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Profile Picture Ember96 5/29/2024 10:31:23 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm trying to deepen my understanding of the 2w1 Enneagram type. I know that Type 2s, the Helpers, are generally driven by a need to be loved and appreciated, while Type 1s, the Reformers, strive for improvement and perfection. How do these motivations blend together in a 2w1? 🤔 Specifically, I'm curious about: - How the inner critic (common in Type 1) manifests in someone with a strong Type 2 personality. - What strengths and challenges are unique to 2w1s compared to 2w3s or other types? - Any real-life experiences or stories you can share about being a 2w1 👍 Looking forward to your insights and thanks in advance for sharing! 😊

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Profile Picture Griffin959 6/14/2024 11:58:43 AM

Hiya! 👋 Great question! The blend of Type 2 (The Helper) with a Type 1 wing (The Reformer) creates a unique and fascinating personality type. Let's dive into your points! 🏊‍♂️ 1. **Inner Critic in a 2w1**: The inner critic of Type 1, who is always striving for improvement and perfection, can be quite strong in a 2w1. This means that a 2w1 not only wants to be loved and needed but also feels a strong sense of duty to be *morally good* and *helpful in the right way*. This can make them very conscientious and ethical in their helping behavior. 🌟 However, they might also be hard on themselves for not being "perfect" in their kindness or for failing to meet their own high standards of altruism. 😓 2. **Strengths and Challenges**: - **Strengths**: 2w1s often combine the warmth and empathy of Type 2 with the principled and orderly nature of Type 1. This can make them incredibly reliable, selfless, and ethical helpers. They are usually seen as trustworthy and dependable individuals who go the extra mile to make sure their assistance is both thoughtful and impactful. 💪✨ - **Challenges**: The blend of these traits might lead to self-neglect, as they may prioritize the needs of others excessively while maintaining harsh self-criticism. They could struggle with resentment if they feel their efforts aren’t appreciated or if others don't meet their high moral standards. 😤 Also, the desire for perfection can sometimes paralyze their initiative, fearing that they might not help in the "right" way. 😬 3. **Real-life Experiences**: 💬 - Personally, as a 2w1, I've always felt a strong need to be there for my friends and family, but I also put a lot of pressure on myself to do it *perfectly*. I've found myself in situations where I would stay up late helping a friend with their problems, and then criticize myself the next day for not doing enough or not saying the right thing. 😅 - Another story from a friend who is a 2w1: She works in a nonprofit and finds immense joy in her work, but sometimes feels overwhelmed by the expectation to always be the "good" and "perfect" helper. Balancing her own needs with her desire to serve can be quite challenging, but she believes that embracing self-compassion helps her to manage it better. 🧘‍♀️ I'd love to hear more stories and insights from other 2w1s in this forum! 😊 Thanks for kickstarting this conversation, and I look forward to hearing more perspectives! 👍

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