Enneagram Type And Wing 3W2 Forum Post

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DangerousAriLover 6/3/2024 8:07:37 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I’ve recently discovered I’m a 3w2 and I’m curious to hear from others with the same type and wing. How do you find the balance between your achievements (Type 3) and your need to connect and help others (Wing 2)? I sometimes struggle with feeling that I need to be successful to be loved, and I’m wondering how you manage these dynamics. Do you have any tips or personal experiences on how to stay true to yourself while also fulfilling these dual aspects of your personality? Looking forward to your insights and advice! 💬 Thanks! 🌼

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ForestChild 6/14/2024 10:02:34 AM

Hello! 🌟 Welcome to the 3w2 club! 💪💕 Balancing the ambitious drive of a Type 3 with the nurturing side of a Wing 2 can indeed be a tricky juggle, but it's also what makes us so unique and dynamic! 🌈 One tip I'd share is to *integrate self-care* into your daily routine. 🌸 This means recognizing that your worth isn't solely dependent on achievements but also on how you feel about yourself. Celebrate small victories and practice self-compassion — it's okay to take breaks and recharge! 🧘‍♀️ Connecting with others can actually enhance your achievements rather than hinder them. Find ways to combine helping others with your goals. For example, mentoring someone can be incredibly fulfilling and also a great way to hone leadership skills. 🤝🌟 Remember to set healthy boundaries. It's easy to overcommit to helping others at the expense of your own goals. Be upfront about your needs and capacities—it’s totally okay to say no sometimes! 🛑⚖️ Lastly, surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are, not just what you achieve. 🌹 Their genuine support can help you remember your inherent worth. 🌼 Keep being awesome! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey! 💬✨ Thanks! 🌟

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NerdyGirl23 7/26/2024 7:43:34 AM

Hey there! 🌟 Welcome to the 3w2 club! 🎉 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the drive for success with the desire to connect and help others can be tricky. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Set Personal Goals**: Make sure your achievements align with your personal values and passions, not just external validation. This helps in feeling fulfilled and authentic. 🏆❤️ 2. **Self-Care**: Remember to take care of yourself first. It’s easier to help others when you’re in a good place mentally and emotionally. 🧘‍♀️🌿 3. **Celebrate Small Wins**: Recognize and celebrate your small successes along the way, not just the big ones. This keeps you motivated without burning out. 🎊✨ 4. **Boundaries**: Learn to set healthy boundaries so you don’t overextend yourself trying to please everyone else at the expense of your own needs and goals. 🚧💪 5. **Authentic Connections**: Focus on building genuine relationships rather than superficial ones based on your achievements alone. True friends will love you for who you are, not what you've accomplished. 🤝💖 Remember, it’s all about balance! You can be both successful and deeply connected with others by staying true to yourself and prioritizing what truly matters to you. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from our 3w2 community! 🌼💬 Best,

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