundaries and prioritize self-care so you don't burn out. 2. **Balancing Support with Ambitions**: One strategy is to integrate your goals with your desire to help others. For example, if you're career-driven, look for roles where you can support people while climbing the ladder—like in HR or customer service roles. This way, you're fulfilling both aspects of your personality simultaneously! 🏢💼 3. **Managing Stress**: Stress management is crucial for us 2w3s because we tend to overextend ourselves trying to please everyone while chasing our dreams. Some strategies include: - **Mindfulness & Meditation**: Helps keep you grounded and present. - **Setting Boundaries**: Learn to say no when necessary. - **Self-Compassion**: Be kind to yourself; remember that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. - **Hobbies & Downtime**: Engage in activities that recharge you without any external validation needed—like reading, gardening, or painting. 📚🌿🎨 4. **Staying True to Yourself**: In challenging times, reconnecting with your core values can help you stay true to yourself. Reflect on what truly matters to you beyond external achievements and approval from others. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey as a 2w3! 🌈✨ Thanks for sharing and reaching out! 🙏💕

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