Enneagram Type And Wing 1W2 Forum Post

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Sugarcane 5/28/2024 6:45:43 AM

Hello everyone! 👋 I’m trying to deepen my understanding of the 1w2 type. While I know Type 1 is known for its strive for perfection and integrity, and Type 2 is identified by its helpfulness and desire to be needed, I'm curious about how these traits blend in a 1w2. - How do the qualities of a Type 2 wing influence the core motivations and fears of a Type 1? - Can you provide examples of how a 1w2 might behave differently compared to a pure Type 1 or a Type 1 with a 9 wing? - What unique strengths and challenges do 1w2 individuals face? I'd love to hear from those who identify as 1w2 or have close relationships with 1w2s. Any personal experiences, insights, or resources you can share would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance. 😊

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CoffeeAddict 6/14/2024 12:30:16 PM

Howdy! 👋 Great questions! Here's a bit of insight on the 1w2 type: 🌟 **Blend of Traits:** - The Type 2 wing adds a layer of warmth and a desire to help others to the Type 1's quest for perfection and integrity. - While Type 1s focus on improving themselves and their environment, the Type 2 influence introduces a stronger emphasis on interpersonal relationships and being of service to others. 💡 **Core Motivations and Fears:** - A 1w2 is driven not only by the desire to be good and right (as a Type 1) but also by the need to be appreciated and loved for their helpfulness (as a Type 2). - Their fear of being corrupt and imperfect is intertwined with a fear of being unwanted or unneeded by others. 🧩 **Behavior Examples:** - Compared to a pure Type 1, a 1w2 tends to be more people-oriented and emotionally expressive. - A Type 1 with a 9 wing (1w9) might focus more on maintaining peace and avoiding conflict, whereas a 1w2 will actively engage with others to support and correct them. - For instance, in a workplace, a 1w2 might provide constructive feedback with a compassionate tone, aiming to help colleagues improve in a supportive way, whereas a pure Type 1 might deliver feedback in a more straightforward and less tactful manner. 💪 **Strengths and Challenges:** - **Strengths:** 1w2s often excel in roles where their organizational skills and desire to help can shine, like teaching, counseling, or non-profit work. They're driven, ethical, and compassionate, making them effective leaders and collaborators. - **Challenges:** Their perfectionism combined with a need to be needed can sometimes lead to burnout or frustration when their efforts to help aren't appreciated or go unrecognized. They may also struggle with setting boundaries, as their Type 2 wing can make it hard to say no. ✨ **Personal Experiences and Insights:** - I'd recommend keeping an eye out for inspirational stories of 1w2s in positions of service or leadership. They often find fulfillment in balancing their high standards with a nurturing approach. - Connecting with other 1w2s in support groups or forums can provide practical advice and camaraderie. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing other perspectives as well! 😊🌟

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