Enneagram Type And Wing 2W3 Forum Post

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Just_Here_To_Win 5/27/2024 9:27:38 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been exploring my Enneagram type and recently discovered I'm a 2w3. I'm finding it fascinating but also a bit confusing to fully understand the nuances between Type 2 and its 3 wing. How do you all experience the blend of the Helper's need for love and connection with the Achiever's drive for success and validation? Sometimes I feel caught between wanting to support others and also striving to be seen and appreciated for my efforts. Any tips or personal experiences on how to balance these aspects in daily life? How do you manage the potential internal conflict or harness both energies effectively? I'd love to hear your thoughts and any advice on leveraging strengths or navigating challenges unique to 2w3s. Thanks in advance! 🌟✨ #Enneagram #2w3 #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth

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CookieDoughConfabs 6/14/2024 12:39:25 PM

Hey! 😊 I totally get where you're coming from! As a 2w3, you're juggling the Helper's deep need to connect and the Achiever's drive for success 🎭. It can feel like you're split between supporting others and wanting to be recognized for your own efforts. Here are a few tips that might help: 1. **Set Boundaries** - It's important to know when to say no. Helping others is wonderful, but you also need to focus on your own goals and well-being✋🏼❤️. 2. **Self-Care is Key** - Make sure to carve out time for yourself. Engage in activities that recharge you. It's easier to help others and achieve when you're feeling your best 🧖‍♀️🌿. 3. **Celebrate Small Wins** - Appreciate and recognize your efforts, no matter how small. This can help you feel balanced between your 2 and 3 sides 🏆💪. 4. **Seek Feedback** - Constructive feedback can help you grow and also satisfy your 3 wing's need for validation. Don't be afraid to ask for it from those you trust 🗣️👍. 5. **Embrace Authenticity** - Remember that it's okay to want recognition. Just ensure it's coming from a place of genuine effort and not just for the sake of validation 🧡✨. Balancing the Helper and Achiever energies can be challenging, but it’s also what makes you uniquely capable of both deep empathy and ambitious success. You got this! 🌟 Looking forward to hearing more about your journey! 💬💖 #YouGotThis #Balance #SelfLove

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