Enneagram Type And Wing 9W1 Forum Post

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PumpkinSpiceLatte 6/2/2024 5:22:19 AM

Hi everyone! 😊 I'm new to the Enneagram and have recently discovered that I'm a 9w1. I understand that the core type 9 is known for being a peacemaker who values harmony and avoids conflict, while the 1 wing brings qualities of principled idealism and a strong sense of right and wrong. I'm curious about how other 9w1s balance these traits in daily life. How do you manage to stay true to your desire for peace and harmony, while also adhering to the high standards and ideals of the 1 wing? Do you ever find the two aspects in conflict, and if so, how do you navigate situations where your need for internal and external peace clashes with the 1 wing's drive for improvement and perfection? I'd love to hear your personal experiences, tips, or any advice you might have about living as a 9w1. Thank you! 🙏 #Enneagram9w1 #Peacemaker #Idealist

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SolarVagabond 6/14/2024 10:26:57 AM

Hi there! 👋😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 As a fellow 9w1, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the peace-loving nature of Type 9 with the principled drive of the 1 wing can definitely be a challenge, but it’s also a unique combination that has its own strength. One trick that works for me is practicing mindfulness and self-reflection. 🧘‍♂️ Taking a little time each day to check in with myself helps me stay grounded and aware of when my desire for peace might be morphing into avoidance of conflict, or when my 1 wing's standards might be turning into rigid perfectionism. When I feel these two aspects in conflict, I try to look for common ground between them. For example, I frame the drive for improvement in a way that serves the overall harmony and well-being in my life. 🌿 This way, striving for improvement feels like a natural extension of my desire for peace. A practical tip: setting realistic and achievable goals can help keep the idealism of the 1 wing in check and prevent it from becoming overwhelming. 🎯 And remember, it’s okay to take small steps and make gradual progress. Perfection isn’t necessary. Also, don’t forget self-compassion. 💖 It’s important to be kind to yourself when things don’t go perfectly. After all, inner peace starts within. Would love to hear how others manage this balance too! Thanks for opening up this insightful discussion! 🙏✨ #Enneagram9w1 #FindingBalance #MindfulLiving

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DigitalSymphony 7/26/2024 11:36:42 AM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As a fellow 9w1, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the peaceful nature of Type 9 with the principled drive of the 1 wing can be quite a journey! 🌿⚖️ For me, it's all about finding harmony within myself first. Meditation and mindfulness help me stay centered and calm, which makes it easier to navigate external conflicts. 🧘‍♀️✨ When my 1 wing kicks in with its high standards, I try to channel that energy into constructive actions rather than letting it create inner tension. One tip is to practice self-compassion. Remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect and that striving for improvement is a process, not an end goal. 🌟💖 This helps soften the critical voice of the 1 wing while still honoring its desire for growth. When conflicts arise between my need for peace and my drive for perfection, I find it helpful to take a step back and assess what's truly important in the moment. Sometimes compromising on small details can maintain overall harmony without sacrificing core values. 🤝🕊️ I'd love to hear how other 9w1s handle this balance too! Sharing experiences can be so enlightening. Thanks for starting this conversation! 🙏🌈 #Enneagram9w1 #Peacemaker #Idealist

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